How to deal ?

How do you fellow "Single" libras deal with being single?

How long have you stayed single?

I have been longing for a relationship that now I have an hyperactive heart. Maybe stress or I'm having panic attacks.

Posted by sleepyrebel
How do you fellow "Single" libras deal with being single?

How long have you stayed single?

I have been longing for a relationship that now I have an hyperactive heart. Maybe stress or I'm having panic attacks.

Yikes! That bad huh? I'm not a Libra but my Venus is & when I'm not in a relationship, I do find myself longing to be in one. I won't jump into one though just for the sake of wanting a relationship. I would stay single until I eventually find the right one for me. I have a hard time making up my mind, so it could be a bit of a feat at times.

Don't worry, everything happens when it's supposed to. You'll find the right one when the time comes. 😉

its my venus in scorp and moon in leo. but to be single for 10 plus years— I do wait for the right one but I feel my heart will give out before I find someone.

What's ur work situation? Do u go out alot or stay at home alot? Look at your behavior patterns and you'll figure out why you've been single for so long. I'm sorry to tell you this, but if u wanna start dating your gonna have to make the first move. If you wait for a girl to approach u she's just gonna turn out to be a whore. We libras are sexy and we flatter easily, so be wary of girls who try and talk to u first. My advice is get off ur lazy ass and talk to some women. Drop ur insecurities cause it's not life or death... Its sex or no sex. The greatest relationships of my life were ones I started by nutting up and making the first move. The worste ones were with girls who threw themselves at me, and who I ended up taggin just cause they were there. Round up your buddy's, start hittin bars, and talk to everyone. Eventually your circle of friends will grow and you'll end up meeting more and more people. If u see a girl you think is hot, go talk to her. Despite what you've heard, the perfect girl is not going to just fall into your lap. I'm not saying be a creepy player and mac on anything with a vag, but just start convos. Show some general interest. The frog doesn't seek the fly, he waits in the pond and once the fly lands he grabs it. Find a "pond", and wait for that fly bitty. Open your mouth and speak to her. You may miss a few times, but at least u tried.

Stop waiting bro. Thats ur problem

I have no friends really cause of recent distrust and abuse. If it wasn't for that they never had the time for that kind of thing, either they work ours don't mesh with mine or they have to go home to their families. Trust me when I was younger I have done it. Never was a problem till I see everyone around is taken up. I have gone after women I want, from lookers to not so easy in the eyes. They either don't like me or have really bad traits, I can't help why they have their reasons but that the whole thing . Been the nice guy, the jerk, the social guy, the loner and even myself. It's like those are not enough. So now I got to get blood work for stress cause of it. I do understand what your trying to say, but that isn't enough. What I have to do? Sell my soul?

Yikes... Don't give up man. U gotta stay positive, no matter what happens. Ur a positive sign, so any negative thoughts are not going to help u. Keep moving foward!

I agree with SrgntLeebz, put yourself out there. Join a class, take a lesson, go to church, go for walks, hell IDK, just stay active & enjoy your life. Someone will come along.

Posted by sleepyrebel
I have no friends really cause of recent distrust and abuse. If it wasn't for that they never had the time for that kind of thing, either they work ours don't mesh with mine or they have to go home to their families. Trust me when I was younger I have done it. Never was a problem till I see everyone around is taken up. I have gone after women I want, from lookers to not so easy in the eyes. They either don't like me or have really bad traits, I can't help why they have their reasons but that the whole thing . Been the nice guy, the jerk, the social guy, the loner and even myself. It's like those are not enough. So now I got to get blood work for stress cause of it. I do understand what your trying to say, but that isn't enough. What I have to do? Sell my soul?

Libra female here....I am not sure of what is going on with you, but it seems that there are many issues just beneath the surface. People have gotten really smart as reading/seeing beyond the surface. I would be wary of dating you. From your post, there is something that is off..a weird vibe even. Not to be mean, but your attitude determines how far you get with a woman. And now, you have health issues. That is also a deterrent for many women. Times are that we are not in NEED of a man to do all those things that men once did. However, the man needs to come to the relationship with some other qualities. Mainly, one that is not saying that some are not so easy on the eyes. To me, that speaks that you already are not really "into her" because you see her as "less than" in your eyes. I will not analyze every little thing, but as a woman, I am sure other women are getting this similar vibe. And one thing to remember, it is good to want a relationship but not feel that you need one. Most of the time the thing that we chase the most is the one thing that is just beyond our grasp.
Peace