Hurt and confused by libra man

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Kehteee
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I met a libra man on a dating app and we instantly hit it off. We meshed so well that he wanted to meet up as soon as possible and so we did that following weekend and had a blast together. I felt as though I'd known him forever. The days we didn't see each other we texted from sun up until someone fell asleep (usually me) and I would wake up to his late night texts saying he couldn't stop thinking about me and he wishes he was with me holding me against him while I slept. I told him that I wasn't keen on letting him in because my past encounters with men. He told me he understood but if I could let my walls down he could show me that he is a good guy and he wouldn't dream of hurting me or leaving for no reason especially because he has a daughter (very complicated story) Everything was going great until last Monday night. He'd gotten kicked out of the apartment he was living in for about a month after moving here from Pittsburgh. He told me that he was close to his roommates and saw them as brothers and they helped him more than people he knew for years. Late Monday night they had an argument/fight and they made him leave and he texted me for the first time in hours at 1:36am telling me what happened and that he's sorry and that he just got to his brothers house where he would be staying. I told him it was okay and that we didn't have to see each other the next day and that he should rest. He texted me Tuesday morning saying good morning and I asked him if he was okay. He responded "I'm cool babe, how's your morning?". I responded an hour later because I left my phone at home when I went to petco. I haven't heard from him since. His phone has been off and I contacted his brother via instagram and he said he was fine just without his phone. That was 2 days ago. Should I move on? Is this his way of blowing me off? Should I wait? I'm hurt and I miss him like crazy I've been down since he ghosted.
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TaurusBull1977
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Two days isn't ghosting.



Just insecurities on your part, there is nothing going on with him aside from what he told you.

Libra: "I just got kicked out of my apartment"

OP: "Well, what about me?"

Libras friend: His phone was cut off

OP: "Why haven't I heard from him?"...and what about me?"

The Libra is going through some thangs...

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And there goes the OP....

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not to sound savage but ... you're hurt? He just got kicked out and you're bummed he doesn't text all day. I feel like if I were him I would ghost on your butt as well! Did you ask him how he was, offered to help him find a place, be a shoulder for him to lean on? I mean you don't have to do those things but he might not be texting back as much because of this. Also he doesn't have a steady place to live but his phone is supposed to be charged and waiting for your call? Lol This is the problem. Libras can be so giving and considerate so if you don't get that same concern back we get hurt.

I'm not sure all the details but it just sounds like you need to show more concern or leave him be.
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Posted by Faramai
not to sound savage but ... you're hurt? He just got kicked out and you're bummed he doesn't text all day. I feel like if I were him I would ghost on your butt as well! Did you ask him how he was, offered to help him find a place, be a shoulder for him to lean on? I mean you don't have to do those things but he might not be texting back as much because of this. Also he doesn't have a steady place to live but his phone is supposed to be charged and waiting for your call? Lol This is the problem. Libras can be so giving and considerate so if you don't get that same concern back we get hurt.

I'm not sure all the details but it just sounds like you need to show more concern or leave him be.
This. Are you concerned about whats happening to him—? How can he txt you without a phone?? Worsr case scenario the guy isnt that great at taking care of himself.. Best case he got a raw deal. Cut him some slack. Wouldn't you be stressing if you had no home and got betrayed by people you cared about? Sheeesh.
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Op, I feel you. You two talked no matter what went down.

I think maybe your intuition is trying to tell you something.

This is not the case for everybody, but a dominant vibration on those dating apps are married men looking for side chicks or people in primary relationships looking to play.

I don't know if you met him in person yet, until you do, with people online, you got to take everything they say with a grain of salt.

Like his story just doesn't make sense; men who are like brothers would rarely kick their bro out, in the middle of night. And who doesn't have a phone?LOL! throw-away phones are 5!

It just doesn't make sense like on a gut level it just doesn't make sense. And if it doesn't make sense it is usually a lie.

I think that the majority of people who are responding to you are good-hearted people but men on apps are not so.

I mean there are a few success stories but for the most part expect to get your heartbroken if you f****** with somebody online!
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Op, I feel you. You two have a connection, where no matter what went down, you two talked.

I think maybe your intuition is trying to tell you something.

This is not the case for everybody cuz but a dominant vibration on those dating apps are married men looking for side chicks or people in primary relationships looking to play.

I don't know if you met him in person yet but people online you got to take everything they say with a grain of salt.

Like his story just doesn't make sense; men who are like brothers would rarely kick their bro out, out in the middle of night.

It just doesn't make sense like on a gut level it just doesn't make sense. And if it doesn't make sense is usually a lie.

Now a bytch with throw a man out in the middle of the night !!! Lol!
I was thinking the same thing. One argument and he's kicked out? Either he thought WAY too much into his roommate's friendship or he's full of shit and something else went down.

I always lol when people come here with "I met this person on a dating app, things escalated quickly between us (sex, hanging out, whatever), and now it's going to shit/I'm finding out weird shit!"

....*sigh*

Dating. App. Are people really this fucking clueless?
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
I don't know what your intuition is trying to tell you but is trying to tell you something which is why you are feeling fear.

Vibes are real! It sounds like you're feeling A vibe that you don't understand. Like the Libra switched up on you.

I think that he is showing you that he can be quite inconsiderate of your feelings. I wouldn't fuk with him.




Uh, I'd say the same about her. The cling factor with this chick is over 9000.