I met this Libra man about 5 months ago, we play a game online. We clicked and started seeing each other. After about a month it did not seem to be going anywhere and I could not get him to sasy he wanted anything more than hanging out. I walked away. About a month later I signed up for the game and within an hour he started talking to me again, I had a different user name so he had no idea it was me, we talked a bit and I asked him again what he wanted, he said to hang out, I again walked away from anything romantic. Well a few days ago i again signed up for the game and again used a different name. I got quite a laugh beause again within an hour he started talking to me again. This time however he was different, asking me what I wanted....so i told him and I asked him the same question. He said he wanted to start dating me....I was a little taken back as this was a first for him. I asked him what changed, as he had been so hesitant previously. He said He is sometimes too cautious and look where it got him. He said he was not going to be this time.
I was texting him yesterday and I mentioned he was hard to read. He replied come over and read me. I went over later on and he gave me one hell of a kiss and said "read that". We were sitting on the couch and he looked at me and all he said was, I think this is going to be very good. He said no more and I didnt say anything in response, because I was not so sure what he meant. He said again he was sorry for previously, but he was being over cautious, said it had nothing to do with attration because he was very attracted to me and my personality. But repeated he would not repeat his last mistakes this time.
Very hard to say from your post. My first impression was that he spends all his time on game sites chatting up women. Are you one of many he approaches, or did he chat to you because he knew it was you? Hard to tell from what you wrote. If you like him, continue seeing him, but you are right to tread with care. It's early days - give it a bit of time. Of course, he needs to find out if you are right for him too.
Fuuny thing this weekend. Friday night I had a fire, my house is gutted. I was telling him about it and on Saturday when I saw him, he took me in his arms and said: Sorry about your house. You do not have to go through this alone, I am here.
Then Saturday night and all Day Sunday, he seemed to be pulling away again. I do not understand, seems like everytime we start to get close, he pulls away. I asked him about it and he did not have a response except to say: I am sorry for confusing you, it is not my intention to do that.
I have never ever been clingy with him, in fact just the opposite. I give him plenty of space and act non chalant about it even if it bothers me. I have the Yes it would be nice to be with you, but either way I am perfectly fine attitude.