@ALibra
14 Years
LIBRAS...EVER FIND YOURSELF....
no I've never been able to date more than one person at a time...even if the person I have accepted the date from is not someone I know I will fall for. I have to let them know that we are only going to be friends before I can date anyone else.
And if I meet someone that I know I will/could fall for, I am all thumbs! Gone is my cool exterior and I start to fumble and drop things of spill things or say the wrong thing. I have a pisces friend (and we are only friends) things didn't work for us. Saw him last week and I started spilling my wine as I was talking to him!!! hahaha He still has an effect on me
Posted by ALibra
Ever find yourself darn near ducking for cover when you find yourself really, and I mean really falling someone. Is it just me, or do we all panick and start to slightly change trying not to mess things up? Then so you don't smother the person (this goes double for those of us who aren't "official" with our love interest), you find yourself dating "okay" people. Like people you like, but not like that??_and before you know it your love interest accuses you of acting like you don't care—
Lol. Is this just me or all libra's? Just wondering in general??_
Yes, everything that you described. I wish that I wasnt like that....I am trying so hard to keep my cool, but I seem too cool. I am trying to BALANCE my actions but they are terribly unbalanced..and he has said something about it and he does not know how to handle it as he is not communicative.
This is happening to me right now... My feelings are growing for this guy and its freaking me out so I always back off to try to get them under control since god forbid I admit any such thing and show vulnerability and the other day he said to me he feels like I dont like him when he goes back to his home town... I HATE this about me.. I'm not a shy person at all but I find myself being shy around him not wanting to mess things up or something..
and to add to that.. I do talk to other guys to try to keep balanced.. I'm glad i'm not the only person that does this.
This guy isn't really opening up or communicating much but there are signs he likes me too.. I just need him to say it for some reason or ask me questions so I open up and answer... ahhhhh Stupid capricorn moon
Why not just tell them you like them? End needless suffering on both sides. 🙂
Why not just tell them you like them? End needless suffering on both sides. 🙂
For some reason, when we do, it appears we are coming on too strong. We are too expressive and for most other ppl they see it as "crazy" or too much too soon. We really are like the whirlwind. When we feel it, it is all consuming and torrential. LOL This is why WE are looking for the balance. We try to temper all of this, LOL
I act the same way, and lost a Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces because of that smh
air if you could go back and do anything differently what would it be?
Posted by libnicole84
air if you could go back and do anything differently what would it be?
Show more affection and stop trying to play cool
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Ever find yourself darn near ducking for cover when you find yourself really, and I mean really falling someone. Is it just me, or do we all panick and start to slightly change trying not to mess things up? Then so you don't smother the person (this goes double for those of us who aren't "official" with our love interest), you find yourself dating "okay" people. Like people you like, but not like that??_and before you know it your love interest accuses you of acting like you don't care—
Lol. Is this just me or all libra's? Just wondering in general??_