@luckiedollsmith
11 YearsLibra
Libras cutting people off
Why Libras and Other Signs Cut People Off Quickly
Libras and similar signs may cut people off suddenly due to a desire for harmony and fear of conflict. This reaction helps them protect their emotional well-being and maintain peace, but it can also reflect underlying frustration or boundaries. Understanding this pattern can improve communication and relationships.
Hmm i noticed they dont and sometimes should like cancers wr hold on. Libras not all but some deal and b in crazy situations and dont let go.
I put a lot of effort into my relationships and enjoy seeing my friends happy. I also choose to put myself primarily in positive environments. If someone is disloyal or negative, I will weed that person out and cut them off completely. I just don't see the point in putting more energy into that relationship when I have so many other people to care about.
Me too @aggrippina66789
Posted by luckiedollsmith
I realized that not only myself, but Leos, Scorpios, Geminis and other Libras have the tendency to cut people off at a drop of a dime without second guessing it. I never understood why we do that, For me its like an automatic reaction .I love that you post about the negative qualities of libra and admit to them lol
I cut people off then say "oops, sorry, go ahead" which can be more annoying than just continuing when you do it 10 fucking times
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Wrong kind of "cutting off." He's talking about dropping them and not bothering with them anymore, not interrupting.
If I do an immediate cut off it is usually because a person did something with the same energy and mentality as someone who has deeply hurt me before. The reminder of the experience will allow me to drop them but this is usually if I haven't known then for long.
Posted by luckiedollsmith
I realized that not only myself, but Leos, Scorpios, Geminis and other Libras have the tendency to cut people off at a drop of a dime without second guessing it. I never understood why we do that, For me its like an automatic reaction .I love that you post about the negative qualities of libra and admit to them lol
I cut people off then say "oops, sorry, go ahead" which can be more annoying than just continuing when you do it 10 fucking times
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The reasoning behind me TALKING ABOUT NEGATIVE TRAITS ONLY FROM LIBRAS Is because Im tired of everyone thinking that Libras are sooooooo balanced and so nice and just completely laid-back and relaxed. It makes us look so artificial, and we are FAR from that so if I'm posting only negative and admitting to them, thats showing Im humbled of our positive abilities as well as being acknowledgeable of our negatives and even questioning our negatives. If i was just to post positive stuff about Libras there would be absolutely NO POINT in posting in the thread because nobody would have anything to comment on. But next thread I post it will say "Why Are Libras So Positive and Balanced and Good looking" and I will dedicate that thread to you :* Promise
Lollll thats a good point libras do have a darkside im glad u can atleast post about it and let ppl know.
@eltigre25 u offended me one time and i dont appreciate it.
Im just kidding lol pulling ur leg today @eltigre25
Posted by luckiedollsmith
I realized that not only myself, but Leos, Scorpios, Geminis and other Libras have the tendency to cut people off at a drop of a dime without second guessing it. I never understood why we do that, For me its like an automatic reaction .I love that you post about the negative qualities of libra and admit to them lol
I cut people off then say "oops, sorry, go ahead" which can be more annoying than just continuing when you do it 10 fucking times
Wrong kind of "cutting off." He's talking about dropping them and not bothering with them anymore, not interrupting.
Nice catch, captain!!
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That was my first thought too when I read the title haha.
Posted by luckiedollsmith
I realized that not only myself, but Leos, Scorpios, Geminis and other Libras have the tendency to cut people off at a drop of a dime without second guessing it. I never understood why we do that, For me its like an automatic reaction .I love that you post about the negative qualities of libra and admit to them lol
I cut people off then say "oops, sorry, go ahead" which can be more annoying than just continuing when you do it 10 fucking times
The reasoning behind me TALKING ABOUT NEGATIVE TRAITS ONLY FROM LIBRAS Is because Im tired of everyone thinking that Libras are sooooooo balanced and so nice and just completely laid-back and relaxed. It makes us look so artificial, and we are FAR from that so if I'm posting only negative and admitting to them, thats showing Im humbled of our positive abilities as well as being acknowledgeable of our negatives and even questioning our negatives. If i was just to post positive stuff about Libras there would be absolutely NO POINT in posting in the thread because nobody would have anything to comment on. But next thread I post it will say "Why Are Libras So Positive and Balanced and Good looking" and I will dedicate that thread to you :* Promise
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This is why you, and a couple of others here, amuse me when you do this. Every sign has asshat behavior of some sort. When people of that sign sit there and vehemently deny it because they can't relate or are guilty and don't want to admit it, it just looks so fucking stupid. Denial is a terrible thing to live in and it seems a lot of Libras around here do this.
It's funny to me when someone comes here, having issues with a Libra (usually a dude) and others who have also had the same experiences pipe up with input... Then, here comes the enablers and whiners, going on about woe is Libra, so misunderstood, and deny that this behavior is even doable by a Libra. Deny, deny, deny.
Then we get one or two users, like you, who come in and drop this input. It makes me lol because it totally counters the fantasy dwellers with a big slap in the face.
For me it's because when I have exhausted all avenues of communication and took the initial step of putting myself out there for someone and I feel unappreciated or taken for granted, I begin to lose interest once I come to conclusion the person is just wasting my time. I do realize people get busy, but a text response takes a matter of seconds and If I have to wait around for someone and I feel ignored, my mind begins to wander and think the other person doesn't really care. Doesn't take very long to see this either. Proof is by an individual's actions, not whispering sweet-nothings in my ear.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
I do it easily and swiftly. No need in wasting time.
You have Venus in Scorp right?
Posted by lovely77
Hmm i noticed they dont and sometimes should like cancers wr hold on. Libras not all but some deal and b in crazy situations and dont let go.
Libra have crazy situations usually with either Gemini or Aquarius.... but I cut lose superfast.
Posted by lovely77
Hmm i noticed they dont and sometimes should like cancers wr hold on. Libras not all but some deal and b in crazy situations and dont let go.
Libra have crazy situations usually with either Gemini or Aquarius.... but I cut lose superfast.
I tend to do this to...usually after I have put myself out there but was taken for granted. Also with those who words don't match their actions. I bring it to your attention once...twice then it's ---- Poof like a fucking magic trick.
Funny tho, they come apologizing a week or so later. Like I care? Nope, bye!
Posted by LuckyLibra979
I do it easily and swiftly. No need in wasting time.
Your profile pic, tho! Love it!
Loll @fyzagems this is funny. Im always laughing though maybe a 🙂 would help
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I realized that not only myself, but Leos, Scorpios, Geminis and other Libras have the tendency to cut people off at a drop of a dime without second guessing it. I never understood why we do that, For me its like an automatic reaction .