Extravagant gift too soon

Despite my protests of taking things slowly my Leeb of 2 1/2 months powers ahead. Our birthdays are coming up and he has told me he is splashing out on an extravagant ring for me.

This makes me really uncomfortable as I shed all my jellewry after my marriage as it felt to me like ownership.

How can I get through to him without crushing him, I know he just wants to rock my world. But I also know that I can't wear his ring at this point in the relationship.

He's already purchased it or at least paying it off so perhaps he can still exchange it.

Honesty it is, with more force this time. I've never dated anyone that has totally flipped out like this before. Right from the start we both spoke of never marrying again...I know I was serious! I havent even said those words yet!