Finally happened but i still need good advice!

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TaurusSparkle
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So hello my all pretty libras out there 🙂
maybe some of you remember my story before 2 months ago when i wrote about my libra and how he only see me as friend and nothing more.
So in last few weeks we really became closer to each other, i was at his place, we were out together, he would call me and everything, nothing romantic and things but we really became closer 🙂
so yesterday i came at his place again, i met his mother too!
we had great time like always and then i suggested that we should watch some movie and we did, we were lying in bed and then i decided to make a movie and i kissed him! we started kissing and we were really intimate, no sex but everything else 🙂
after one year of friendship we finally did it! But now, i'm not sure if he wants relationship.. I don't wanna have FWB with him, and i don't know does he feel something.. I mean we know each other for such a long time and after all this time something finally happened and i'm not sure what should i do next.. my best friend told me that we should have sex because you always get attached, but i don't know.. i need some good advice what should i do now.. and i'm not sure should i ask him if he wants relationship cause i don't want to make a pressure at him... oh my thousand thoughts in my head right now i need some good advice
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Shrewdsharp
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I was reading about Libra women on some internet site and the astrologer reported that Taurus and Libra marry each other more than they marry any other sign. Libra needs stability; something rock solid Taurus and Capricorn provide. The only problem I see arising out of this union is the critical nature of the Virgo. One too many critical remark and the Libra will cut you off with cruel indifference. But generally, if there isn't anyone else in the picture a Libra will make his home and marry stable, consistent, Taurus.
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jeane
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have sex if you want to have sex but don't do it if it comes with expectations and obligations. don't try to snare him with sex, it never works. people will want to be with you or they won't, having sex doesn't change that.

with that said, if you are likely to get your feelings involved don't do it until you are a little more certain where this is heading.

my advice is to take your time. you're right, don't push him but also don't put all your eggs in one basket. take it slow and see how things progress. it's when you rush ahead and expect too much that people get hurt and then talk about their guy disappearing on them.