I'm confused

What sign is suppose to be the best match for a Libran?

At times I've heard it was Aries or Pisces or Aqua or even Gemini... But when i wander around the board those signs dont seem to agree..

So Which one is??

leo female libra male - aqua male libra female are most compatible for what i read up so far.

I think that a Leo man and Libra woman are more compatible. Then a Leo woman and a Libra man.

And a few Libra men I know are married to Pisces women.

I used to see Aries or Aquas as the "recommendation", now it seems the only ones who can handle us are each other. The more recent things I have seen say the best match is Libra + Libra.

Libra + Libra, yes. I am quite biased (LOL) and like Libra male + Pisces female (but if she's TOO "watery" she'll drown him! And if he's TOO "airy" or detached, he can wound her deeply!) I hear Sag and Leo girls are very good matches for Libra guys, but Aries girls (opposites) are one of those hit-or-miss cases where opposites attract but can rarely keep it together. I hear a lot about Aqua girls and Libra guys... but it seems to me that when the WOMAN is detached from her feelings, that would get old fast to the partnership-motivated, Venus-ruled Libra male. (Though I bet the typical airy commitment-phobe part they both can have appeals to both for awhile!!)

Of course, that's assuming they're BOTH mature and can actually DO a healthy relationship, esp when things aren't peachy anymore, and esp the Libra (guy).. cuz they can be right little stinkers when young.. though charming and ever so sweet while they walk all over your heart and leave it broken and bleeding. They'll usually still be so NICE and non-confrontational and SAD about it lol

I don't know many Libra women (one insane, hateful Aunt - whom I would not ever assume is typical of anyone, much less of Libra women!) but yes, I hear they match well with Aqua men.... maybe we women expect MEN to be a little detached, and so it can work. Of course, my Aunt spent 15 years or so systematically destroying my Aqua Uncle... probably her "revenge" for getting her knocked up at 15 and them having a shotgun wedding... plus, she has A LOT of Scorp and Cancer under her Libra, like whoa.

So nothing much on the theory of Gemini's being similar to Libras in the sense that they are divided and equally as balanced, us with our scales and them with the twin aspect?

And Aries Male Libra Female—

All my libra-libra relationshps have never worked, these were when I was quite young though, and we were both just playing stupid games with eachother until one of us got tired of it, unhealthy yes but cant deny that i did get a kick out of it! lol

So to understand the other planets you need the time of birth right? Can you do it without? I know it probably wont be as accurate but alot of people arent aware of what time they were born!

Most of the chart is still accurate if you at least have the birth DATE (and approximate PLACE) right. What changes drastically is the Rising/Ascendant, and the Moon can change... but most specific birth dates have only a couple different possible Moon signs for that day, depending on birth TIME.. a bit of reading and sleuthing, you can often figure that out. (For example, I felt my Libra fit Virgo Moon better than Leo Moon, even before his Mom verified his birth time!)

But to do a true Synastry or Compatibility chart, it's MORE accurate with birth times, but can still give plenty of information without known birth times, since most of the planets stay the same for any given day.

I adore Libra men. Finally met one that I wanna eat up.. :-)

Hi Sweethearts

I like Aries men. I think it can be a great partnership but there isn't a lot of passion there. I think we settle Aries down too much and are almost too compatible, too alike. No tension for sexual chemistry. If you can find one that you spark with, it may be a very bumpy ride.

I still like Leos. They have just the right blend of drama, romance, and fun IMO.

My first love was an Aqua but I was really young so it went really badly. Never really met an air sign guy that really, really did it for me.

What is your moon sign? I suspect moon sign-sun sign compatibility is a good idicator of what may work for you.

🙂

I don't have enough experience/observation in Gem-Libra relationships to offer an opinion. I'd imagine they could understand each other rather easily (barring any obvious Mercury/Moon clashes, etc) The one Gem girl I know is blissful with her Aqua man (my Libra's best friend, his other is a Pisces!).. though it pains me to admit that their relationship started as the Aqua cheating on his longterm gf for her... they were long distance, way too bored with each other, and he often cheated. They both knew their relationship wasn't meant to be, but hung on stubbornly for a few years, and it ended badly. He must have found what he really wanted and needed with the Gem girl... they've been together 4, 5 years and I haven't even caught the slightest WHIFF of him cheating - spoil their two dogs, no kids, don't WANT kids, don't WANT to get married. They're actually quite adorable together.. but if I had to pick the more "detached" one, I'd have to say it's the Gem, oddly enough. I wonder what the rest of their charts look like. Hmmm.

LOL So her Moon must be in Capricorn.. it's the ONLY choice for her birth date. Hmmm... but why so detached, with her Cancer Mercury and Venus? Going slowwwwwww? Fear? Fear he might cheat on HER, so doesn't want to get TOO close? tsk tsk he really is crazy about her.

His Moon is either Pisces or Aries.. given what I know about him, I'd say Pisces.... which would also explain why HE seems more emotional and less detached than she does! Hmm, Cap Mercury.. nice for his Gem's Moon... Sag Mars/Venus. (Surprised a Sag Venus would cheat regularly.. but he WAS kinda young and dumb.. and drunk. No excuse, but it's a common story.) And though he won't speak badly about his ex, I have a sneaking suspicion SHE started the cheating first.

Well, that didn't clear up everything, but I WAS curious why she was more detached and aloof than him... wondered if it was Astro- or fear-based. Probably it's both.

All of them are my type.

&id

Posted by Bella79
I think that a Leo man and Libra woman are more compatible. Then a Leo woman and a Libra man.

And a few Libra men I know are married to Pisces women.

Libra men married Pisces women yes i actually know few in person ,
as for leo male and libra woman not yet but see plenty of leo female with libra male though.

Hey LS 🙂

Oh dear my moon is in Leo and I got burnt really bad by that Leo...think I'd run a mile if another approached me! lol

There is an Aries hot on my heels but not sure if the spark is there!

Apart from
Libra man - Libra woman,


Scorpio man - Libra woman
But they both must have their heads screwed very straight and be selfless and trustful with each other.

* Scorpio man - Libra woman
But they both must have their heads screwed very straight and be selfless and trustful with each other.

Totally disagree. Scorps are only interested in dominating libra, usually they want us as their thing on the side. I cannot think of one instance where this hasn't been the case.

* Scorpio man - Libra woman
But they both must have their heads screwed very straight and be selfless and trustful with each other.


I can agree with this, because most any Sun Suns can pair together if ^^this^^ is true (esp with some nice matches in the rest of their charts!) Alas, like LS... I cannot think of one time it's really worked out, and not just.. tolerated. Flirting/jealousy would be a HUGE issue with this pair lol

^HMmmmmmmMMMMmmmmmmmm.

I don't really know how to respond.
Yes and No.
You're right and you're a little off.
I'm right and a little off too.

I would think that for every air sign couple, they need strong water and earth between them to work. And, when there's water, the Scorp water is exactly that glue needed.

Or else the air couple will be like hot balloons floating off, never ever having any grounding or anything serious betwix them.

By the way, the Scorpio type man can be all the Libra woman has ever wanted. They share the same relationship goals. He can be the most intensely devoted person she can ever hope for.

And, the Libra intellect is mostly on the surface, social and shallow. The scorpio influence will help to intensify it; a union between them will help her to understand deep truths of nature, while the Libra woman can bring true joy to the deep brooding Scorpio type man.

YES! I still want a Scorpian!

Only ever had one 😢

Most memorable...

My BFF is a leo and his moon or venus one is Libra idk lol, but we get along better than anyone I have ever known...Finish each others sentences, and just give a look, and we know what the other is thinking!!! I am in love with him but WOULD NEVER cross the line to ruin what we have as friends...Its awesome!!!