Are there signs of bad luck in love & sex?

Hey there, this is my first posting on dxpnet. Ive been on this site many times tho trying to look for some kind of answer to my relationship problems.. Im at my wits end here. So i was wondering if there are signs in one's birth chart signalling bad luck in love, relationships & sexuality.. Ive heard that having lilith in the first house can be trouble.. i have that placement. Can anyone help me with this? Any thoughts? This is my birth chart..

Sun Libra 17.12 Ascendant Gemini 17.27
Moon Virgo 18.14
Mercury Libra 11.00
Venus Virgo 22.03
Mars Cancer 22.27
Jupiter Cancer 5.49
Saturn Leo 27.17
Uranus Scorpio 10.35
Neptune Sagittarius 13.57
Pluto Libra 14.14 Midheaven Pisces 13.45
Lilith Gemini 18.59
Asc node Libra 15.08

Blame Venus in Virgo

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Blame Venus in Virgo

Really? why?

But hey OP, i'm also libra sun, venus virgo and gem rising! What makes you feel like you have bad luck?

First sign of bad luck in relationships: posting on DXP.

Posted by Damnata
First sign of bad luck in relationships: posting on DXP.

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Posted by ANRivas2

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Blame Venus in Virgo

Really? why?

But hey OP, i'm also libra sun, venus virgo and gem rising! What makes you feel like you have bad luck?

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From my experience with Virgo women- don't always make the best choices in love and they kinda represent the old school female mentality when it comes to relationships. So if they chose poorly and the guy sucks, they won't get out of it asap. They self sacrifice a tad in love and relationships.

But that's been my observation. No idea if it's strictly what Virgo women do according to astrology.

Other than that, I don't think her chart has shit to do with her poor choices in relationships, "Luck" is some of it, but the rest is personal choices and lack of paying attention to the usual red flags when avoiding assholes.

Well I have my Venus in Aries and my libra have his Venus in libra

So far so good, I'm not too sure the Venus is the problem, it could be the moon portion of the chart

JMO

I figure since the moon is in charge of how you react to things it could influence your Venus, that just my guess

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by ANRivas2

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Blame Venus in Virgo

Really? why?

But hey OP, i'm also libra sun, venus virgo and gem rising! What makes you feel like you have bad luck?

From my experience with Virgo women- don't always make the best choices in love and they kinda represent the old school female mentality when it comes to relationships. So if they chose poorly and the guy sucks, they won't get out of it asap. They self sacrifice a tad in love and relationships.

But that's been my observation. No idea if it's strictly what Virgo women do according to astrology.

Other than that, I don't think her chart has shit to do with her poor choices in relationships, "Luck" is some of it, but the rest is personal choices and lack of paying attention to the usual red flags when avoiding assholes.

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This is something we Virgos should look after. In our mind martyrdom is noble and dignified.

Furthest thing from the truth

Hey guys! Thanks for answering my post 🙂 yeah i agree dat my venus in virgo is causing some of d problems in my relationship.. i can be over critical of my partner but it is all from good intention, really, i just want him to be the best that he can be. At least thats the way i see it. But i realize this is a trait that nobody likes.. its misunderstood by other party most of the time. And what Damnata & rockyroadicecream says is true too. I tend to selfsacrifice in most things for the person i love. To me this is how i show my love, i dont really know another way. I feel very deeply but i cant express myself in words, i sound weird when i do lol i dunno.. Can i change this? Should i?

Omg I did some further reading and i found this to be the exact description of what im goin thru right now!
"If the Neptune conjunct Descendant native has a strongly cardinal or fire element dominated chart (this is true of me in general, but also my Neptune/Descendant conjunction is in Sagittarius), she will typically adopt the savior role and find herself involved with tragic figures. This is a semiconscious procedure; few people deliberately saddle themselves with such a frustrating burden. The native falls in love with someone she truly feels she can help, someone who just needs a little propping up here and there in order to be ideal. Only when the illusion begins to crack does she see that her partners often do not wish to be saved, and are in the state they're in because of their refusal to help themselves. The native inevitably becomes the target of her lover's anger and frustration. They expect loving gratitude but generally end up with their mate's misplaced fury instead, as they lash out in fear at the Neptune/Descendant native who is "forcing" them to change. As a direct result of her choice of partner, the aspected individual will be continually punished, verbally attacked and emotionally blackmailed, when all she offered was loving help. If her misguided fantasy is not realized for what it is, under the burden of relationships with such victims the potential savior eventually becomes a martyr-- loving and supporting thanklessly until she is run into the ground and destroyed."
My neptune conjuncts my descendent in sagitarius.. Oh why

Interesting...some of this is true of me too. Not the self-sacrifice as much, but i am definitely overcritical and sometimes try to "fix' my loved ones.

Posted by jennycodehero

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Hey guys! Thanks for answering my post 🙂 yeah i agree dat my venus in virgo is causing some of d problems in my relationship.. i can be over critical of my partner but it is all from good intention, really, i just want him to be the best that he can be. At least thats the way i see it. But i realize this is a trait that nobody likes.. its misunderstood by other party most of the time. And what Damnata & rockyroadicecream says is true too. I tend to selfsacrifice in most things for the person i love. To me this is how i show my love, i dont really know another way. I feel very deeply but i cant express myself in words, i sound weird when i do lol i dunno.. Can i change this? Should i?

i can really relate to how you feel. we both have our sun in libra and our moon in virgo. i've always felt like there is a disconnect between my feelings and my ability to share and communicate with others. i'm not sure if that's what you're feeling. but you're not alone!

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Hey jennycodehero! Yeah i guess our moon makes us seem emotionless to other people.. I dont think im cold or emotionless really! I happen to feel very deeply but i just feel awkward in emotional situations, like i dont know what to say coz i dont wana say the wrong thing.. Whereas i hv friends with other moon signs who just expresses themselves so naturally! I envy that.. but i think this is something that we can work on, slowly 😉

Posted by ANRivas2
Interesting...some of this is true of me too. Not the self-sacrifice as much, but i am definitely overcritical and sometimes try to "fix' my loved ones.

Hmm.. I think the self sacrifice is prob my mars in cancer. The overcritical definitely comes from the virgo venus plus the virgo moon, it may also explain my ocd lol