@AriesJo
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Are Libras attracted to Aries?
Libra man and Aries woman match seems quite common.
IDK any Libra male personally, except my cousin - he is not really indecisive. I love the opposite dynamic, so that is why I like Libra/Aries match..
Posted by AriesJoI think Libra is probably the most interesting and probably the best matchup for Aries, for dating. I know we are opposites and make up for each other weaknesses and learn from each other. I think (on paper), the Libra traits such as being charming, romantic and wearing clothes well, and intelligence, are obviously positives in a relationship and probably any star sign would be attract to this, so if an Aries is attracted to a Libra then I can understand it. But my question is, are there any traits typically shown by an Aries, which Libra find attractive?
Also an Aries women friend of mine, said she couldn't believe she would be attracted to a Libra man because they are too indecisive and she prefers it when the man takes charge, she said it's probably true the Aries Man / Libra Woman is compatible, but it's different for a Libra Man / Aries Woman, is this true? I know my Aries male friends seem to have good Libra GF relationships too. But I've never met a Libra Man/Aries Woman. Does it matter which way round the matchup is (male/female)?
That's actually not really true. It's not indecisiveness. Maybe to us Aries it may seem that way, because it's not direct decisiveness. Libras just have a different way of making a decision.
From personal experience, Libra man/Aries woman seems more common for me. I've met one Libra female/Aries male couple, but that is far less common than the male/female version.
4 of my ex partners through the years have been Aries. Married to one for 3 years. Was engaged to another for 7 years and we share two children
Posted by RumiL
my cousin - he is not really indecisive.
I see this a lot when people talk about Libras. Not being impulsive =/= indecisive.
Their process of coming to a decision is just very different from Aries, whereby we tend to see things from a macro perspective while they see things from a micro perspective.
The great pairing comes when both signs can see that macro + micro = the full picture.
Actually, I'm most intrigued by Libra sign.. I wanna meet more Libras.. I want to see how opposite or in what ways we are opposite.
They say opposite signs are also basically the same.
Posted by RumiL
Actually, I'm most intrigued by Libra sign.. I wanna meet more Libras.. I want to see how opposite or in what ways we are opposite.They say opposite signs are also basically the same.
They definitely are - two sides of the same crazy coin.
I got to witness that first hand for all of my life lmao.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
my cousin - he is not really indecisive.
I see this a lot when people talk about Libras. Not being impulsive =/= indecisive.
Their process of coming to a decision is just very different from Aries, whereby we tend to see things from a macro perspective while they see things from a micro perspective.
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Hmm. *nods* ..they are sign of scales.. probably just need time weighing things.
I think people with Taurus/Pisces mercury would be comfortable with Libra decision-making style ?
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
Actually, I'm most intrigued by Libra sign.. I wanna meet more Libras.. I want to see how opposite or in what ways we are opposite.They say opposite signs are also basically the same.
They definitely are - two sides of the same crazy coin.
I got to witness that first hand for all of my life lmao.
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I'm always curious to know about your mom/dad :p
The only opposite dynamics I understand clearly are Capricorn-Cancer 😐
Posted by ChoXtsy
There always an intense attraction, but I don't understand them alot of time. They very "short" with words and it makes me feel like they lack substance. I find it hard to get to know them because of that.
It's your moon that attracts them. The lacking of substance, however, comes from my explanation of how Aries see things and how Libras see things. So not really lacking depth but more like less attention to detail.
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
my cousin - he is not really indecisive.
I see this a lot when people talk about Libras. Not being impulsive =/= indecisive.
Their process of coming to a decision is just very different from Aries, whereby we tend to see things from a macro perspective while they see things from a micro perspective.
Hmm. *nods* ..they are sign of scales.. probably just need time weighing things.
I think people with Taurus/Pisces mercury would be comfortable with Libra decision-making style ?
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Yup, definitely for Mercury Taurus, or maybe any earth Mercury. I am not sure if my Pluto Libra plays a part though, since it's in retrograde.
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
my cousin - he is not really indecisive.
I see this a lot when people talk about Libras. Not being impulsive =/= indecisive.
Their process of coming to a decision is just very different from Aries, whereby we tend to see things from a macro perspective while they see things from a micro perspective.
Hmm. *nods* ..they are sign of scales.. probably just need time weighing things.
I think people with Taurus/Pisces mercury would be comfortable with Libra decision-making style ?
Yup, definitely for Mercury Taurus, or maybe any earth Mercury. I am not sure if my Pluto Libra plays a part though, since it's in retrograde.
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..why. what does it mean to have Pluto in Libra?
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
my cousin - he is not really indecisive.
I see this a lot when people talk about Libras. Not being impulsive =/= indecisive.
Their process of coming to a decision is just very different from Aries, whereby we tend to see things from a macro perspective while they see things from a micro perspective.
Hmm. *nods* ..they are sign of scales.. probably just need time weighing things.
I think people with Taurus/Pisces mercury would be comfortable with Libra decision-making style ?
Yup, definitely for Mercury Taurus, or maybe any earth Mercury. I am not sure if my Pluto Libra plays a part though, since it's in retrograde.
..why. what does it mean to have Pluto in Libra?
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LOL I dunno - I used to attribute my slow decision-making process to my Pluto lol.
Posted by TrueFantasy
Posted by RumiLThey say opposite signs are also basically the same.
That I believe strongly but some will disagree. Opposite signs fascinate me and I like it when they get along, tbh I like it when all signs get along.
My Aries mum was closest with Libras! Like the exact same people 🙂
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Oh hello there beauty 😏 ...seriously TF, my eyes are always dragged to your DP whenever I scroll down the pages 😄
btw, what do you think of pisces TF? 🙂 ..explain your dynamic with them as a Virgo : D
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Posted by RumiL
Posted by TrueFantasy
Posted by RumiLThey say opposite signs are also basically the same.
That I believe strongly but some will disagree. Opposite signs fascinate me and I like it when they get along, tbh I like it when all signs get along.
My Aries mum was closest with Libras! Like the exact same people 🙂
Oh hello there beauty 😏 ...seriously TF, my eyes are always dragged to your DP whenever I scroll down the pages 😄
btw, what do you think of pisces TF? 🙂 ..explain your dynamic with them as a Virgo : D
🤗 x bajillion
I absolutely ADORE Pisces and before I got into astrology I would always read about them and connect with their descriptions before Virgo. I know Pisces more than any other sign and we click so fast. This can be said for any placement, I'll always find someone with some Pisces or Neptune influence. When I found out I had Neptune on my AC I was like YES!! So I spiritually join the Pisces club 🙂
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🤗 😄
Hmm.. noice.. :-)
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by RumiL
Actually, I'm most intrigued by Libra sign.. I wanna meet more Libras.. I want to see how opposite or in what ways we are opposite.They say opposite signs are also basically the same.
They definitely are - two sides of the same crazy coin.
I got to witness that first hand for all of my life lmao.
I'm always curious to know about your mom/dad :p
The only opposite dynamics I understand clearly are Capricorn-Cancer 😐
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I'd be here all night if I told you more about them.
They've had their ups and downs - plus my dad's emotionally deficient Aqua moon and my mum's over emotional Cancer moon, along with their opposite Venus/Mars (Pisces/Virgo). A lot of compromise for both parties was required.
It's a dreamkiller combination relationship-wise. Friendship-wise though, it's great.
@2Moon nigga just stop. Go collect your cookies on the kitchen floor.
I am an Aries sun all the libra's and geminis never seem to want to put all there eggs in one basket. Aries passion if real will only want one most of the time.
I would say that Libras seem to have a lot of crushes and can be a little to free with there energy for my own personal taste.
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Posted by tiziani
All things considered, Aries seem naturally talented at weighing up all risks in the moment. Decisions have to be judged on the day they're made; never made in hindsight or with the apprehension of tomorrow attached, which is an admirable quality in the Ram.
Yes but not all decisions need to be judged on the day they are made - some decisions are best left for another day, something which we often cannot fathom because we need to get things done NOW. It can be either an admirable or extremely annoying trait of ours.
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by tiziani
All things considered, Aries seem naturally talented at weighing up all risks in the moment. Decisions have to be judged on the day they're made; never made in hindsight or with the apprehension of tomorrow attached, which is an admirable quality in the Ram.
Yes but not all decisions need to be judged on the day they are made - some decisions are best left for another day, something which we often cannot fathom because we need to get things done NOW. It can be either an admirable or extremely annoying trait of ours.
I'd say ... to each their own. I think you get different outcomes depending on which you choose, and that neither would be better than the other. There's no pattern to opportunity, in my opinion. It comes equally for everyone.
IMO 🙂
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Your mercury is showing 😈
Thanks. Actually I think it’s a bit much saying Libras are indecisive, they probably aren’t. It’s just Aries make decisions saying they’ll sort the details later, then they get bored and move on to something else. Shoot first, ask questions later!
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I think Libra is probably the most interesting and probably the best matchup for Aries, for dating. I know we are opposites and make up for each other weaknesses and learn from each other. I think (on paper), the Libra traits such as being charming, romantic and wearing clothes well, and intelligence, are obviously positives in a relationship and probably any star sign would be attract to this, so if an Aries is attracted to a Libra then I can understand it. But my question is, are there any traits typically shown by an Aries, which Libra find attractive?
Also an Aries women friend of mine, said she couldn't believe she would be attracted to a Libra man because they are too indecisive and she prefers it when the man takes charge, she said it's probably true the Aries Man / Libra Woman is compatible, but it's different for a Libra Man / Aries Woman, is this true? I know my Aries male friends seem to have good Libra GF relationships too. But I've never met a Libra Man/Aries Woman. Does it matter which way round the matchup is (male/female)?