Honesty

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Chatz on Thursday, July 19, 2007 and has 12 replies.

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi guys and gals, yeah I don't post much anymore these days - been busy damnit!!!

Nothing majorly new with my Libra and I...we're just cruising and I can't complain about that....still yet to see the batchelor pad (things came up where we had to cancel and yada yada but apparently Sunday night - wooohooo)...very nervous and dunno why!!! its like its a biggie!!! But hell, I've known him for 9 months and never been nervous around him but sheesh, this is gonna be weird kinda maybe LOL and no, I understand its not a biggie.

OK well I had to share the cutest thing with you guys....my Libra went out on Saturday night with his mate which was fine with me, in fact, Im so glad he's so different to my ex Gemini (who, was unbelievably clingy and annoyingly smothering where there was never ME time!!). The cute thing though, was, when we caught up on Sunday, he told me where he'd been, what time he was at each place (in town) and when he got home...its not the first time - he does it all the time....I never really knew why he'd be so open and honest about times, etc. I NEVER ask him, NEVER give him the 3rd degree so not sure as to why he does it although it is somewhat of a relief to know he crawled into bed at such and such a time LOL.

he does, however, seem to expect the same from me - he has no problems asking when I got home, where I'd been, who I'd been with, etc....THAT is annoying coz he couldn't have a more loyal partner.

He's way honest though...never met a guy who told everything!! He did say his ex was terribly jealous - hope he doesnt feel the need to tell me coz of that...sheesh!!!

So how is everybody?? Thought I'd start a new topic coz I'd be lost in the traffic of the others I think

Trust me to open up a new one huh?? hehehe

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@Chatz
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Do I wear my jeans which I'll be way comfortable in and no doubt he'll be wearing (its cold here by the way folks)...or do I get dressed up to the max,i.e. dress, heels, etc— too much?? yeah thought so...tisn't like its a dinner date or anything...just a casual night in watching a flick...ok,ok....

Do I bring anything? Oh God, I feel like Im a teenager in lust, oops love!!! LOL

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Hmmm. She might get a draft. LOL!!! Wear, fish net stockings a short skirts knee high boots and a sweater, revealing a little cleavage. Subtle, but sexy and appropriate for cold weather. Now you can do the apron and boots only once you get inside 😉

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@firegirl
19 Years

My best advice - wear your hottest pair of jeans that you feel most comfortable in, confidence is sexy, plus a semi-clevage bearing top with a silky or a special senous material. not too trashy but sexy and feels nice, totally turns my Libra on. Good luck! I would be nervous too in your situation! (tho remember YOU ARE A FIRE SIGN, and we ROCK!)

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

yeah....comfortable is best policy!! As its just casual at his place and he'll be slouching around no doubt. Thanks firegirl and you're right....FIRE SIGNS do rock!!!! LOL

Just gotta regain my Leo confidence back over the weekend....now where did I put that again? LOL

It's all good - just being nervous - its normal.....the funniest thing though, is I KNOW he's more nervous than me - now that's kinda hilarious.

Im pretty sure he'll spend a great deal of the weekend cleaning up and making sure everything is in its place - well I hope so....I have no idea as to what to expect...I know he takes care of his car (its always immaculate)...wonder if his house will be too..somehow I think it will be. He's told me all about his comfy couch and *cough* bed LOL.

Bring it on already!!!!!!