Chase or be chased?

So I've been exclusive with this libra for a few months but I'm still not very intuitive when it comes to reading him. I have a libra moon so I should sorta know lol. But he seems very moody. So...if libra doesnt call...don't call him? I don't usually... I like my space but then I hear libras need attention so I don't want to ignore him either. But he goes kinda antisocial so I don't know. We had a pretty great night on Monday. And here we are with no contact by either of us since then. Oh and we prob won't see each other this weekend so I was hoping to see him before. So what do we think?

I should also mention that he likes to be in control...but you know they like the challenge too. Damn libras haha

I don't have advice, but I know that the delicate balance of privacy & space and attention works great for me. We don't really play the who called whom more/less. It's not important. We are both really busy with our lives and we use whatever means or time we have to communicate. I think it's just about giving space and not being clingy, but knowing or being able to give attention when required. Anything else would be just frustrating. I know my Libra wants to be heard and listened to when he has things to say, but is not overwhelming about it. And I'm the same. So it works for us. We are not into the chase. You miss someone, you make an effort. If you don't, than you don't.
Sounds like you're looking for the rules the the Libra game, but I'm not sure if there is one. This is a second Libra I'm involved with and both have been pretty straight forward once they figure out what they want. But! Leave them alone when they are doing their thinking. They will come back with all the answers, maybe not ones you would like, but answers you will get for sure. It just depends if you are able to LISTEN and HEAR.
Just balance.

my humble opinion of what works for me.

Maybe uncomfortable just in the sense that it was pretty intense. Sometimes you need a breather after a lot of intensity ya know?

Hmmm and that's what I wonder...is he doing his thinking and need his space?

breathing/thinking - same difference. They always think. Thankfully. Now, just don't make a needy ass with no life of your own out of yourself and all will be great. Let him be, before you know it, he will be telling you in your face what's on his mind.

the moral issues and judgement - you wrong that, than you're toast.