How to know if a Libra guy really likes you?

I met this Libra guys about 6-7 months ago. He is a part of my weekly volleyball team. From the beginning on he was flirting with me and I noticed he was nicer to me than the other girls. I was at his place couple of times with my girlfriends and he wanted me to stay, he said it as a joke but I think he meant it seriously. Soon after I moved house and he helped me sorting out the place, buying furniture, transporting stuff. Sometimes even he was more interested in doing these things than me. Recently he became even friendlier and started sending me private messages asking how my day is going etc. I thought always he is a friend and we are only joking but the recent messages were very flirty and more personal and I started to feel more for him. Now that I started flirting as well the tension increased and we can't look at each others eyes. He even struggle to talk to me. He will usually hug me anytime he sees me but the closer we become it's like he can't do it anymore. He sent me a message for New Year and asked me to send him a picture of me to take into the New Year. I sent him a beautiful picture of me and since then he stopped texting. We played volleyball two days ago and he was really nice to me, laughing a bit, a bit reserved but I tried to give him a hug he was holding me for long time and even lifted me in the air. I don't know what happened but we are both kind of blocked. Even tho I have my Mars in Leo, I have my Venus in Taurus and I am extremely shy when it comes to approaching someone. On top of that I am Pisces Sun. He is Libra man with Venus in Virgo and Mars in Cancer. We are both in our mid thirties.
Someone has an idea what is going on with that guy? Does he really like me or it's just a Libra guy flirting and wanting to be liked? I have never had an experience with a Libra guy, please help.

"Are you into me?"

Problem solved.

We aren't mind readers and neither is astrology.

I have to agree with Octoberfrost, if he has helped you move his interest is pretty genuine. We Librans can be pretty lazy so the fact he's willing to graft for someone other than himself is a pretty positive sign. Crank the flirting up a notch and give him the green light ——

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
"Are you into me?"

Problem solved.

We aren't mind readers and neither is astrology.

Although I generally agree, the thing with asking is that he can say anything. A guy can "like" you in the same way that he likes Pepsi. It's nice, but not necessarily something he'd be willing to drop other sodas for. When a guy tells me he likes me, I always take it with a grain of salt. It's how he treats me on a regular basis that I take into real consideration.

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I'm being slightly sarcastic here.

The "is he into me?" questions are getting kinda old around here. Especially when she claims that they're in their 30s and behaving like shy teenagers. Grow a pair, jebus. I know it can be iffy to bring it up, but just do it. You'll feel better afterward once it's finally been addressed.

I just don't get why people think we can mind read and tell them what so and so of x sign is "thinking." Astrology doesn't tell you how people think, just a generalization of likely behavior.

This dude's behavior could be perceived as just being nice, but it seems to be stepping into the "interested" category. The fact that he's reached out to you says something, tbh. Guys don't get in touch just because.

Now that you've been validated, OP, go do something about it.