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Signed Up: Jan 29, 2011
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Ok. I'm reminded yet again that this sign is weak because when one looks for validation from others for everything. Here are 2 instances I came across from 2 different libra guys.
1. Hiding his relationship status from the beginning of school year.I thought that maybe he's a wannabe playboy and was hiding it from the girls in class for that reason, but it's beyond me why he was hiding it from the guys as well. From the beginning, his behaviour wasn't adding up to me and I was getting a weird vibe from him. It's funny because although the guy is super cute, I just never felt the need to speak to him more than necessary. Even when he spoke to me in his usual libra charming way, something about him turned me off. I was curious to see why I was reacting this way to him, so we became facebook friends, and he has really strict settings. You can't see anything anyone posts on his wall. One day his cousin tagged him in a pic with a girl, who he isn't touching at all, but the close proximity gave it away that she may be his gf. Something about the picture gave me that idea. The girl is the pic looks like a 30 something year old woman while this guy is 24. I was second guessing myself because she really does look that old, espeically in comparison to him. I told the other libra guy friend who kept telling me that I'm just being paranoid blah blah blah and he even thought she was too old for him and how he wouldn't date someone that old. I went on the girl's fb which is open. I saw bunch of pics of her. She's a cute libra chick, but really fat. Once again from the pics, I was second guessing myself because she's good enough to be his aunt. Anyway, I finally came across a pic of them together to prove that I was right. Makes me incredibly happy that my sixth sense was picking up on the douchebaggery that was hidden under his sweet demeanor. What pisses me off is his TOTALLY UNNECESSARY LIE!! He flatters a lot of us, but doesn't go overboard, so it's beyond me why he would lie. I can think of 2 things: 1. My other libra guy friend said that it's because he's too embarrassed to be associated with her, and feels pressured to have a hot gf that doesn't look like his aunt; or 2) he's waiting for something "better" before he relinquishes her. I truly feel for this woman. Now since I'm the only one that knows, I feel like cussing him off and embarrassing him in class. I bet my libra ex did shit like this too, and I wish someone had told me what he was doing behind my back

Aquarius09

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2. The second libra guy classmate keeps showing me pictures of various chicks he likes and wants to date. One day when he asked me to check out a girl, I was like if you think she's hot, then that's all that matters. Why do you need to show me?" He said the most aggravating garbage to me. He goes, "Well, I think she's hot, but I want others to think she's hot as well for her to be my gf". I got annoyed and I was like, "not everyone is going to find these chicks hot. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". He goes, "yeah, well for her to be my gf, majority of the ppl have to find her hot".

I told him that I'm hanging up the phone because if I stay on the phone, I'll drop his low self-esteem even lower.

I wish I hadn't mellowed out with age because otherwise I'd tell him to go look in the mirror before expecting a universal beauty. Stupid idiot!

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Posted by tiziani
You sound like you're also a little guilty of making yourself miserable with you own morality though aquarius09 (which I have done many times anyway myself).

For one, the first guy definitely is waiting for something better. Classic Libra behaviour. But you don't know the arrangement they have or what she's wanting out of it, so it's really between them. Not sure what is driving you to read so much into it.

The second Libra was just giving you the god's honest truth about how he feels and you don't want to accept his answer or who he is. Case closed really.

The reason I read so much into the first scenario is because this guy was flirting with me at the beginning and played the whole I'm single card. My sixth sense was always telling me to be wary of him. I just wanted something solid instead of a gut instinct. Also, I feel for the poor gf. I guess I relate because my libra ex did similar shit behind my back. A weak man does shit like that, not a real man.

The second libra is just an example to show you what weak behaviour is and looks like, especially to a non-libra. When I saw this OP, I was thinking of scenarios like this, but I saw all these defences coming from libra, in exception ofyou. REasons as to why a libra pulls nonsense like this could be whatever, but fact of the matter is that IT IS WEAK NONSENSE.

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Yes, they are.

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Lol @ fat gf who looks like an aunt.

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Missed far too much of this thread and cant be bothered to catch up but has anyone actually defined weakness? If everyones definition is different then the answers are irrelevent.

What one person percieves as strength another could class as a weakness. Is it weak to walk away from someone who isnt right for you. Or is it weak to not walk and to stay and try and.make it.work? It is weak to be over emotional.or is it weak to deny your feelings and hide them? is it weak to have many faults and admit to them or weak to have few which you deny?

Not really after an answer just thinking out loud lol

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