do libras not like to admit when theyre wrong?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by mysteriousTaurus on Monday, April 25, 2016 and has 10 replies.

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@Cancer Lady
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Why go on and on about it? A man understands a woman is emotional all they basically saying is hey feelings got hurt so rather than explain myself I'll just fix the mood that's why I like water heavy women
Yep that's what my Libra fiancé love about me, other women he was with in the past particularly Earth & Fire sign women liked to bait and start arguments trying to get a emotional reaction out of him to feed their ego which only made things worse between them and him closing himself off to them. If he's in the wrong he has no problem apologizing and I accept his apology and we move on as if nothing ever happened. I don't want or need an explanation from him, as long as he's accountable for his actions and acknowledges that he did wrong then nothing else needs to be said or done. What would be the point in discussing it when the actions have already taken place and they can't be changed? Going on and on about it isn't going to change whatever was said and done and it's up to you to react in the way that is beneficial to you.

If you have a problem with what he did and sorry isn't enough, then maybe you need to evaluate your relationship as you're obviously not getting what you want from it.
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Posted by Cancer Lady
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Why go on and on about it? A man understands a woman is emotional all they basically saying is hey feelings got hurt so rather than explain myself I'll just fix the mood that's why I like water heavy women
Yep that's what my Libra fiancé love about me, other women he was with in the past particularly Earth & Fire sign women liked to bait and start arguments trying to get a emotional reaction out of him to feed their ego which only made things worse between them and him closing himself off to them. If he's in the wrong he has no problem apologizing and I accept his apology and we move on as if nothing ever happened. I don't want or need an explanation from him, as long as he's accountable for his actions and acknowledges that he did wrong then nothing else needs to be said or done. What would be the point in discussing it when the actions have already taken place and they can't be changed? Going on and on about it isn't going to change whatever was said and done and it's up to you to react in the way that is beneficial to you.

If you have a problem with what he did and sorry isn't enough, then maybe you need to evaluate your relationship as you're obviously not getting what you want from it.
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Yeap #wink
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@lovely77
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This is true i tend let it go move on immediately not dwell on it. They wont admit or go in details long as their actions add up etc its jus who they r i don't b bothered
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I definitely own up to my wrongdoings. I will say I expect the same in return though. It was actually easier for me than people I've been with. It's not just to get it over with either, it's because when I know I was wrong I feel a need to say it, fix it, and make you happy again. But nothing drives me more crazy than a person who knows they are wrong and won't say so because of pride. Pride hurts relationships in my opinion.

But I also do not like to dwell on it. I agree with the others... I'm a female, but I'm the same way. I don't want to talk about it over and over and especially bring up past events that can not be changed. I don't bring up my partner's either. There's no point and I don't see that as being a healthy relationship. However, I'm still a female so I will say a little more than "I'm sorry." Lol
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by libraqueen
I always admit when I'm wrong. Always. I will stand my ground though, so if your Libra isn't sorry then maybe she doesn't think she is in the wrong
From my experience.. The problem is that they never do think that they are in the wrong.. LOL
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Lmaooo right they dont they so good at turning stuff have u thinking its u.
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it depends on the relationship? romantic relationship? i will apologise if i am wrong or if i have hurt my partner in any way.

friendship? depends. if i really think i am in the wrong then yes, i'll apologise. if you've done something to piss me off in the past and didn't apologise for that, there is no way i am saying sorry...and yes, i will turn it around on you.

i'll only make a meal of things in apologising with my partner. his feelings matter the most. everyone else? they get what they are given.
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by lovely77
Posted by blackphase
Posted by libraqueen
I always admit when I'm wrong. Always. I will stand my ground though, so if your Libra isn't sorry then maybe she doesn't think she is in the wrong
From my experience.. The problem is that they never do think that they are in the wrong.. LOL
Lmaooo right they dont they so good at turning stuff have u thinking its u.
Yes! It always seems to get turned around on me.. Always my fault, no matter what. They do something wrong.. My fault for acknowledging and confronting it. Lol.

Huge double standard with these ones. Although I see a lot of the females saying that they own up and expect the same in return. Maybe it's more so the males..
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I only know female libras they do it