Hi I am a leo women and I have a guy friend that's a libra. This guy and I have been cool for 11 months .. When we first started our little fling we said we both weren't looking for relationship because of different reasons..We started going on dates and talking on the phone every day texting none stop .. I knew he was into me .well then I start catching feelings and when a leo catch feelings we love to spoil and lots of affection and that's what happen .. Anytime something bad was to happen or he was down he wanted to be under me .. I was there,same for him we always have had eachother back .. Things started to change because I was in nursing school a lot of my time was taken up .. Which started a change i could not always run to his every need because of work and school .. So it was less phone calls less text more fights .. I started feeling he was pushing himself away from me ..i never cared that it was with other females because I didn't want a relationship I had just ended a 3 years relationship.. Everytime that I would get fed up of his lack of attenton I would tell him Im done I didn't want to no longer deal with him ..he would talk to me until I changed my mind and we would start things back over ..more fights would happen because at this point I was way too deep into my feelings and I was to scared to say say anything .. I finally got the courage to say I love him and this is why were having issues .. It took him a minute to say it loved me back but he finally did one day .. So then he says he wanted us to talk in person about weighing out the good n bad we would have in a relationship.. I wasn't ready to do fhat .. 2 months later we have been fighting none stop. We both say we're leaving but we don't .. I get jealous because now I care that he talks to other girls and that maybe he cares about them like he does me .. I don't talk to no one but him even with sex I just have been committed to him .. We finally got into the most recent fight and I let my Leo side come out and I guessed really messed up he was highly disappointed in my actions and told me he was done with me for good .. He wouldn't text me or answer calls .. So I send him ballons and edible arrangements to his Job and then asked him would he join me at dinner and we can talk .. He agreed and we talked he thinks that . I only have deep feelings for him because I only am dealing with him .. He thinks his feelings are deeper because he talks to other women and still comes back to me..
Breaking point libra guy and leo women

People will never learn, benefits destroy the friendship.
If you start your "relationship" with someone saying that neither of you want a relationship and it's just fwb, it won't be more. You caught feelings? You broke the rules of your relationship! No feelings, just fucking. I can't say I fault you for that part of it. That's why I don't fuck my friends.
You've been okay with him seeing other women the whole time but want him to stop suddenly now simply because you caught feelings? What happened when you all dropped the love words and he wanted a serious talk to see what was up? You weren't ready then. You shelved him.
If you guys are fighting and breaking up this much, why keep going?
You can't hide your feelings or be afraid to speak your mind. These kinds of lies confuse the hell out of me and are a huge turn off. I can't read minds so I judge based off actions and words. If yours aren't consistent, well, it shows quickly.
Side note: please use paragraphs. It makes long posts much easier on the eyes of your reader. They don't even have to be proper paragraphs, just hit enter twice every few sentences. Of course, you didn't really use sentences either, did you? Oh well.
If you text the same way you write that probably why he can't take you seriously.
If you start your "relationship" with someone saying that neither of you want a relationship and it's just fwb, it won't be more. You caught feelings? You broke the rules of your relationship! No feelings, just fucking. I can't say I fault you for that part of it. That's why I don't fuck my friends.
You've been okay with him seeing other women the whole time but want him to stop suddenly now simply because you caught feelings? What happened when you all dropped the love words and he wanted a serious talk to see what was up? You weren't ready then. You shelved him.
If you guys are fighting and breaking up this much, why keep going?
You can't hide your feelings or be afraid to speak your mind. These kinds of lies confuse the hell out of me and are a huge turn off. I can't read minds so I judge based off actions and words. If yours aren't consistent, well, it shows quickly.
Side note: please use paragraphs. It makes long posts much easier on the eyes of your reader. They don't even have to be proper paragraphs, just hit enter twice every few sentences. Of course, you didn't really use sentences either, did you? Oh well.
If you text the same way you write that probably why he can't take you seriously.

Figures I butcher the line insulting someone else's writing. That's what I get...
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I am not reading this shit. Learn to write something legible. Thanks.
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