Asking a Libra Male out?

Should you ask a libra male out—?? or any male for that matter—??

Sure... why not? Especially with a Libra, you could wait a long time for us to make the first move. If you want to ask him out, do it.

Thanks for your input.......the reason I am a little gun shy has to do with a cancer male.....when I asked him out.....he asked "why" and then asked if I wanted a yes or no answer or could he get back to me......I said he could get back to me.....but he never did....and I never called him on it.....

I have made the call and will now deal with the consequences....just hoping that he the nice guy I think he is.....if he isn't interested hopefully he will at least be flattered 🙂 and I can then go on with my life not wondering "what if"

Im a libra woman, slightly dating a libra man. By me being taught that the man should always pursue the woman, i wouldn't have suggested that you ask him. I would've placed an innocent phone call just to see how his day was going, gradually aking about his plans for the week or weekend, i would hint at my favorite places to eat or mention my need to get out the house, jus to help get the ball rolling. However this IS a libra male, so he will need that extra shove. I would've suggested we hang out as friends so he wont feel like im jumping the ball. Libra men need pursuading to feel like they have the green light on pursueing you. But just like all men, they love a good chase. 😉

I think pink has a really good point but as a libra guy I really have to know they are interested. Otherwise I feel like I am begging, and I have a job thanks 🙂 So if you feel comfortable ask him out, if not, dont be afraid to show a little playful interest. If he shows you your on his mind, albeit subtly, then build from there.

libras all prefer to be asked out, male and female alike. even if he's not interested, he'll end up liking you more as a person than he would've otherwise. and if he says yes, things will go better than if he'd asked. when libras feel wanted, they warm up way quicker than when they wonder about just how into them the other person is. we hate having to prove ourselves. a libra will instantly like someone more if that person likes them than they'd like them otherwise, whether on a dating level or just socializing.

yep just beat around the bush you should be golden

Well, I think I have learned a very important lesson......not about libra's but about men in general.....well at least the ones in my age category.....the few I have encountered have neither a back bone or any common courtesy when it comes to how to treat people.....and they are single for a reason.....

It doesn't matter what their sign is, it all comes down to how they in fact were raised and how they have been hurt in life......

I casually asked a libra man out....he is 45.....I confirmed he is single.....and I get the fact that he might not be interested.....have I heard from him no......its been a week.....but he did call a mutual friend and wanted that friend to have his girlfriend let me know that he doesn't really go out?

Seriously all I asked was if he wanted to catch a movie or go for coffee sometime.....not a hard question to answer.....I would think......and to drag mutual friends into it tells me alot about this guy.....

I have now come to my own conclusion about him.....and I have decided that I will never ask a man out again....whatever his sign......at least the one silver lining in all of this is that I have learned more about myself and people in general.....and in regards to this one particular man....he has saved me the trouble and time in wanting to get to know him any further....and in that I can at least be thankful

It took me nearly 12 dates/ get-togethers of initiating to get a Libra male to finally suggest that 'we should hang out again'. Stubborn aren't I? He did most of the calling and texting, I'd ignore him otherwise. For a minute there I thought he didn't have the bone in him to actually suggest doing anything or spending anytime. I didn't bother too much with the guess work of whether he liked me or not, but when he decided he did, the connection was nowhere in the dark. Good luck!

Posted by Lady Aries
It took me nearly 12 dates/ get-togethers of initiating to get a Libra male to finally suggest that 'we should hang out again'. Stubborn aren't I? He did most of the calling and texting, I'd ignore him otherwise. For a minute there I thought he didn't have the bone in him to actually suggest doing anything or spending anytime. I didn't bother too much with the guess work of whether he liked me or not, but when he decided he did, the connection was nowhere in the dark. Good luck!

OMG! You're a star! I'm so struggling with this situation right now. He doesn't ask me but he initiates 80% of the texting. Even if it is an answer to something I said previously. Wondering how things went for you haha