WHY CANT LIBRAS FIND LOVE

I always want to be in a relationship, because when I'm not I feel alone and raw and exposed. Lol hard to explain. Im a genuine nice person, and like to think of myself as good looking haha. Im all about my looks and I receive a lot of compliments and etc so why is it that people just don't care enough to be in a relationship with me. I sound so pathetic but being single is not fun.

Libras can and do find love.You said you are all about your looks. Would you say that you are shallow? Maybe, people feel you are.

Libras stay in love/relationships

But I do understand your feelings. I feel like that too sometimes. I'm an Aries tho your opposite. And I've been alone ALOT. I know what it's like to be alone and lonely so I feel ya.

you should focus on being the right relationship, not be in a relationship for a relationships sake.

don't settle for second best. if it means being alone until you find the right person then that is the price to pay. you pay ounces in loneliness now but reap the reward in tons when you find the right relationship.

in the meantime, work on becoming the best person you can be. be ok with being by yourself. don't rely on someone else to "complete" you. that's not their job. part of getting ready for love, may mean you need to deal with your issues. we all bring baggage to our relationships but try to travel light! do the work you can on yourself now so that you bring your very best self to your partner.

realise also that love is not owed to you. it's not a right, it is a gift.

@jeane always have the best advice i swear. I feel a sense of calmness about u idk like what u say ppl will listen.

Posted by luckiedollsmith
I always want to be in a relationship, because when I'm not I feel alone and raw and exposed. Lol hard to explain. Im a genuine nice person, and like to think of myself as good looking haha. Im all about my looks and I receive a lot of compliments and etc so why is it that people just don't care enough to be in a relationship with me. I sound so pathetic but being single is not fun.

I'm wondering.. What are your other placements besides Libra?

Posted by lovely77
@jeane always have the best advice i swear. I feel a sense of calmness about u idk like what u say ppl will listen.

aww, thank you. that's very nice of you to say. i think i am a mean bitch most of the time but i have my zen moments! it's nearly always meant well. i think you have the ability to see the best in what people are trying to offer and that is a rare skill indeed, especially when it comes to strangers on the internet and matters of the heart.

@Luckiedoll-

You're not in a relationship because you have no self-identity.

The sexiest quality an individual can have is a strong sense of identity, compromising attributes...while being totally unaware of how sexy they are.

Note: There are plenty of attractive people roaming this earth. A good man can only select ONE!

The shallow 'playas', however will be more than content to take you up on your offer.

Maybe if you guys were happy with what you had in the moment instead of constantly looking for the "better" thing, you wouldn't have these issues.

Also, shacking up with someone for the sake of not being single just spells disaster. Desperation will not get you good results in the relationship department.

People dont love you or you dont love them? I notice alot of people warm to me easily but its v difficult for me to fall in love and any guy ive ever been with has said those words long before I do...

are you a life path n°1 ? because the thirst is real with you

(ha-ha, very funny .. I know, I know)

become famous and people will be seeking your company ..
for this purpose, create a youtube channel and find ways to make it popular

#goldenadvice

I feel you girl! I hate being alone and I do think I am beautiful and smart so I got it all...not perfect but I know I got it yet I don't seem to be able to hold a man for more than 5 months max a year lol. All of my Libra friends are in long term relationships or happily married. I do think that Libras are relationship people and they're good at it. So I guess it's only me! (and you?!)
maybe you need to work on yourself first, not saying that something's wrong with you...you know what i mean!!

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Maybe if you guys were happy with what you had in the moment instead of constantly looking for the "better" thing, you wouldn't have these issues.

Also, shacking up with someone for the sake of not being single just spells disaster. Desperation will not get you good results in the relationship department.

Spot on.

Being single is not a bad thing. It should be a time of self reflection and to enjoy life for what it is. I loved being single because I was able to just go where I wanted and see what I wanted. Enjoy time with my family and friends. It was great. I'm no longer single, but I needed that time alone.

Now that I said that....
It doesn't matter of you are the most beautiful person on the outside, someone has to see that you are beautiful on the inside as well. So if you are all about your looks, how is someone supposed to see if you have more to offer? Please don't be the stereotypical "Libra." Many Libras are in loving relationships. It's because they see people for who they are, not just what they look like. Don't keep looking for love, let it find you. In the mean time, enjoy life! You don't have to be with someone for that to happen.