I'm Baaaack...Libra Female/Cancer Male

Oh Boy, Here we go!
I am aLibra female in love with a Cancer male....I swore I would never do this
again but here I am......
When I was 16 to 19 I was involved with a Cancer Male....I think I was with
him mostly 'cause he was a savior from a very chaotic life I was leading.....in
the end...my life got straightened out and his went down the tubes....it is
possible that he only loved me when I was needy and then when I got my
footing he was very jealous about anything I did on my own...too bad but that
is what happened....

Now I am 40 and I met a Cancer Male that I really like/love....he was riding
along with me from early Novemebr until just last week.......he has some
stress in his life concerning an ex-wife (4 years divorced) and stress concerning
his 6 and ten year old sons.....

Just last week he was saying....we could live together and wouldn't that be
grand.......this week he is in retreat mode.....practically bringin our relationship
to a complete standstill.....It shocks me....I am a "steady as she goes" kind of
gal and this abrupt change in attitude sends me for a loop.....he says that he is
very slow to love and that if I am looking for someone to fall madly in love
with me after 5 mos I need to know that he needs a lot more time than
that......I didn't realize that I was coming across as someone who falls madly
in love.....so fast.....could it be that he is projecting his OWN feelings on
me?....when in fact HE is the one who feels he may be falling in love...and to
fight it off he makes a statement about me moving too fast?.....Any comments
from our Cancer Male friends.....B

I am a libra female who was married to a cancer male for l4 years.
He was what I would call a saviour soul. He walked in when my life had fallen apart whisked me off to heaven and married me. But when my life was back on track and the children were almost teenagers he found someone else to save. He wanted to keep the marriage intact but live separately, I chose to say goodbye and start over.
What a triangle that would have been!
But when the relationship is good, it is really good all the way around!
Lot 'o' luck to you.
Paula

Oh boy. I'm a Libra female who has this strange habit of attracting Cancer males (we seem to have some magnetic draw to them/from them). ANd the ones I previously were involved with attached themselves to me and I didn't wnat them as much so I ran away.

I dated one all through the fall and wehn we broke up we ended up becoming best friends, we are actually better with each other now then when we dated. But he doesn't have the attachment ot me the way the others did. We talk every day and see each other once a week. We have a lot in common that's why. but he is commitment shy and though we both date, nothing haS Worked out for either of us. Yet he is the love of my life. And I know now that he may be falling in love with me but it scares him.

The thing is, Cancer men take their time. They may realize they have feelings for someone but it may take months and months for them to even show it. Because they want to be sure of how they really feel for fear of getting hurt. Me, I'll tell a man as soon as I want, but not anymore.

just bide your time. They are worth it when you wait. Because I'm still waiting but each day I feel it more and more so I know when the day comes, it will be the best.