SattyAries
@SattyAries
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Hot & Cold Libra
This might sound weird but this kinda reminds my dad's and I relationship (October 7). I would be rude, he'd try his hardest to make me happy again. Every since I was a child. He clearly wants your acceptance because he values you. Don't take him for granted. Show and tell him how much you appreciate him and the things he does for you. And try your hardest to control yourself, that will also show him how much you value and respect him. But he also seems very indecisive. Probably think he deserves better but also really likes you at the same time so he willing to try and make this work.
Awesome, my father was a libra too lol. My mom and dad got divorced 13 years ago. 😄
And hun, I believe I am rude in speech only when he's breaking up because ... Ok last time... He broke things off cuz he added my friend on FB and she told me whereas he never mentioned it. I asked him POLITELY i swear lol and he got really mad and blocked me and I was laughing.. He came back messaging after a day. Now who's taking who for granted. I show him alot of respect and love when Things are normal.
And hun, I believe I am rude in speech only when he's breaking up because ... Ok last time... He broke things off cuz he added my friend on FB and she told me whereas he never mentioned it. I asked him POLITELY i swear lol and he got really mad and blocked me and I was laughing.. He came back messaging after a day. Now who's taking who for granted. I show him alot of respect and love when Things are normal.
He came back saying he added her because he wanted to checkup on ME? I don't understand, is he spying or ... What?
Posted by blackphaseI want to move on now but he confuses me, now I thought we broke up 2 days ago but he's calling me 'love' and talking like nothing ever happened.Posted by SattyAriesThis doesn't sound out of the ordinary for an immature Libra. I've faced the same things with mine. We also had a bit of back and forth crap like that before we even met.
I'm not new here. I posted about this man in December 2015 and here I am again lol
I just want to know what's he thinking as a Libra. I've been rude with him in our fights. He's broken up about 6 times but always comes back. He's putting efforts only when I'm cold towards him. When I'm too nice he runs away and ignores. I get it we're both immatures. I'm Aries 7th Apr 91 and he's 8th Oct 88. I want to move on but he's too cute to leave lol. I asked him to leave and he says he wants me to so that he doesn't come back and he wants to checkup on me every once in a while.
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional. Only times I was rude to him when he'd break it off with me for nothing big. Is he passing his time and I should take it the same way?
At night he'd hate me and inthe morning he'd say he loves me. It's a phone thing. We've only met once. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE A LIBRA IN MY LIFE?
This isn't going to get any better any time soon. Walk away. Maybe it would work out down the road once you both mature.click to expand
Posted by SattyAriesAre you sure he's not an Aries...lol...you know they love that fight and makeup kinda foolishness, but yeah..you're both childish and immature, so it works for you right now. Eventually, someone will grow bored and fed up and walk away, which I guess would be a good thing.Posted by blackphaseI want to move on now but he confuses me, now I thought we broke up 2 days ago but he's calling me 'love' and talking like nothing ever happened.Posted by SattyAriesThis doesn't sound out of the ordinary for an immature Libra. I've faced the same things with mine. We also had a bit of back and forth crap like that before we even met.
I'm not new here. I posted about this man in December 2015 and here I am again lol
I just want to know what's he thinking as a Libra. I've been rude with him in our fights. He's broken up about 6 times but always comes back. He's putting efforts only when I'm cold towards him. When I'm too nice he runs away and ignores. I get it we're both immatures. I'm Aries 7th Apr 91 and he's 8th Oct 88. I want to move on but he's too cute to leave lol. I asked him to leave and he says he wants me to so that he doesn't come back and he wants to checkup on me every once in a while.
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional. Only times I was rude to him when he'd break it off with me for nothing big. Is he passing his time and I should take it the same way?
At night he'd hate me and inthe morning he'd say he loves me. It's a phone thing. We've only met once. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE A LIBRA IN MY LIFE?
This isn't going to get any better any time soon. Walk away. Maybe it would work out down the road once you both mature.click to expand
Posted by SattyAriesLol. Ok. My bad. He is immature. Now you just have to decided whether you wanna put up with him any longer. Good luck.
Awesome, my father was a libra too lol. My mom and dad got divorced 13 years ago. 😄
And hun, I believe I am rude in speech only when he's breaking up because ... Ok last time... He broke things off cuz he added my friend on FB and she told me whereas he never mentioned it. I asked him POLITELY i swear lol and he got really mad and blocked me and I was laughing.. He came back messaging after a day. Now who's taking who for granted. I show him alot of respect and love when Things are normal.
Posted by LIb4LifeLol sometimes I feel he's more Aries than I am. I expected him to be so wise and mature, calm and collected. I have two female best friends for a decade libra. Amazing, controlled, classy, sophisticated women. But this guy is so opposite. He lies for no reason. The other day, he was onthe phone with me and I could hear him typing on his laptop and he said he's trying to sleep. I put the phone down and he was still online. He's weird. Is it ok if I treat him the same and carry on doing what I wanna do in life? I don't mean no harm to him. But would I be hurting his feelings (which I'm not sure how sincere) when I find someone who actually makes me happy ?Posted by SattyAriesAre you sure he's not an Aries...lol...you know they love that fight and makeup kinda foolishness, but yeah..you're both childish and immature, so it works for you right now. Eventually, someone will grow bored and fed up and walk away, which I guess would be a good thing.Posted by blackphaseI want to move on now but he confuses me, now I thought we broke up 2 days ago but he's calling me 'love' and talking like nothing ever happened.Posted by SattyAriesThis doesn't sound out of the ordinary for an immature Libra. I've faced the same things with mine. We also had a bit of back and forth crap like that before we even met.
I'm not new here. I posted about this man in December 2015 and here I am again lol
I just want to know what's he thinking as a Libra. I've been rude with him in our fights. He's broken up about 6 times but always comes back. He's putting efforts only when I'm cold towards him. When I'm too nice he runs away and ignores. I get it we're both immatures. I'm Aries 7th Apr 91 and he's 8th Oct 88. I want to move on but he's too cute to leave lol. I asked him to leave and he says he wants me to so that he doesn't come back and he wants to checkup on me every once in a while.
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional. Only times I was rude to him when he'd break it off with me for nothing big. Is he passing his time and I should take it the same way?
At night he'd hate me and inthe morning he'd say he loves me. It's a phone thing. We've only met once. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE A LIBRA IN MY LIFE?
This isn't going to get any better any time soon. Walk away. Maybe it would work out down the road once you both mature.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseyou'll get there 🙂Posted by SattyAriesI'm telling you.. It will only get worse and more confusing from here. I wish I had listened to my intuition from the start.. but I didn't. And I've had to put in a lot of hard work and shed many tears to get where I am now.. and it is still not easy.Posted by blackphaseI want to move on now but he confuses me, now I thought we broke up 2 days ago but he's calling me 'love' and talking like nothing ever happened.Posted by SattyAriesThis doesn't sound out of the ordinary for an immature Libra. I've faced the same things with mine. We also had a bit of back and forth crap like that before we even met.
I'm not new here. I posted about this man in December 2015 and here I am again lol
I just want to know what's he thinking as a Libra. I've been rude with him in our fights. He's broken up about 6 times but always comes back. He's putting efforts only when I'm cold towards him. When I'm too nice he runs away and ignores. I get it we're both immatures. I'm Aries 7th Apr 91 and he's 8th Oct 88. I want to move on but he's too cute to leave lol. I asked him to leave and he says he wants me to so that he doesn't come back and he wants to checkup on me every once in a while.
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional. Only times I was rude to him when he'd break it off with me for nothing big. Is he passing his time and I should take it the same way?
At night he'd hate me and inthe morning he'd say he loves me. It's a phone thing. We've only met once. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE A LIBRA IN MY LIFE?
This isn't going to get any better any time soon. Walk away. Maybe it would work out down the road once you both mature.click to expand
Posted by jeaneElaborate lolPosted by blackphaseyou'll get there 🙂Posted by SattyAriesI'm telling you.. It will only get worse and more confusing from here. I wish I had listened to my intuition from the start.. but I didn't. And I've had to put in a lot of hard work and shed many tears to get where I am now.. and it is still not easy.Posted by blackphaseI want to move on now but he confuses me, now I thought we broke up 2 days ago but he's calling me 'love' and talking like nothing ever happened.Posted by SattyAriesThis doesn't sound out of the ordinary for an immature Libra. I've faced the same things with mine. We also had a bit of back and forth crap like that before we even met.
I'm not new here. I posted about this man in December 2015 and here I am again lol
I just want to know what's he thinking as a Libra. I've been rude with him in our fights. He's broken up about 6 times but always comes back. He's putting efforts only when I'm cold towards him. When I'm too nice he runs away and ignores. I get it we're both immatures. I'm Aries 7th Apr 91 and he's 8th Oct 88. I want to move on but he's too cute to leave lol. I asked him to leave and he says he wants me to so that he doesn't come back and he wants to checkup on me every once in a while.
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional. Only times I was rude to him when he'd break it off with me for nothing big. Is he passing his time and I should take it the same way?
At night he'd hate me and inthe morning he'd say he loves me. It's a phone thing. We've only met once. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE A LIBRA IN MY LIFE?
This isn't going to get any better any time soon. Walk away. Maybe it would work out down the road once you both mature.click to expand
Posted by SattyAriesjust that she has been struggling for a while. she's aware of the problems and the solution to those problems. i think tiz says it best that people keep going back until they can't take it anymore. i have faith that blackphase will eventually get to a healthy place with it all. she deserves to.
Elaborate lol
Posted by SattyAriesYou sound more mature than him. Try finding a mature libra, this one is too indecisive. You may end up getting hurt.
Awesome, my father was a libra too lol. My mom and dad got divorced 13 years ago. 😄
And hun, I believe I am rude in speech only when he's breaking up because ... Ok last time... He broke things off cuz he added my friend on FB and she told me whereas he never mentioned it. I asked him POLITELY i swear lol and he got really mad and blocked me and I was laughing.. He came back messaging after a day. Now who's taking who for granted. I show him alot of respect and love when Things are normal.
Posted by SattyAriesYou left out, "a fucking moron."
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional.
@SattyAries...Yes, I'm learning from this site that even though we have similar characteristics, Libra men & women are totally different in relationships, BUT with that being said, NO..treat him accordingly! If he can't appreciate you, then handle it like most people would. That's not being rude, it's being real. At this point, his feelings, in my opinion, would not be that important. I'm not saying that he's not a nice person. He's a Libra and most Libra's are nice upfront, but what is the reason for the unnecessary lies? When someone lies about something as simple as lying down when their really doing something else, makes you wonder what else would they lie about. That's a person that sounds like he casually lies on a regular basis, and for no reason other than the fact that he can do it...lol
Aries and Libra are in opposition in the zodiac wheel. So there is this consuming feeling of attraction, but the natural state is one that is opposed.
Posted by tizianiOk I wouldn't say this to you if I'd know you but I don't see a better option than him yet.
Libra: Too Cute To Leave.
Nevertheless, if he's constantly breaking it off then it just sounds like he is controlling.
Why you're attracted to the relationship, is the honest question.
Posted by ShrewdsharpWhy does he say he loves me but says he needs time for commitment at the same time? For me it's different. When I love someone, I instantly commit unconsciously!
Aries and Libra are in opposition in the zodiac wheel. So there is this consuming feeling of attraction, but the natural state is one that is opposed.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamLol are you saying I'm a treetrunking moron? Hehe thanks!Posted by SattyAriesYou left out, "a fucking moron."
It's been 5 months of this nonsense. I can't even take him seriously anymore. Yes I'm childish, i have extreme reactions to situations. I'm sensitive, possessive and emotional.click to expand
Posted by tizianiYou're an Aries male I'm guessing?Posted by SattyAriesFair play. I hung on to an Aries-Libra relationship myself, for too long in my case without really being all in. So I can't knock you or anyone here.Posted by tizianiOk I wouldn't say this to you if I'd know you but I don't see a better option than him yet.
Libra: Too Cute To Leave.
Nevertheless, if he's constantly breaking it off then it just sounds like he is controlling.
Why you're attracted to the relationship, is the honest question.click to expand
Posted by SattyAriesOr libra male.. Yes you're a libra!Posted by tizianiYou're an Aries male I'm guessing?Posted by SattyAriesFair play. I hung on to an Aries-Libra relationship myself, for too long in my case without really being all in. So I can't knock you or anyone here.Posted by tizianiOk I wouldn't say this to you if I'd know you but I don't see a better option than him yet.
Libra: Too Cute To Leave.
Nevertheless, if he's constantly breaking it off then it just sounds like he is controlling.
Why you're attracted to the relationship, is the honest question.click to expand
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