how crazy is too crazy for you libras?

i mean how much craziness will you tolerate from you significant other. you know they may have a temper. they dont take it out on you (well 1 time but he totally deserved it, i swear thats it), they take it out on the person that is causing the fury. im not talking about, fighting in the streets (unless its self defense), or cussing random people out in public. nothing like that....

well maybe once fighting in the street, hey this chick almost hit me in the head with a bottle of patron. i turned my head and she missed, so it was close...i got patron in my hair and on my face. i licked it off and jumped her ass. it was a case of mistaken identity..anyway...he had to bail me out...im talking to much as usual

its just, maybe a little cussing (when your not around), throwing test tubes, putting bleach in laundry, you know innocent stuff like that.


so whats your limit of acceptable craziness—

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
hahaha I — Aquas...

Your kind crazy is just cute.

Scorp kind crazy... not so much.

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😄 thanks TOC

Chem, i always suspected that u were ghetto fabulous. Lmao @ jumping her ass. Just dont get any scars, librans dont do Chucky's bride, lol. About the craziness, dont worry, they love it when we go cuckoo-clock. I think librans are secretly turned on by a little badness. My ex used to get all romantic and sweaty each time i dropped and f-bomb. Hahaha. But be careful, there's a difference between being born bad and fake badness. Fake is never sexy. Drop those bombs girl, drop them like ur family with Snoop dogg. Lol, never mind.

On a more sober note though, chem- when someone really loves u, even your worst traits become endearing. You can cuss out all u want and it will be like ur reciting Rumi's love poems to him. It feels really nice to be accepted like that and libra men are capable of doing just that, warts and all.

Oh come on, 3Es, i know u wouldnt like a girl with a face that looks like it has been used for darts throw practise. Unless u have a thing for scary looking women.

I meant the kind of women who look like muggers/thugs, it could be anything really. I find women with facial tats scary too. If i was a man, i wouldnt even look at women with acne scars, moustache, etc, the face must be clear and clean. What kind of scars do u find cute (lol)? Pockmarks? Zipper-like scars? Hahaha, boxer face?

How about body scars? I once went to a strip club with friends and one of the strippers had stretch marks all over. When she went on stage and danced, the lights made her marks to look like lightening flashes. That was scary.

Well u said scars were cute, now why wouldnt u date someone who looked like a boxer? A moustache is sort of like a mark too imo, especially on a woman. Its unattrative. 'baby move over, i wanna shave too'. Lmao. Tbh, im obsessed with female facial hair- all the elderly women in my family had either a moustache or a sensei's beard. I'm secretly afraid.

fake badness? nah. my face is good, my dad taught me to always protect my face when im in a fight. he was a bit vain tho..he was scorpio...and yes i am a bit ghetto fab...cant hid it, dont really try too. the thing of it is, i have always hidden the cussing part. i mean one time he experienced it. but thats when he pushed me too far.

but i figured that he experience all this stuff, bailed me out of jail, and still gave me a ring..i think i'm okay.

thanks guys. 😄

Posted by WaterCup
On a more sober note though, chem- when someone really loves u, even your worst traits become endearing. You can cuss out all u want and it will be like ur reciting Rumi's love poems to him. It feels really nice to be accepted like that and libra men are capable of doing just that, warts and all.

thanks WC. 😄

Aww chem, u know how much i love/hate these boys, their acceptance of ppl is the ONLY thing i love about them though...ok, ok, not the only, but the 2nd. Number one is my secret and im taking it to my grave, lol.

Posted by WaterCup
Aww chem, u know how much i love/hate these boys, their acceptance of ppl is the ONLY thing i love about them though...ok, ok, not the only, but the 2nd. Number one is my secret and im taking it to my grave, lol.

lol 😄

I'd be honest - Libra don't like crazy at all. Anything sane is where Libra is most comfortable. They don't like shocks, at least not in the love dept. unless they have uranus contacts to the sun.

I have uranus contact to mercury, and although I like wild ideas and ingeniusness (liking to witness it), I don't like anything out of the ordinary insane. And I don't like rigidity and mental fixicity, which I see is a form of bullying.

Libra don't do strong or weak, and I know Aqua women are dominating and like playing strong/weak games. Tone that down to his idea of near equality or there'll just be tolerance and getting used to. Libra can get used to something, but it doesn't mean they'll like it.

You have to see where is the Venus. My Venus contacts Saturn in Libra - I'm very mainstream.

Posted by spica
I'd be honest - Libra don't like crazy at all. Anything sane is where Libra is most comfortable. They don't like shocks, at least not in the love dept. unless they have uranus contacts to the sun.

you know i think thats a little unfair. we ALL have a little crazy in us. i saw his this weekend on our camping trip. never saw it before in 3 years. but yes we all have some form of craziness inside of us. i would think something was wrong with him if he was always in control and totally sane.

What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

Anyway to answer your original question with regards to yourself, don't worry so much about it. Be yourself, he likes you for you; you shouldn't change becaue you're scared he cannot take it. That is considerate of you to think this way, but if he's up to the marrying stage you have nothing to worry and I think you'll make a good marriage.

Now congratulations and goodbye.

Posted by spica
What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

i dont mean crazy or insanity as in schizophrenia or manic bipolar...i mean crazy in the since that you loose your temper ever once in a while or you have crazy dramatic situations in your life that cause you to react in ways that others usually never see.

thats what i mean by crazy. not literally.

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Posted by spica
What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

i dont mean crazy or insanity as in schizophrenia or manic bipolar...i mean crazy in the since that you loose your temper ever once in a while or you have crazy dramatic situations in your life that cause you to react in ways that others usually never see.

thats what i mean by crazy. not literally.

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Yes. That is Libra's crazy...
it is different from Aqua's crazy which is like "SPECTACULAR WOW!" kind..

if you can accept that then you can live peacefully 😛

Posted by spica
Anyway to answer your original question with regards to yourself, don't worry so much about it. Be yourself, he likes you for you; you shouldn't change becaue you're scared he cannot take it. That is considerate of you to think this way, but if he's up to the marrying stage you have nothing to worry and I think you'll make a good marriage.

Now congratulations and goodbye.

thank you very much. and thanks for your comments..gave me somethings to think about. 🙂

Libra can also go crazy in depression .. the "feel sorry for yourself" kinda crazy..

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Posted by spica
What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

i dont mean crazy or insanity as in schizophrenia or manic bipolar...i mean crazy in the since that you loose your temper ever once in a while or you have crazy dramatic situations in your life that cause you to react in ways that others usually never see.

thats what i mean by crazy. not literally.

Yes. That is Libra's crazy...
it is different from Aqua's crazy which is like "SPECTACULAR WOW!" kind..

if you can accept that then you can live peacefully 😛

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Posted by spica
Anyway to answer your original question with regards to yourself, don't worry so much about it. Be yourself, he likes you for you; you shouldn't change becaue you're scared he cannot take it. That is considerate of you to think this way, but if he's up to the marrying stage you have nothing to worry and I think you'll make a good marriage.

Now congratulations and goodbye.

thank you very much. and thanks for your comments..gave me somethings to think about. 🙂

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You're welcome. I gtg. I glanced your other thread I think he is a bit jealous of the instructor, it's really nothing.. 😛 cya.

Posted by spica
Libra can also go crazy in depression .. the "feel sorry for yourself" kinda crazy..

yea he does that. when he didn't get a project he really wanted to work on. and i was growing a little impatient about it. we had a heart to heart let him get all his feelings out..then he moved on eventually. that is one thing i have mastered being with him these last 3 years is patience. 🙂
because aquas lack that.

There's a wide line between crazy and psycho.. TOC said it very well with the first post.

I'm crazy in certain ways, I embrace that.. and my Libra loves it about me. But I'm not psycho or dramatastic. Libras DON'T like psycho and drama in their relationships. Fun and excitement, sure. Maybe even a touch of "crazy girl".. but cross the line into Nutzo Bitchland, most Libras won't dig it.

Last weekend, Libra was out with his best buddy of about 15 years, Mike (a Pisces lol), and Mike's .. whatever she is.. (she's the (PISCES - they aren't all sunshine and rainbows, I admit!) INSANE, psycho ex from years ago, now married/kids with someone else, but sneaking around on her husband to try re-igniting something with Mike).. she showed up where they were and caused a bunch of drama.

Once some of the dust settled, someone went to "introduce" the psycho Pisces girl to Libra.. he said he already knew her.. she looked at him and said expectantly, "And...??".. He'd finally had enough (listen carefully.. this goes along with your "Unexpectedly Rude Libra" thread too!).. and he said, "And I don't like you, I never have." Just that, and walked away.. she kept following him around, badgering him, demanding to know WHY. He finally snapped, "You were a crazy psycho then, and you're a crazy psycho now. But now you're a cheating whore on top of it. And you're fucking with my friend's feelings." She screams, "WHORE?! How dare you call me a whore?!" He shrugged and said, "You're married to one guy and running around with another. Ergo, you're a whore. Duh.".. And she punched him in the face and told him, "Check your front porch before looking at mine. Where's YOUR woman tonight? Bet she's fucking some other guy." (Mind you, she doesn't know me!) Others hauled Libra away, scared of what might happen (meh.. he wouldn't hit a woman.. but Libra would indeed verbally FLAY her and reveal ALL her dirt, and not care who was listening!) When Mike heard what went down, he yelled at Libra for calling her a Whore, and yelled at the psycho for calling ME one. Guess it was pretty ugly.

Libra came home with a fat lip, minus his coat.. Mike hasn't returned Libra's calls (or coat) all week. :/

Anyway, the whole point of that rambling wall of drunken shenanigans was.. toward the end of this mess, after he was punched in the mouth, Libra texted me and said, "Baby, I LOVE our non-drama relationship! I can't wait to come home to you." And when he did get home, it was Love City.

Oh.. and in case you were wondering why I'm so comfortable calling that chick a psycho.. found out something else that weekend...

See, Mike isn't into all that computers and cyber stuff... but a couple months ago, he suddenly makes an FB page and starts adding all of us. We're all understandably surprised and shocked, and posting on his Wall things like OMG and WTF and Welcome to the 21st century!

But see we found out... MIKE never made that account.. SHE DID... SHE made it, to add all of us and check us out, keep tabs on Mike's friends, see what we talk about, see who might flirt with him.

That all came out that night too, when Libra asked Mike what finally possessed him to join FB.. and Mike was completely baffled. A lot of arguing and pressure later, psycho ex ADMITS she made it, to see what she could find out about what he's up to.

My face: 😕 Really?!?! No.. really... that's just.. -_-

I guess SOME guys like psycho and drama.. but not a Libra haha

that is crazy, she is a psycho! FB a blessing and a curse. i think its something about it that makes people go crazy. not in her case she is just a mental.

Dang girl. Lol. You sound like a handful. Bleach in the laundry huh, (oh I'm remembering that if I should move in w/a guy and he does me wrong.lol) Good one. And the patrone incident, I don't blame you! OMg, I soo don't play bout my hair. You a G for that! LOL.

Umm, I tend to keep crazy "negative" people with a long handle spoon, meaning I wont get too close too them, and if I love them I will tend to love them from a distance. For example I dated a Capricorn back in college. And he put the captital "C" in crazy. Horrible temper, would never hit me but wouldn't hesitate on cussing me out until I was in tears, but then he'd apologize that same day and treat me like a princess. Fortunately for him I was already in love, so I tolerated his little temper tantrums for a good 3 months until I decided we were better off as friends. We're still cool, and he still trys to get back with me but ummm, yea no.lol. I can tolerate pretty much anything from someone I love EXCEPT physical abuse, cheating, emotional abuse, or bringing home a disease. However its not what I CAN tolerate, its what I WONT tolerate, now that list is a little longer the one I just gave.lol

oh ALibra, all that stuff i listed i did to other people not him. but yea i did cuss him out one time. i figure 1 time out of 3 years we've been together is not bad. but thats it. he was just pushing all the wrong buttons in a 1 day period.

i know yall have limits and dont like that kind of thing. tbh im sure everyone has limits of the amount of crazy they will tolerate. but i just wanted to know what was the ball park.

oh and he doesnt know about half the stuff i did, i didnt tell him. i wrote this when i was thinking about telling him. but i think i will just keep it to myself. 🙂

LOL. I dunno??_the part about the patrone bottle might have him falling out his seat in laughter. Shoot I know I did. LMBO! (Still laughing)

Posted by ALibra
LOL. I dunno??_the part about the patrone bottle might have him falling out his seat in laughter. Shoot I know I did. LMBO! (Still laughing)

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oh yea except that he knows about that, that was so bad. he bailed me out of jail. you should have seen the look on his face. trying not to laugh at me standing next to a prostitute getting all my personal belongings back. i just told him i dont want to hear it. 😢

patron bottles are hard girl, made with that thick glass, she could have knocked me out! oh crazy psycho. she thought i was the girl sleeping with her man. she was drunk as all out. i told her next time she should be sure so she wont have to walk around with a black eye. tsk tsk..

No. Next time she should be looking for her man and knock HIM over the head with the patrone bottle. Im pretty sure whoever the girl is didn't tie a rope to his stuff and pull it inside her herself. LOL. Thirsty girls need to get a grip.

your exactly right. i wonder why they always blaming the woman and the man just walking around without a scratch on him. twisted. when that happened to me, i attacked the guy not the girl.

^^ sorry kept getting error message

Reindeer ur a girl? I thought u were a guy for some reason. Home remedies that work for me to remove dots are: lemon juice and garlic. U squeeze out the juice of a fresh lemon and use a cotton wool to apply it to your face. Wait a few minutes then rinse the skin. The garlic one, put crushed garlic on the pimple, let it dry and rinse. It wont leave a mark. This works better if u put it on the pimple until it disappeares. Baking soda paste helps too to remove dots on the skin. Mix it with lemon juice to make a paste and u will see some results. I dont have any marks because i do all those. Try them out and tell me how it works. Good luck

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Posted by spica
What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

i dont mean crazy or insanity as in schizophrenia or manic bipolar...i mean crazy in the since that you loose your temper ever once in a while or you have crazy dramatic situations in your life that cause you to react in ways that others usually never see.

thats what i mean by crazy. not literally.

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I have a dramatic life with my family...it drives me crazy and I have found someone that has too much drama around me drains me! I don't like it and can't handle it and when they are going through too much for my liking so I stay away from them!

If your life is full of dramas all the time, I would think that eventually the novelty would wear thin...that's how I would feel personally anywho...

Posted by WaterCup
Reindeer ur a girl? I thought u were a guy for some reason. Home remedies that work for me to remove dots are: lemon juice and garlic. U squeeze out the juice of a fresh lemon and use a cotton wool to apply it to your face. Wait a few minutes then rinse the skin. The garlic one, put crushed garlic on the pimple, let it dry and rinse. It wont leave a mark. This works better if u put it on the pimple until it disappeares. Baking soda paste helps too to remove dots on the skin. Mix it with lemon juice to make a paste and u will see some results. I dont have any marks because i do all those. Try them out and tell me how it works. Good luck

thanks for the tips WC 😄 i knew about the baking soda but not the garlic 🙂

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Posted by spica
What's your concept of sanity and insanity?

i dont mean crazy or insanity as in schizophrenia or manic bipolar...i mean crazy in the since that you loose your temper ever once in a while or you have crazy dramatic situations in your life that cause you to react in ways that others usually never see.

thats what i mean by crazy. not literally.

I have a dramatic life with my family...it drives me crazy and I have found someone that has too much drama around me drains me! I don't like it and can't handle it and when they are going through too much for my liking so I stay away from them!

If your life is full of dramas all the time, I would think that eventually the novelty would wear thin...that's how I would feel personally anywho...

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that is emotionally draining. im sorry to hear that. but i dont have that much drama going on..just hear and there. the latest drama is caused by his sister actually. but im not going to get into that. thanks for taking the time to post and giving me some insight. 🙂

Posted by spica
You have to see where is the Venus. My Venus contacts Saturn in Libra - I'm very mainstream.

my libra has a saturn venus conjunction in scorpio..how do u think this placement effects u??

A lot just about anything to keep the peace but once we decide we can't take no more (pooof) you're done erase from memory time! never knew u