So this Libra and I (Leo female) have been at odds for years. However for the last year or so we buried the hatchet as we both travel within the same social scene and both have that innate ability to work the room so to speak. Within the last month or so this relationship/friendship of sorts has gotten pretty intense, and then I started finding out some things I was unaware of like people had assumed for years that we were a couple, because he had kind of made it known as such. This is funny to me because most of these years we were engaged in a war of wills. So sometimes we would speak and then other times we just ignored each other, but honestly it made sense to me, because anyone that attempted to get to know me better would basically stop talking to me after our initial talk. Okay anyway back to now, as I said we had been pretty intense for the last month and he owns a nightclub and although specific rules apply to everyone else I can pretty much do as I please (just felt I needed to throw in there how he treats me). The other night I sent a nasty alcohol fueled text because I felt that he was not giving me my usual attention. I followed up the next day with an apology via text and of course no response, because that is his nature. We were in the same spot last night and he never spoke to me the entire evening instead he just stood in the corner kind of isolated and watched my every move, which is weird because he like myself is a social butterfly besides the fact that he is known for his alluring flirtatious ways and there were plenty of attractive women in the place where we were. I just need to know what I need to do to a) apologize with it being a drama session and b) lay all the cards on the table about all of this undertone of sorts that everyone seems to know about US that I don't. I am usually not a punk about approaching someone but this situation has me in a funk. I thank you for any and all advice you can give.
Help!!!

You need to tell what you said in the text. Depending on how nasty or mean it was would determine why he's acting like that. Libra's don't like confrontation or drama. So if you showed signs of being spoiled or a drama queen in that text, he's behaving normally by backing off. Deciding you need space.
If you want more attention from him, stomping your little feet or snapping at him will not get it, it will actually get you the total opposite, he will straight dip on you. The way to get a libra, is to leave the air light, carefree and fun. Tell him you'd like to grab a bite to eat, or meet up for margaritas and catch up on some laughs. Leave it alone, and let him come around. Do your own thing, and don't hold your breath because I can bet my last he's not only analyzing that text like it's dayum calculus problem, he analyzing you and the entire situation and if you push it will only take him longer. He will not be rushed, and if you try to rush him you will only piss him off.
If you want more attention from him, stomping your little feet or snapping at him will not get it, it will actually get you the total opposite, he will straight dip on you. The way to get a libra, is to leave the air light, carefree and fun. Tell him you'd like to grab a bite to eat, or meet up for margaritas and catch up on some laughs. Leave it alone, and let him come around. Do your own thing, and don't hold your breath because I can bet my last he's not only analyzing that text like it's dayum calculus problem, he analyzing you and the entire situation and if you push it will only take him longer. He will not be rushed, and if you try to rush him you will only piss him off.

Quit being a dumb, self absorbed bitch. That's your solution.
Also, Leo women and Libra men is a godawful combination. The women are always demanding pedestal status and/or sabotaging everything with their insane bullshit, and the guys will only put up with so much before floating away in their air like ways, all while attempting to remain good in her eyes (hence confusion).
I think you need to learn some self control and quit making everything about you. Your post makes you come off like some stuck up diva. Not cute, btw.
Also, Leo women and Libra men is a godawful combination. The women are always demanding pedestal status and/or sabotaging everything with their insane bullshit, and the guys will only put up with so much before floating away in their air like ways, all while attempting to remain good in her eyes (hence confusion).
I think you need to learn some self control and quit making everything about you. Your post makes you come off like some stuck up diva. Not cute, btw.
Dealt with a Leo once and said never again. I'd let it go because honestly the match doesn't work. I've learned that apologies only mean so much and a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. You're not experiencing anything anyone else has felt with dealing with us. People always want the Libra treatment they've always received once they messed up. Hey we all make mistakes, but we weigh all those things and eventually at some point we will cut our losses.
I know what you feel, but is not your fault, it is Libra's nature ! He ignore you not only for that text, that is so small thing, but in his nature, he ignore any woman , having or not a reason.
Give him some time and can continue text to him from time to time, but nice words, lovely, something thsat make him wants you 🙂
Give him some time and can continue text to him from time to time, but nice words, lovely, something thsat make him wants you 🙂
Control your temper. I am a Leo too and from Libra I learned to be different.
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