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Fucking drama
you should break up with him because you don't trust him. maybe it is justified or maybe it is your issue but unless you want/are going to start trusting him, you are wasting your (and his) time.
thanks guys
Dude, just stay single for awhile. This bs isn't helping, but you're paranoid as fuck. Combine that with bs like this and you're going to go fuckut crazy.
Just stop dating for a bit, dude. You need down time to get through your paranoia.
Just stop dating for a bit, dude. You need down time to get through your paranoia.
Yes i agree with luckylibra979 on this one and the whole drug thing no
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI know I'm paranoid so that's why I don't want to deal with this shit, I'm over being stoned every single day, he ran out of weed one day and freaked out and I went halves with him in getting us a sesh then I found some stuff he had stashed away that he forgot about (he leaves weed all over the place) so just before he goes to his parents house he asks if he can take the good stuff that we just bought and leave me with the seedy shit....I just silently gave it to him with no hesitation, take it you obviously don't think I'm worth the weed I bought.....I'm quitting the shit cold turkey when he gets back
Dude, just stay single for awhile. This bs isn't helping, but you're paranoid as fuck. Combine that with bs like this and you're going to go fuckut crazy.
Just stop dating for a bit, dude. You need down time to get through your paranoia.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Dude, people who have to smoke on a daily basis like that are fucked in the head.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI know I'm paranoid so that's why I don't want to deal with this shit, I'm over being stoned every single day, he ran out of weed one day and freaked out and I went halves with him in getting us a sesh then I found some stuff he had stashed away that he forgot about (he leaves weed all over the place) so just before he goes to his parents house he asks if he can take the good stuff that we just bought and leave me with the seedy shit....I just silently gave it to him with no hesitation, take it you obviously don't think I'm worth the weed I bought.....I'm quitting the shit cold turkey when he gets back
Dude, just stay single for awhile. This bs isn't helping, but you're paranoid as fuck. Combine that with bs like this and you're going to go fuckut crazy.
Just stop dating for a bit, dude. You need down time to get through your paranoia.click to expand
Move along. Dude sounds like he's just going to exacerbate your issues, tbh. You can't improve on yourself if you choose to keep people around you who will drag you down and prevent that from happening.
Yikes! Yeah I agree with Jeane, doesn't seem you trust him either. Seems like this will get messy.
Posted by febyAgreed.
First order of business is to find out about your bag and the money.
I'm a little baffled that for someone being as paranoid as he is, why he would leave 300 dollars in a bag in a car. I wouldn't even keep that with me like that, and two, I wouldn't leave it sitting in a car. :/
So here is a bunch of druggies and 300 dollars go missing. Hmmmm. That’s interesting.
I honestly never thought his family would do that they have more than enough cash and they throw it around like it's nothing... I get the feeling one of his brothers needed my id and are taking their sweet time getting it back. Or his dad is testing Me like how petty ill be when 300 goes missing. When I declined the meth from him he said "just testing you" which really pissed me off also when I had a shower there there's no curtain and his dad was outside the window checking on weed plants which meant he could see me showering and when I was getting dry I heard the family inside saying "where's dad"? And I wasn't gonna say he's lurking outside the bathroom window. I'm fucking done with junkies. If it's a test I fail I don't give a fuck.
The dad sounds really creepy.
If your guy grew up in this sort of household I'd find it odd if he turned out to have no sneaky, manipulative habits, tbh.
I would try to communicate to him about the situation. I imagine you'll get some answer or clarity based on his response, whether it be positive or negative.
If your guy grew up in this sort of household I'd find it odd if he turned out to have no sneaky, manipulative habits, tbh.
I would try to communicate to him about the situation. I imagine you'll get some answer or clarity based on his response, whether it be positive or negative.
Why that whole family is so dodgy.... Will certainly have a negative influence on the guy you like. With that money missing thing it really seals the deal, best is to get yourself out from this before you are put under more emotional stress.
WTF is wrong with these people. His dad is so disrespectful, I wondered why you didn't give him a tight slap and walk away. And the guy knows exactly where your bag is. You better run a mile darling if you really love your life. There are plenty of honest leebs out there for you to choose from.
Phew, you guys are all doing the most...let it go and move on...seems like this is case where the "blind is leading the blind" in this dramatic fiasco. You seem like you are getting yourself together and in order to finish what you appear to have already started as far as getting your life on track, you need to move away from all of that negativity.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I honestly never thought his family would do that they have more than enough cash and they throw it around like it's nothing... I get the feeling one of his brothers needed my id and are taking their sweet time getting it back.
Sun and Venus in Libra. I think you should give the guy a break myself and keep yourself separate from his family. The coping strategies for managing the mayhem in dysfuntional families vary from person to person. I sense that you are personalizing his behavior when it's not about you. Isn"t it clear son? He does not "protect himself" from his family. How can he protect you. You were betrayed - the best coping strategy that he has learned is to be in denial about the betrayals. Dr. Maya Angelou says when we know better we do better... at this time he doesn't know better.
I have read some of your posts and it appears that out side of the family dynamics you two are pretty happy. Am I right? I would encourage you to perhaps adopt a more moderate response. One, do you really want to break up during the holiday season? Is it possible to clear your head let your emotions calm down and show so patience, love and tolerance? However I would go to his parents' house sparingly and not communicate deragotory feelings about his family to him. HE IS WELL AWARE THAT HIS FAMILY IS A FUCK-UP!
Put him in the dog house for awhile then if you still feel the same way after the holidays take it from there.
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