Can I fix it with this Libra guy or is it just done?

Good evening everyone,

This may be a dumb question but I’m pretty sad tonight. I’ve been dating a Libra male for about 2 months it was going quite well and I felt that his feelings for me were progressing. Up until this past Tuesday...This past Tuesday I came over and we decided we would smoke a little pot. I however, forgot how long it had been since I had done this thus having low tolerance. Long story short, I took too much and became a mess. I start rambling about my ex. I became a little rude because I was paranoid. Basically, I should have never smoked. I regretted it but I became upset with him at one point because I thought he was leaving me alone even though I told him I wanted to be alone. He didn’t believe that it was the pot that caused me to act so strangely and said that he does not want to deal with me anymore or see me and seems pretty fixed with his decision. I am very heartbroken because he made me happy and he was very ideal for me. I did not mean for this to happen. In your opinion do Libras ever take back decisions like this? I feel he made this decision instantaneously. And I didn’t contact him until tonight where he said the same thing. He said “He’s not willing to date anymore women who can’t communicate with him well, he dealt with it for too long” and that I am “high maintenance” ,in reality I am not. It was the pot causing me to act unlike myself. Prior to Tuesday we were getting along fine. Anyone have any tips? I know I’m probably out of luck. I just really like the guy..

I will add that he is in therapy and his therapist is helping him “love” himself and choose himself over people who can not communicate which was the case with his ex;whom he dated for 3 years. He claims he doesn’t deal with bs anymore. And the cherry on top of the sundae was the fact that my ex called me when all of was happening. My ex and I ended things 4 months ago. It was a long term relationship but he was a very toxic Leo, who I am trying to avoid at all costs. I think that’s really what upset him most perhaps. It sucks. I’ll survive.. I just wanted it to work. He’s also a very serious person, personality wise in general,jokes don’t exist in his realm.. maybe it’s for the best.

Posted by Scorpiogypsy1992

Good evening everyone,

This may be a dumb question but I’m pretty sad tonight. I’ve been dating a Libra male for about 2 months it was going quite well and I felt that his feelings for me were progressing. Up until this past Tuesday...This past Tuesday I came over and we decided we would smoke a little pot. I however, forgot how long it had been since I had done this thus having low tolerance. Long story short, I took too much and became a mess. I start rambling about my ex. I became a little rude because I was paranoid. Basically, I should have never smoked. I regretted it but I became upset with him at one point because I thought he was leaving me alone even though I told him I wanted to be alone. He didn’t believe that it was the pot that caused me to act so strangely and said that he does not want to deal with me anymore or see me and seems pretty fixed with his decision. I am very heartbroken because he made me happy and he was very ideal for me. I did not mean for this to happen. In your opinion do Libras ever take back decisions like this? I feel he made this decision instantaneously. And I didn’t contact him until tonight where he said the same thing. He said “He’s not willing to date anymore women who can’t communicate with him well, he dealt with it for too long” and that I am “high maintenance” ,in reality I am not. It was the pot causing me to act unlike myself. Prior to Tuesday we were getting along fine. Anyone have any tips? I know I’m probably out of luck. I just really like the guy..

What did you say to him after he told you that he's not willing to date any more women who can't communicate with him? - I hope it was something of quality otherwise if you heard him say that, got upset or didn't say much, and/or just allowed the conversation to come to a conclusion then I would wager you probably don't have much of a chance. That was the ideal time to prove yourself to be the contrary of his beliefs

I wouldn’t be so hard of yourself. people don’t just break up for one reason. He might have had an idea he was going to break up before and this just tipped him over. You said it was instantaneous, maybe he was ready. I’d never just assume things were going as great as you thought they were with a Libra, as Libras charm automatically. Besides, you should be able to relax with someone.

Are you still communicating with him now? I can’t tell from your question.

Your focus should never be on the bad, always the good. Ideally you want to forget this happened, and try to meet him and get back to how things used to be. I know he said the problem is communication, but it isn’t (wow Libra men are like women, seriously). Never ever apologise or talk about what happened or the pot. Switch the entire focus, your aim should be to have a good time. If he brings it up, try to say “was it really that bad?” And laugh if the situation allows it. Try to make him wonder if it was that bad, you want him to forget.

I think that the "weed" incident was just the straw the broke the camel's back. In other words, he was already planning on ending it with you because of past experiences you don't even realize. At this point you should just let it go unless he contacts you but it is more than likely over. At least you only knew him for 2 months so it shouldn't be too hard to get over him.

In the future, just so no to drugs 🤷