@tatbubba
14 Years
Libra ex - love of my life?
Understanding a Libra Ex and Moving On
A Libra ex may leave a lasting impression due to their charm and emotional connection. Moving on can be challenging, especially when feelings persist. Focus on healing yourself and accepting the situation. Remember that astrology suggests Libra values harmony, which might influence their actions. Prioritize your well-being and consider closure for emotional peace.
I don't think you should be in contact with him. In this case, it's not healthy. It does no good for your sanity, and definitely doesn't help you when it comes to moving on with your life.
This is so scary, i could almost relate. U need to move on, if not emotionally at least do it physically. Why is he still married if he wants u that much? Libran men are spineless little worms who would do anything to keep u around.... Sorry to human libran men, u lot have garden slugs among u, cant tell the difference. LOL
Did you meet him when he was married? That will explain not only what type of Leeb he is, but what type of MAN he is. If you did he is not a man. Not in my eyes anyway. If he is so in love with you (and miserable with his ex, which I am sure he is telling you) then any normal person would leave the relationship before diving into something else. His love for you is not deep, it seems only superficial. If it was he would not be married now would he? Something to think about. 🙂
We met before he married, he chose to get married even though he claimed to be in love with me, because he didn't want to rock the boat and because I was only 22 at the time and he felt too young. Is it normal for Libras to play mind games? Because he definately does, and he is also insanely jealous. Yes, I know it's unhealthy for me to even have a contact with him, but it seems every time I try to break away he manages to reel me back in. This new year though has made me resolute to start over and move on !!
Too young for what, just curious? If he chose sumone else over u, i dont see the point of being with him. He made his choice. Mine lied about being married, i found out two yrs into the relationship. Sumthing kept me for a few months, but at the end i walked away. That was five years ago, but i still cant get rid of him. I got married, had a son while he is still chasing the moon. Avoid him at all cost & build a future with sumbody else. I still love my ex, dont get me wrong, but sumthings are better left alone if they bring pain.
I think it would help you to cut all contact. While you're still in touch it's stopping you from moving on and finding someone who will cherish you.
DANG THESE LIBRA MEN! HAha! They been on a roll this whole damn year! LOL. Selfish Libra Charmers make it so hard for the sincere Libra men charmers.lol
What you have to do is simple. Now read closely.
STOP
LISTENING
TO
HIM!
BLOCK out ALL the sweet things he says, all the little mushy things he says, the compliments the whole nine because in his case and for your OWN benefit, you CANNOT afford to let this Libra charm the stitching off yo panties, because that's EXACTLY what ALL Libra men do. Some do it for the right reasons others do it for selfish reasons. Since this man is married, with a family, had a chance to marry you and still DIDN'T choose you, im just gon take a guess and decide he doing it for the damn selfish reasons.
RUN! Now if you cant run, then at least make yourself darn near deaf when he get to talking all that mess HE KNOWS you love to hear. Instead of listening to him, WATCH him if his actions don't match them words he talking then girl head for the heels as fast as you can (Don't even write that you cant, get like the little engine that could, and get out of dodge).Im telling you. Because you are ABSOLUTELY correct that a Libra is sneaky, and extreamly good at it, when we see something we want or are on a mission. The person in route would be wise to turn their ears to the left and eyes forward. WATCH HIM, DON??T LISTEN!
Watercup too young to raise his babies I guess 😛
LibraRose I know. I feel like I've wasted 3 years of my life because of this idiot. However I know how to pick'em, from this idiot have now moved onto another it would seem (aries)
hahaha ALibra... ok... here goes... from now on no response to his calls, emails, fb messages, etc....
Whats with the aries? Aries man are into dominatrix-like females. Dont let them bossy u, never be submissive. Go head/head with him, they get off on that. Me & my husband got married within a month of dating, i guess he liked my mean girl side. Its been 4yrs now & im still carrying my whip. Hahaha. Im aries rising btw, so kicking arse is my fave hobby. LOL
Girl, im a gemini too and i had a super intense relationship with my libra. we were AMAZING for like 8-9 months and that was 4.5 YEARS AGO!!!!!
but the thing is we both havent moved on. i am still single and he is still single. but man, trying to catch him is the challenge. But yours is married so that is a whole other ball game... at that point if mine was married, and went thru the motions of meeting someone, proposing, getting engaged, getting married and having the kid... i would have probably let go... he may love you, but he went and married a whole other woman and started a life with her. If mine was married right now, that would be m closure.
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I had a very very intense 6 month relationship with a Libra, three years down the line I still think about it a lot, and he says he thinks about me - but he is married with a kid! Yet I'm finding it so hard to move on. I'm a gemini... what do you think?