Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charming just like other libra. i slept with him on the night before he's going other city(i told him i don't want this to be a one night though then he said i understand). he said he's not doing this alot and he's not very sexually active.i know he was very happy we made out like 4 hours and he smiled all the time said that he's happy that i'm here. and kissed me on the forehead. before he left he gave me kisses and said it was fun I'll see you soon.
he messaged me the day he just arrive the other city. we talked and flirted. I told him to get tan and stuff. he said i'll get that sexy then you have to come to see me. I thought it'd would be an invitation cos he invited me to go before and it was on sudden i have a job and stuff well now i want to go so i ask him if hes going to invite me so hes said if i want him to invite me.then i said ok i do.
so he said what about your job? i don't know if how long i'm going to be in this city though that when i figured out. he doesn't want me to go. I replied that i just want to escape for awhile. and tell him to enjoy his vacation. he read it but he didn't reply.
ok i've date a libra guy before i know they are very charming and indecisive. but i'm kind of think that he wants a relationship according to his twitter and facebook blah blah. i don't know what i want but i really like him (im a sigittarius btw so the sex was that good) I don't think he would message me if he's not interested at the first place? maybe i came off too strong? He was very shy at the first place though till we get to talk to each other. he wasn't even dare to kiss me without asking.
For sure don't pressure him. My Libra offered me a key to his house shortly after we had sex the first time. I didnt take it tho...I would never have just came over to his house, and i wasnt sure if it was just a passing thing.
Being a libra also and knowing the indecisiveness, I would advise you to keep living your life, dont push him. He will probably run hot and cold, but let him. He's not doing it on purpose, its just how he sorts out his feelings. If he likes you he will be back, but you gotta let him miss you first. Libra men are turned on by independent women. When he sees you have a life without him, he will be impressed. He is a social person and will also have his own life apart from you.
Asking you to come with him was just a feeling he had at the moment...now that he's had time to think, he may see that its best to wait awhile and see how this goes. don't ask him about it again, just get into your life and see what he does,lol. Good luck
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he messaged me the day he just arrive the other city. we talked and flirted. I told him to get tan and stuff. he said i'll get that sexy then you have to come to see me. I thought it'd would be an invitation cos he invited me to go before and it was on sudden i have a job and stuff well now i want to go so i ask him if hes going to invite me so hes said if i want him to invite me.then i said ok i do.
so he said what about your job? i don't know if how long i'm going to be in this city though
that when i figured out. he doesn't want me to go. I replied that i just want to escape for awhile. and tell him to enjoy his vacation. he read it but he didn't reply.
ok i've date a libra guy before i know they are very charming and indecisive. but i'm kind of think that he wants a relationship according to his twitter and facebook blah blah. i don't know what i want but i really like him (im a sigittarius btw so the sex was that good) I don't think he would message me if he's not interested at the first place?
maybe i came off too strong? He was very shy at the first place though till we get to talk to each other. he wasn't even dare to kiss me without asking.
what can i do now? i really like this guy.