Gay Libra and Aquarius Relationship

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Jwowsla
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9 Years

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I read these threads all the time! But never knew I would be writing one! Where do I begin?!!! I'm an Aquarius man that met a Libra! The Union was very much so organic! I wasn't looking for him and it kinda just happened! He fancied me so much to the point where's communication with him was amazing! Dates, compliments, the Libra eye of interest! Constantly attending to my needs, made himself available without me asking and was just such a Prince Charming type dude... as we became more involved and became exclusively dating, I noticed some weird out of the blue things...... I believe it was date 2 and we were having cuddle time and I felt like sex was about to happen... I am not about to sleep with you lol, especially after date 2.. I liked him but that was just to soon for me. So the Libra man all of a sudden stopped talking to me.. keep in mind I do like him so I checked him and was like "What is going on," and he was like "I know how situations go like that."" Anyways we made up and we had little disagreements here and there, and I notice that he would just stop talking.... And every time I apologize and show effort he comes back... like I really was not on him to begin with, but the reason I caught feelings was because how genuine he was and how amazing he made me feel. It's almost like I had to work for that... idk I'm a pretty attractive dude and whenever guys give me everything I was (I'm the Aquarius btw), I get bored....... but like it was different with him..... then I noticed he would have some rude things to say, like get out my car, or you need to gain weight what happened. I'm like boy your gonna respect me in my head but I don't know why I just became so vulnerable with him.... it's like if I didn't hear from him or wasn't in his presence, I would loose it.

Anyways our last fight was regarding his space which I understood to an extent. See the situation was these last 4 weekends, he has had his friends over and he was a host... so every weekend I really wasn't around like usual and I had to respect that.... but on the flip side, he already works allot during the week it's like ok where do I fit in........ I didn't really stress it and even though he brang me around his friends I still felt empty... idk but he's currently upset at me because I broke and called him under the influence repeatedly after we just spoke earlier that day about him needing his space what not...... I apologized the next day and he accepted it and said we'd talk more this week.. that was on a Monday and now it's almost 3 days past since I heard from him..... like Wtf? Was it really that serious ? Why are you doing this like I was so nice to you and gave you so much of me, from me cooking to rubbing his back all the time like -_-. I have been so there for him through allot.... I gave him space but at this point it's like disrespectful.......... the first thing we agreed on when we became exclusive was we would communicate how we feel.... But he's not communicating? I have read a bunch about Libras and these "disappearing" acts, but I would think a grown ass man like him would "Just Be A MAN About it ." Did i really affect you that much to make me feel like I'm the one always in the wrong?! We just spoke?

For some reason I don't feel like we're done.... But this feeling hurts me because I actually really liked / loved him....



What do I do? anyone had similar experiences with a Libra man?