Are libra men selfish and shallow?

I dated a libra man for awhile on and off. I was totally nuts for him but slowly I have seen more of what he is about with the acts of appearing and disappearing. Yesterday I got some amazing news about a new job and he didnt even say congrats on Facebook. We had agreed to be friends and both make an effort. I know it bothers me because I still like him and I shouldnt. Is this common for Libras to be like this?

Posted by spoiledtaurus
I dated a libra man for awhile on and off. I was totally nuts for him but slowly I have seen more of what he is about with the acts of appearing and disappearing. Yesterday I got some amazing news about a new job and he didnt even say congrats on Facebook. We had agreed to be friends and both make an effort. I know it bothers me because I still like him and I shouldnt. Is this common for Libras to be like this?

he doesn't care about your new job. nothing wrong with him.

I would have at least had the decency to be cordial and wish a friend a congrats. It is the nice thing to do

maybe he doesn't like you as much as you like him.

If you aren't tickling their fancy, yes they come off as selfish and shallow.

Libras generally don't really partake in social media all that often, either. It's kind of hard to base their behavior on social media. However, if it was something like you'd texted him and said something about a new job, then yes, he's being selfish.

And honestly, any time I saw behavior like this from a Libra that I was involved with and had decided to be "just friends" they stopped being as caring and attentive as they were when they were interested.

Examples-

Flaking a shit ton on plans when they had been pretty good previously.
Belated or no birthday wishes unlike before.
Shitty support when times got rough and less than stellar responses (if any) to good news.

Some of these guys flat out skip the "friend" status and just shuffle you into the "acquaintance zone." ESPECIALLY if they're young and immature. If you aren't doing SOMETHING for them, whether it be emotionally or sexually, they have no use for you and you'll be lucky to hear from them on a semi regular basis, if that. They put forth minimum effort so they can't be seen as the bad guy for truly expressing where you DO (or don't) stand with them.

Dude really isn't into you and you may want to readjust any sort of expectations of him... to like zero.

He's just not into you. Besides, why are you basing his personality because of FB? lol Maybe he didn't even see your status message. Some people on FB are more of the lurker type. I don't always comment on my friend's updates or whatever they post but sometimes, I do send private messages.

Im very Libra (cusp Virgo sun, rising, mercury) and do not do friendship after romance ends.. they become an acquaintance at best. (Funny, I'd thought that was my Scorpio Venus.. maybe is a Libra thing.) I seriously dated, talked marriage w a Libra guy for four years. I broke it off because of how selfish and self-centered he was. I was constantly bending over backward for him and jumping through hoops. Nothing I needed or wanted was important ever.

I think he does not care about u as much as u think 😢 sorry i dated a libra man,he very often care and ask me a lot about my job ,my family ,my life, or how is my day going....etc.and listen very carefully and give me his advices ...libra man is very caring man.
The same for my libra male friend.

Anyway fb is not really life,if its happened the same in real life,u can say he does not care about u.cuz I know most of man they don't care much about fbook like us. 🙂