A different Libra

He is born — 5 Oct — Heartbroken twice — Proposed me twice and Second time I said "yes". All his qualities match to a libran man but he is really into me, he messages me first always, He wants to know me more and more and wants me to love him just the way he does. I'm leo-virgo cusp of exposure, born on 23rd August. I'm a raging extrovert and at the same time a secretive introvert at heart. I'm bold... like really bold and I am popular. I am not sure that I love him or not, I have commitment issues and a loads of secrets. I don't know, are we compatible? Is it safe to tell some secrets to him? Another big problem, I said "I love you." to him.

Interesting post...

How long have you know him? If its been a while you should be able to know if you're differences match so to speak. You said I love you...do you? If not why say it?

Wow yea u don't love him. U may like him alot. Secrets it's ok to keep some but if it affects the rel then.......

Why would you agree to marry someone who you are this uncertain about? That is kind of cruel if you ask me.

Listen to your instincts; obviously something is off otherwise you wouldn't need to seek validation from a bunch of internet strangers. In my experience If you have to ask - then he's probably not the one.

Why the fuck are people like you in relationships?

Makes my brain melt.

It was interesting to hear your views and I really have a contradictory personality as maybe its because I fall on the cusp. I did not want to enter any relationship due to the same but my man kind of challenged me that I would fall for him. We are doing good now, I even told him that I am still confused and he said "Its okay. Things will get better." It was yesterday only when I got to know a little about his past and I got scared as it was as dark as mine... I am still going through a turnmoil.

Posted by kierahart6
I am not sure that I love him or not, I have commitment issues and a loads of secrets.

Forget the secrets. Why don't you know if you love him or not? From yours side I am not sure this is something you should be wasting time with nor wasting his time.

Posted by kierahart6
It was interesting to hear your views and I really have a contradictory personality as maybe its because I fall on the cusp. I did not want to enter any relationship due to the same but my man kind of challenged me that I would fall for him. We are doing good now, I even told him that I am still confused and he said "Its okay. Things will get better." It was yesterday only when I got to know a little about his past and I got scared as it was as dark as mine... I am still going through a turnmoil.

Trust your instincts; take it slow, don't put all your eggs in one basket and roll a joint. LOL

Posted by kierahart6
It was interesting to hear your views and I really have a contradictory personality as maybe its because I fall on the cusp. I did not want to enter any relationship due to the same but my man kind of challenged me that I would fall for him. We are doing good now, I even told him that I am still confused and he said "Its okay. Things will get better." It was yesterday only when I got to know a little about his past and I got scared as it was as dark as mine... I am still going through a turnmoil.

Two dark pasts are often together for the wrong reasons. Trust me I have seen it over and over.

Obviously trust your instincts but it's something to consider.

Posted by BlondeAmbition

Posted by kierahart6
It was interesting to hear your views and I really have a contradictory personality as maybe its because I fall on the cusp. I did not want to enter any relationship due to the same but my man kind of challenged me that I would fall for him. We are doing good now, I even told him that I am still confused and he said "Its okay. Things will get better." It was yesterday only when I got to know a little about his past and I got scared as it was as dark as mine... I am still going through a turnmoil.

Two dark pasts are often together for the wrong reasons. Trust me I have seen it over and over.

Obviously trust your instincts but it's something to consider.

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Things going quiet well... now.

Posted by topes
India is a whole other ball game.

ah! I didn't notice that. Good point. As you were ....