Do Libras Suffer from Commiment Phobia?
Do Libras Suffer from Commiment Phobia?
OOP Sorry for the misspelling, do Libra suffer from Commitment Phobia?
Posted by K_1018
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.
Yeah I am finally getting married because he is such a good man who loves me and we get a long very well and I love him in an agape way. Truth is; I am getting older and we get along so well. So might as well.
Posted by K_1018Posted by librawomen7Posted by K_1018
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.
Yeah I am finally getting married because he is such a good man who loves me and we get a long very well and I love him in an agape way. Truth is; I am getting older and we get along so well. So might as well.
Well that's good!🙂
do you feel confident with your decision?click to expand
I am a commitment phobia I need so much space i hope we get a two-story house with lots of bedrooms so i have a lot of space.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
When I am single, I'll be talking to a few dudes. It's the hardest thing to get me to stay put. It's also hard for me to express my feelings with my awkward ass alien moon and it comes off as me not caring. And I admit a terrible characteristic of leading on. Actually, a Virgo helped me realize it when I ripped his heart out like a cold bitch and chose the leo.
But when ya got me, ya got me. And I'm in it faithfully for the longhaul which is why I believe I'm scared as hell to commit. 6 years with the first. 5 with the second. Now going on 2 with the current. I mean, that's a lot of years lol
Ah ha ha.
Posted by PrincessLouisePosted by BullShitHaha! Not the ones I have known. One libran guy didn't want to commit to me but a few years later now has a family. Another is seeking a relationship..or I think he is.
*Eagerly waits consensus*
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Interesting.
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
I thought we was getting married
Posted by ladylibra21
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
Let me ask you about your Sag Venus, Have you ever stalked someone before?
Posted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOLclick to expand
I dont think they do. I tell Libras I'm not interested and they work harder to get me in a relationship. Idfk
Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOLclick to expand
Have you ever cheated be honest?
Posted by librawomen7Never in life...Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Have you ever cheated be honest?click to expand
Posted by librawomen7It is a nasty habit of mine but I am a certified stalker. It has gotten to the point where people ask me to do it for them. I really should have been a private investigator, but I am also on the cusp of Scorpio so there is that.Posted by ladylibra21
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
Let me ask you about your Sag Venus, Have you ever stalked someone before?click to expand
I think so
especially after they've been hurt
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by librawomen7It is a nasty habit of mine but I am a certified stalker. It has gotten to the point where people ask me to do it for them. I really should have been a private investigator, but I am also on the cusp of Scorpio so there is that.Posted by ladylibra21
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
Let me ask you about your Sag Venus, Have you ever stalked someone before?click to expand
Would a Cease and Desist letter containing with the threat of police involvement stop you?
Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Never in life...Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Have you ever cheated be honest?click to expand
Have you had the opportunity of cheating.
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by librawomen7It is a nasty habit of mine but I am a certified stalker. It has gotten to the point where people ask me to do it for them. I really should have been a private investigator, but I am also on the cusp of Scorpio so there is that.Posted by ladylibra21
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
Let me ask you about your Sag Venus, Have you ever stalked someone before?click to expand
A Sag followed me from coast to coast for a year and half almost two years. Would obtain my unlisted numbers and would not leave me alone. I thought in time Sag would go away and lose interest, but the only peace I ever had was in disconnecting my land line. Finally I wrote a Cease and Desist letter informed the Sag the police put a tracer on my phone, uploaded restraining order papers and told Sag I filed a police report. IT's been 72 so far no harassing calls.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Only from the outside looking in. The Leebs I know aren't commitment phobes, they just take a long time to decide what they want and whether or not it's feasible. Once they make up their minds tho, it's on.
Exactly right. What is the fucking problem LOL.
Posted by librawomen7Oh I have never really done it in person it is mostly online unless you count driving by some one's house to see if a car they said wasn't gonna be there was there. Also once you make it pretty clear that you are totally done I wont contact you but I may online stalk you. The last thing I did was write a 5 page letter and leave it on a guys steps, but that was saying good bye and wishing him the best. I haven't contacted him since. And yes it would I would never do anything to make people think they were in danger from me my dad is a cop he would be very upset if he found out I had a restraining order. Not to mention that my stalking is more out of curiosity than anything especially if something ended abruptly I like to know why. I mostly stalk because I wanna see how people tick. I read between the lines and come up with the fact.Posted by ladylibra21Posted by librawomen7It is a nasty habit of mine but I am a certified stalker. It has gotten to the point where people ask me to do it for them. I really should have been a private investigator, but I am also on the cusp of Scorpio so there is that.Posted by ladylibra21
I do get that way sometimes but that is only if I realize that person may hurt me or have a habit that I wont be able to over look.
Let me ask you about your Sag Venus, Have you ever stalked someone before?
Would a Cease and Desist letter containing with the threat of police involvement stop you?click to expand
Posted by librawomen7Yes and i cut them off. A few friendships tried me while in rel. I in turn told my partners about it honesty....Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Never in life...Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Have you ever cheated be honest?
Have you had the opportunity of cheating.click to expand
Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Yes and i cut them off. A few friendships tried me while in rel. I in turn told my partners about it honesty....Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Never in life...Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Have you ever cheated be honest?
Have you had the opportunity of cheating.click to expand
I have so many people blocked sometimes I miss out on some good conversations, yesterday in a thread two people were fighting over you. One said something about you being breath-taking beautiful, the other said back off she's mine. Who said back off she's mine?
Posted by librawomen7Alicia xx thats my boo. They were joking lol. I dont do disrespect in relationships though ill cut u off quickPosted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Yes and i cut them off. A few friendships tried me while in rel. I in turn told my partners about it honesty....Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Never in life...Posted by lovely77Posted by librawomen7Ill be faithfulPosted by lovely77
I thought we was getting married
We are getting married; we can do a poly thing. Only you must stay faithful! LOL
Have you ever cheated be honest?
Have you had the opportunity of cheating.
I have so many people blocked sometimes I miss out on some good conversations, yesterday in a thread two people were fighting over you. One said something about you being breath-taking beautiful, the other said back off she's mine. Who said back off she's mine?click to expand
I'm not afraid of commitment; just very careful about the commitments I make because I take them quite seriously.
Posted by BullShitazizamiiiiPosted by LibWmanPosted by BullShitnot when it comes to you.
*Eagerly waits consensus*
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kheyli mehrabooni. *kissy lips* delam barat tang shode bood.
Triple Libra/Scorp Venus
First relationship-14/almost 15 years
After that I apparently "broke" all kinds of hearts when I wouldn't commit to anyone I was just getting to know. I didn't intend to, but I would not commit until I was sure that person was the right one for me. I told them, but they still fell for me. My heart was broken. If my heart is broken, there's no way I will commit. I can't put that on someone else. Plus I wanted to be alone and just travel with friends.
2 years later I finally made a commitment again. I hate being scared of relationships now. But the word "marriage" still kind of freaks me out..
First relationship-14/almost 15 years
After that I apparently "broke" all kinds of hearts when I wouldn't commit to anyone I was just getting to know. I didn't intend to, but I would not commit until I was sure that person was the right one for me. I told them, but they still fell for me. My heart was broken. If my heart is broken, there's no way I will commit. I can't put that on someone else. Plus I wanted to be alone and just travel with friends.
2 years later I finally made a commitment again. I hate being scared of relationships now. But the word "marriage" still kind of freaks me out..
Posted by K_1018I'm not a Libra sun but a moon and rising with a seventh house stellium -- this was said perfectly. Recently I had to break up with my Gemini boyfriend, because I simply wasn't ready. He even said to me "I think you love the idea of being with someone, but when push comes to shove you can't handle what comes with it yet." And I agreed, and we split amicably. So as a Libra dominant, I greatly identify with this.
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.
Posted by K_1018Yes, actually I do. It's not time for me to commit to anyone just yet. I personally have a lot to heal within myself. So I was happy with the mutual decision, and still am. We will remain friends.Posted by xomelindabelleDo you still feel confident in your decision?Posted by K_1018I'm not a Libra sun but a moon and rising with a seventh house stellium -- this was said perfectly. Recently I had to break up with my Gemini boyfriend, because I simply wasn't ready. He even said to me "I think you love the idea of being with someone, but when push comes to shove you can't handle what comes with it yet." And I agreed, and we split amicably. So as a Libra dominant, I greatly identify with this.
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.click to expand
How do you as a Libra sun feel knowing that you sometimes find it difficult to fully relinquish yourself to someone in a commitment?
Posted by K_1018Yeah, I was grateful that he was so understanding and had no resentments with my decision. He actually told me he really respected that I was up front and cut it off before we got in too deep. He's an air moon as well, so he was just as communicative as me which was very helpful.Posted by xomelindabelleOh well it's great you feel happy with your decision and you guys still remain friends. It's good you went with how you felt. And for me, I have a really hard time letting go. So that's my fear when it comes to commitment, it may possibly not work out after giving some much of yourself to someone. I would hate to give it up.Posted by K_1018Yes, actually I do. It's not time for me to commit to anyone just yet. I personally have a lot to heal within myself. So I was happy with the mutual decision, and still am. We will remain friends.Posted by xomelindabelleDo you still feel confident in your decision?Posted by K_1018I'm not a Libra sun but a moon and rising with a seventh house stellium -- this was said perfectly. Recently I had to break up with my Gemini boyfriend, because I simply wasn't ready. He even said to me "I think you love the idea of being with someone, but when push comes to shove you can't handle what comes with it yet." And I agreed, and we split amicably. So as a Libra dominant, I greatly identify with this.
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.
How do you as a Libra sun feel knowing that you sometimes find it difficult to fully relinquish yourself to someone in a commitment?click to expand
I absolutely get that -- that's probably why I find it hard to commit a lot of the time as a Libra moon; that's my feelings. And I need it to feel right, fair and equal, for both parties. Or I detach and want to remove myself from the connection as soon as possible. It's just hard when you don't want to hurt people or let them down -- I caught myself people pleasing briefly, and forcing the relationship initially. Because he treated me so well, and my friends all loved him. But at the end of the day, it's supposed to feel right with the two people involved. And it didn't for me.
The fact of the matter is, Libra placements in general need to feel that the partnership is truly right for them. You may see that people with personal placements in Libra tend to have a busy dating life, but it's only due to the fact that we're looking for the one we TRULY want to bond with. Or, their love life is on hiatus. It's about balance, of course. And if a Libra placement doesn't feel that, they disengage.
And in some cases, it's us who are creating the lack of balance in the union; hence why I stated that I have some things to work on personally before I enter into a commitment for real again.
The only apprehension Libra influenced people seem to experience (don't want to speak for everyone) is when things don't feel equal, and when that happens they will adjust the circumstances accordingly and as justly as possible.
And in some cases, it's us who are creating the lack of balance in the union; hence why I stated that I have some things to work on personally before I enter into a commitment for real again.
The only apprehension Libra influenced people seem to experience (don't want to speak for everyone) is when things don't feel equal, and when that happens they will adjust the circumstances accordingly and as justly as possible.
Posted by LibWmanPosted by BullShitnot when it comes to you.
*Eagerly waits consensus*
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LOL
Once I'm in love with someone I'm 100% in. If not I may come across as hot and cold.
Posted by librawomen7Yay congrats!Posted by K_1018
A little. I always want to be attatched but I think I like the sound of it more than actually being it.
I feel like I have this unrealistic dream partner and too many "what ifs". I never picture myself being married, but I like the idea of someone committing to me forever.
Yeah I am finally getting married because he is such a good man who loves me and we get a long very well and I love him in an agape way. Truth is; I am getting older and we get along so well. So might as well.click to expand
Let's go wedding gown shopping!
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