Did Libra lose interest? (Aries)

Hey there.

I have a question which is obvious by the title. Here's some context to my situation.

So I'm an Aries man and I met a Libra woman online (work thing), we live very far from each other (different continents)

We started off as friends but it progressed very organically and naturally into something else. I can't exactly word what that something else is but we have gotten very close, even had some very ..uh.. sexual discussions online where we both got off. The next day we were chatting as we usually do but I wasn't exactly my normal high energy self as I was sick, that night instead of having a more intimate chat she said she was going to bed then went to sleep. Since then (2 days or so) we have barely talked.

I know she's kinda busy on the weekend and that's fine, I'm not trying to have all her attention all the time. But sometimes I feel like maybe she's not as interested in me as I may be in her.

She has dropped hints of me moving out there or her coming here and I have agreed that it is something I would jump on right away.



I'm asking this because I just feel like I'm missing the clarity to "just know" if this is something that may progress or if it's just "for fun".

So any Libras out there can maybe help shed a light on this for me, I'd greatly appreciate it.

Thank you.

Sincerely, another dumb Aries

oh so the question is.

Did she lose interest or is it normal for her to just kind of vanish for a day or 2?

Also i guess, should I be more upfront with what I want this to turn into or not?

Awe my soft spot will always be Aries

I agree with Rozaeon said. Be clear about where you stand and want. I back off and start too lose interest if I'm not sure where I stand, if I should be taking you seriously and is time I'm giving you worth it.

Thanks for the advice everyone.

I noticed today she had been messaging me again and being the one to try and initiate the conversation so I guess she did just "vanish" for the weekend.

And thanks you for the kind words about Aries lol

Just go do something else for a bit mate, you have trouble meeting other women or something? Only way you play this is to think about your options. Then it doesn't matter if something happens with this one or not. (Aries Logic).

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Awe my soft spot will always be Aries

Damn!