Do Libra Men cut off totally with an ex?

Posted by SweetLibra
Do you really want it to be completely over? Or are you wanting to remain friends so you can keep tabs on him? If you two are trying to move on maybe its too soon to be friends. When the breakup is as traumatic as you describe where there's lots of crying and begging pleading, it's probably best to put some space there before a true friendship can come about. It'd be different if the breakup was mutual and you two sat down like adults and realized you needed to go your separate ways, but that didn't happen here.

Glad you feel like you have regained your composure and whatnot. Good for you.

If it were me I would not want to be friends at this point because the wounds would be too fresh. Not to say that it couldn't happen at some point but time will only tell. Give him space. If he comes back around with a true offer of friendship than great for you. Just don't hold your breath in the meantime. Go on with your life. Good luck to you 🙂.

Very well said 🙂

I agree, just let it be. The transition from lovers back to friends is tough and if it is possible it will take time. As to the question in general, do Libras cut off totally from an ex. Yes, I do. At some point later I would always run into them again and could be friends but not at first. if we're done, we're done.

Relationships grow over time into whatever they are. Going from lovers to friends is like trying to "un-grow" a plant. It just dont won't that way. If you are growing tulips and want a rose, you're gonna have to rip the tulip out, and plant a new rose. If you grew a romantic relationship, it needs to die and be gone before you can try to grow a friendship.

If you try to just jump in as friends there will still be emotions and mixed feelings on at least one side. At its worst, it will lead to drama and half assed attmepts at reconciliation. At best, you can get a few good nights of sport fucking out of the deal. A true friendship... unlikely.

Yes they do!
But you will be okay believe me.

To answer your question, No.
I usually always expect my ex to come back, but I never show how much I want my ex.
I usually act cold and like I don't need him in my life, but in reality, I really do wanna get back together. hehe.
😄

I'm new here but i've been through the situation. went through the pleading and begging and trying to make him understand how lovely it would be for us to be together (we broke up because he move back to his hometown and it's like 16 hours by plane) anyways i thought that we had connection and stuff. but he seem to be suddenly cold to me when i said i miss him he replied me Thank you. when i said thanks for make it clear he said no problem.
I disappeared. of course there was no place for me to stand there at all. i deleted his facebook not for getting attention but for my own sake not to check on him. i take that as NC (although i read your last post) 4 days later he email me updating thing with his life. and asked me if i mad at him. i said no then we continue talking non-stop for almost 3 days. he told me he wanted to be with me. he sorry he was catious.he told me about how it would be like to lie together. what kind of flat we should get together and stuff. think about how that would make you feel. i planed my life ahead so i can be with him and told him the next day. he got freak out and said that he just told me how he feel and didn't mean for me to come up with timeline. because if i go there for him. it's going to be his responsiblity if things not working out between us.
i was mad and sad and angry. i just stop contacting him again. 3 days later he messaged me and apologise that he's sad and feel guilty. he cried at his brother's b-day. he wish we could be friends. i like him too much to be friends. i told him how about we be 2 people that like each other and had amazing sex(im a Sagittarius and he told me that he doesn't think that he could find anyone better than me on that) he agree. he keeps disappeared and re-appeared since, sent me some picture of his hometown one day told me that the weather was nice the next day, we never really had the full convos. I never mentioned about anything of us again. turn out he never really gone. always come back sometimes and flirt with me.
It's been a year already since we broke up. now he still messaged me regularly told me he misses me. now he move closer to me not my country still. he told me to go visit him. and he will pay half of the travel cost.

I think if you had a very good connection with him and of course sex because you know how it like with Libra, they actually admire good sex from good connection. I think he will never really really go away. or he have't find anyone better than me in any

My Libra talks the friends word all the time. Lovers and friends and if the lover ever ends always friends. Recently, I did the no contact thing with him because he stood me up. I took the jewerly he gave me back to him, he wasnt home so I just left it. When he did contact me 2 days later...a "so sorry this is what happened text".. he said i understand you being upset with me and not wanting to make love with me but, u didnt even want to be my friend.