how do libras act or sleep in bed ?

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OK this is a good one for me....I was with a Libra male for a year and when we did sleep together he would be very attentive and while asleep he'd hold me very close....when I moved, he'd move with me and would wrap his arms around me, he'd kiss me on the shoulder in his sleep, he was very loving....I thought he even loved me but it turned out he didnt LOL.

He was amazingly cuddly and I thought I was the most luckiest woman ever to have that but his internet addiction was far greater than his addiction to me so now he probably sleeps with his laptop LOL. Love him to bits still but it wasnt meant to be. OMG I can still feel those passionate kisses....loved his kisses.

Virgos? well I am with a very loving Virgo now....and OMG he's even more cuddlier than Libra so of course that's a bonus hehehe..just have to teach him the art of kissing better but there's time 🙂

Difference with a Libra and Virgo (from MY experience) is that Libra is too wishy washy and although you may get to sleep with them one night, who knows where their head and/or heart is the next night? As they tend to have a few in the wings and ALWAYS looking for the perfect partner (which of course does not exist). With Virgo? at least you know what you're getting, they're upfront, honest and genuine and not known for being players 🙂

Why do you ask? you thinking of having a 3some with a Libra and Virgo?? LOL
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From my 3 years of being in a relationship with a Libra, I'd say Libras are very touchy when sleeping or in bed with someone. They aren't necessarily all over you to the point where their company becomes annoying or overbearing. But with Libras, they like to know that when they are sleep or near sleep, they are atleast touching you or are physical contact with your body somehow.

From my experiences, when both of us would be in a deep sleep & kind of naturally sway away from eachother, he would notice & bring me back closer to him, almost as if he was never asleep. Physical contact between their body & yours is very important to the Libra because it represents & symbolizes for them fullfillment & peace
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They LOVE to cuddle. Mine would like to hold me all night. That bothered me tho cause I felt smothered and I like sleeping alone. He liked to stay in bed alot just cuddling and kissing, even if we went upstairs for a quicky while he had people over, he wouldn't get up after we were done he would just cuddle me. I thought it was rude to the guest but he didn't care. It actually triggered my anxity and I'd start freaking out and have a panic attack cause I'd get so goddamn restless... It was sweet though I guess🙂
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I love cuddling my girlfriend all night. She is a Libra as well and loves to cuddle. Honestly it depends on the person, neither of us were such cuddlers in other relationships I guess we are both pretty picky. Too much cuddling made me feel claustrophobic and her as well and I think it has to do with how one views the other as a whole. I enjoy her company as much as I can get it and that wasn't necessarily true for me in past relationships either.

I always look forward to going to sleep with her. We almost always fall asleep the same way with her facing away and me pressed tightly up against her one arm around her with my hand on her chest and the other arm wrapped under her with that arm on her chest pulling her close. The only time we don't is when my arm falls asleep or if that side of my body is sore then I lay on my back and she lays on top of me with her head on my chest.

Even if we are fighting and go to bed angry or not talking a lot of times we'll start off lying opposite directions on the other side of the bed and as we fall asleep one of us will just turn over and grab the other tightly, even if we don't talk about our issue at all.

I love it. Any part of our bodies touching anywhere even the slightest just seems to suck any tension I have right out of my body.
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"The only time we don't is when my arm falls asleep or if that side of my body is sore then I lay on my back and she lays on top of me with her head on my chest"

OMG how do you guys do that? both Libra did that and Virgo does it too and it seems they can do it for hours....my arm would just ache after a short time, mind you they're much heavier than I am. Libra was 6'5 and very muscular (muscles weigh a lot you know?? haha) and Virgo is tall but more beefy...we'll go to sleep with my head on his chest and he can hold me like that all night, thats until my side gets sore and I turn the other way but he'll follow straight away and still be asleep - its so cute but Libra did the same...he HAD to touch all night, and kiss my shoulder or back of my head...he was very affectionate...pity he didnt actually care about me...guess thats the kind of thing that assisted me in falling for him...didnt think somebody could be so loving in bed yet have no real feelings...I still dont get it, I just dont and I couldnt be in a "r/ship" like that with somebody I didnt have strong feelings for.

I still like the virgo/Libra 3some idea....LMAO.
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I'm a libra & i was with my Cancer for 5+ years...and I used to cuddle w/ her a lot. When we would sleep together, and i mean zzzz sleep, We would start off wrapped around each other, but sometimes we would end up on our own by morning...and other times we would stay like that.

But there were times that I would cuddle & hold each other so tight you would need the jaws of life to seperate us.

If i LOVE the girl, I have no problem cuddling...but Im not in love with her, I cant do it. idk y...its like its fake if i try to. Thats why i need to be in love with the girl.
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I like to be cuddled to sleep but if I need a proper nights sleep I want the bed to myself, I often stay in bed after whoever im with has got up just for a bit of me time.

I always have to have physical contact with whoever i'm in bed with though even if its just my leg touching them. I always warn my female friends if they are going to share a bed with me not to panic if they wake up with me spooning them lol
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+1 Libra who likes cuddling. I'd always pull my ex towards me when we went to bed.

The two best ways are when she'd lay on her side with her back to me. Spooning. One arm over her around her chest and she'd grab onto that arm and pull me tight. The other tucked up and out of the way. I can sleep like that all night usually. Sometimes the other arm falls asleep and has to move.

The other is when I'd lay on my back and she'd pull in close to me. Right arm under her holding her. She'd kind of sleep laying her head on my chest, bodies close, and a leg thrown over me.

I do give off a lot of heat when I sleep but I say turn up the a/c and cuddle 🙂
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haha i'm a libra and when I sleep with my boyfriend, I like to cuddle with him and put my hands all over him...the more passion the more connected I feel towards him.< Also us libra's like spooning! nd when a guy puts there arms around our waists, I also found it to be really sexy when my man catches me off guard with either a squeeze on my hip and bottom area, and when he nibbles my neck x)I probably didnt anwser your question since your wanting to know what libra men like..but for anyone who wants to know what us libra girls like..well this is for ya I guess xp
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Love to cuddle. Can do so for hours. Nothing better than waking up on a Sat for a good hour long snug. I'm not a bed hog though. I can handle sharing a single sized mattress. I'm a REALLY light sleeper though (except for last night, felt sick so I chugged some Nyquil and downed a blunt). So wiggling around would be annoying. Overall sleep is awesome and is a perfect reason for marathon snuggling.
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i love to cuddle. i like to be the "big spoon". i move too much, rub my hands around, kiss neck and shoulders. it's apparently annoying. and i like to get intertwined. as much skin to skin contact as is physically possible. that's my goal.

but that's with very few people. usually if i try to sleep with someone else, i freak out. can't sleep, pull away, let myself out, make up some bs excuse about having to do something, whatever. used to think i totally hated cuddling, then i fell in love and it felt so perfect.

as a kid/teen, i couldn't even do sleepovers. i don't like being asleep in a non-secure location. i can only get good sleep if i either really trust someone or the pheromones are amazing.

deep sleeper most of the time. i've never had an alarm clock i could depend on.

a couple months ago, i bought a body pillow to "cuddle" while i sleep. it's far from ideal, but it's still the best purchase i've made all year.