Indecision

This topic was created in the Libra forum by LibraCodger on Sunday, March 12, 2017 and has 11 replies.

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@LibraCodger
9 Years

As in what kind of sandwich to have for lunch? Is that more of a Libra moon or sun thing? I have both.

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@Capricorn91
9 Years1,000+ Posts

I face this a lot. Where to go in the evening, what to eat today, this or that, should I stay inside or go out, what to wear today. Max time goes in deciding 😢. Caps are supposed to be decisive but. Libra moon here.

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@LibraCodger
9 Years

Thanks, folks. I have hundreds of books on my to read pile, selecting one is incredibly difficult, same for deciding on a video. Or where to go on vacation.

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12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Sanchez

Posted by jeane
I'm always the last to order because I can't decide. Then after I've ordered I want something else. #libraproblems

You'd piss me off if I was waiting in line after you.

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Lol. If it's any consolation, I never join the queue unless I've made up my mind. There's a lot of standing to the back or side and letting people go before me.

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12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by TheLibraMudra

Posted by Sanchez

Posted by TheLibraMudra
I dunno. I think it's just libra stuff in general.

I'm quick with life decisions in career and home but deciding what color nail polish or what bracelet to wear with everything else can be excruciating.

As far as deciding on food... If I don't have a particular taste for anything, it's up in the air and the Leo decides in an instant. Or else I'd be floating around still trying to decide.

I feel like letting someone else decide something for me would be the equivalent to giving up personal power.

Not me when it comes to a restaurant. Help me out here.

Burgers or teriyaki

Burgers or teriyaki

Burgers or fucking teriyaki

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But even when I decide burgers, it's what kind of burger??!! Then what sides?!! Drinks!!? Oh God, meltdown...

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Posted by yupvirgoo
I have this problem all the time too. 😢

When I do pick something, even while eating.. I sort of think that maybe the other one would taste much better.

But when I really like something, it's the same thing I order every single time.

I always have eaters remorse.

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@LibraCodger
9 Years

The next time that happens I'm going to ask "Are you a Libra?"

Actually, I have been known to apologize away my indecision with "My advice to you: never be a Libra!"

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@hardtolovelibra
9 Years

I'm a libra sun.

I've bailed on quite a few social events because I couldn't decide on something to wear. It's exhausting...

I'm vegan so my food decisions are limited. Very helpful.

If there is someone who wants to decide, I say, Great! Yes! But if there isn't then I take the lead and just close my eyes and basically innie minnie miney moe

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@LibraCodger
9 Years

Ever been to a bookstore with lots and lots of titles calling "Read me!" and you leave empty handed? Years ago, this happened to me and the friend I was with was astounded that I just couldn't pick one.

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm very decisive when it comes to on-the-spot, arbitrary things (like what to eat, wear etc.), but when it comes to more crucial matters, I will teeter-totter back and forth for ages.

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@hardtolovelibra
9 Years

Sanchez, we are a bit incompetent with quick decisions. But I must say that I keep a really cool head in emergency situations. When everyone else is just reacting and doing the thing they think of first, I've already turned my REAL decision-maker on. We start the logical thinking immediately and its good in some cases.