Birthday in 10 days..Should I wish him??

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So for people unfamiliar with my situation,you could look up to my very previous post to get a rough idea if you want.Anyway,so things haven't really improved at all. It's either of the 2 things. 1) We see each other and we ignore if he's with his friend(s). (2) We bump into each other and he says hi with a smile and I just smile at him and we keep walking our own ways.
It's not that I don't wanna talk to him. I'm infact dying to talk to him and the very first thing I am keen to do is to clear the huge misunderstanding between us. I really really like him but even I'm not in a hurry to settle down for a relationship because I understand that we have a lot of academic pressure going on. I just want us to have what we used to have.
I've been working a lot on my myself.He saw me yesterday and he looked surprised(in a good way I guess..) to see me wear shorts(I never wore before) and with that little makeup and my hair looked 'unintentionally' good yesterday.So he saw me and said a hi with a nice smile and I smiled back and we crossed each others path.That's all.
Well,so it's his birthday on october 5th.I was wondering,considering the current situation, if it would be a nice idea to call him on phone and wish him.And if he doesn't pickup and call back then leave him a birthday message on facebook. He has given me the best romantic birthday 6 months ago.This is the least I could do.Is it a good plan to get things back to being normal like before?
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Posted by tiziani
When you wish someone a happy birthday, it should be for them. No goals, no objectives. It's just for the fact of thinking of them for a moment.



I might have sounded off the track when I said that. I mean, I AM wishing him because we have been great together before and also out of common courtesy. What I meant was can I do something to get us back to being like before.Eg. Say something to him when I call him to wish him on his birthday or just say something whenever we bump into each other occasionally.
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Your comments always make sense tiziani. It's just been a rough month.I was doing well because I was too busy to even think about him.Then someone reminded me that october is fast approaching and with that I recalled that it's his birthday coming up.And boom! Back to square one with all those plans I had made of how I had decided to celebrate his birthday.He has many friends but he doesn't have any close friends here.I was the only one(which got him kinda pissed.). Hence,I thought I'd do something for him and that pulled me down to "I want him back" phase.
Today was pleasant thought.I was down working on my homework and he passed by and saw me.He came to me on his own and spoke to me.All general academic stuff and then he left.At least he spoke which is better than ignoring. Gaah!