Assistance with Libra female

This topic was created in the Libra forum by virgo4real on Tuesday, May 12, 2009 and has 2 replies.

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@virgo4real
17 Years

I work with this Libra lady and she has lots of male friends. Recently she has been paying me some attention even though I don't go out of my way to talk to her. I've heard that Libras like to flirt alot and my question is how do you tell between the Libra that's flirting with you and the one that's really interested?

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Very very good question, virgo4real.
Truth is, you may never know. There are many kinds of Libra behaviour, and Libra foil techniques.
If anything, Libra may not be a straightforward sign as you may expect. They play on subtlety.
Sometimes they flirt harder with you because you're just a friend; some Libras ignore and avoid those they like.
Sometimes, it's the other way around.
But since you're only in the beginning stages, maybe you should play it cool first.
Because, coming on too strong can have the opposite effect on a Libran - push them away to someone else. They may figure, if you like them so much, you'll always be there, so they can explore other territory first.

But, once the ice stage is over, you can know their interest by the amount of attention and sacrifice they pay unto you. They won't neglect you for someone else; you are the focal point of their thoughts, and actions. In other words, you feel really special, and not in the friend way.

And there's that cliche light in her eyes, and that glow, and smile. When she smiles alot around you, you can be sure you're on to something.

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@virgo4real
17 Years

Thank you Spica(Very interesting name you have),

I've actually been taking things slow as you've mentioned and hopefully the moment when I should step things up will present itself.