southernbeauty
@southernbeauty
18 YearsLibra
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Insecurity taking a tole...
I would have to wonder why he is so insecure...Are there underlying issues ?? A lot of people who won't accept or believe in someones love, feel that they don't deserve to be loved by someone who treats them well..Just keep reassuring him...He will either get it or he won't...but I would imagine this type of behaviour would wear thin...
I think I got a venus is virgo. When it comes to what I eat, the movies i watch in cinema and whom I want to sleep with, I am picky. Rest of the things really doesn't matter. I dont know if I am that cautious, But I am cautious not to make mistakes which I might end up regretting for long or end up hurting others. rest of the things dont matter. I harly ever display my true feelings i guess. Mainly bcoz am not sure what are my true feelings. Other times, i guess am quite certain of the outcome. And If i try to display my true feelings, I might go unbalanced if its not reciprocated. And if it turns out to be not that true in the long run, then I will have to face the guilt.
Irishlibra that's wierd. Were the same person LOL!! We got into it again yesterday ... I am just sick of it! I give and give and get nothing. It's like we know that they love us, or they wouldn't be with us (that is proof of love to them) but for us Scorpions that isn't enough. We need romance, and need to be told. He hurt me real bad last night so I told him to never call me again. He tried once, but hasn't called since. It's just the same old cycle. I am wanting more and trying to make him that person ... and It can't work like that. He isn't sincere about it though. He is either just that stupid and clueless (to were he really doesn't know he's hurting me) or he is just an ass.
Venus in virgo want proof before they give their heart ... that will never make a relashionship. They try to cheat and want ot know the outcome before the relashionship even starts. It's like watching the end of a movie first and making sure you like it!! That's why he is going to be single for a long time.
Arianlatay your libra has a venus in scorp?!?! Well hmmmm... his actions don't really make sense to me. I am venus in scorp so maybe I can help alittle. Tell me some of the things he does.
Venus in virgo want proof before they give their heart ... that will never make a relashionship. They try to cheat and want ot know the outcome before the relashionship even starts. It's like watching the end of a movie first and making sure you like it!! That's why he is going to be single for a long time.
Arianlatay your libra has a venus in scorp?!?! Well hmmmm... his actions don't really make sense to me. I am venus in scorp so maybe I can help alittle. Tell me some of the things he does.
***he was very nit-picky, insecure of my feelings, and would never tell me his feelings, very clean (almost obsessively so) and basically very hard to get real close to***
Describes my libra perfect except the "HI I'M AN ASSHOLE" part ... LOL. Mine really is a jerk. When I tell him I wanna see him he always has to have a reason ... almost as if I have to be worthy or something. That's not love and he is going to eventually see that one day ... way down the line ... after he has hurt many women ... it's sad really!!
People make love so complicated because they are scared. Yes there are cheaters and liers out here, but if you start a relashionship off too cautious then your asking for disaster.
See like I told my libra ... "We have nothing to build a relashionship on ... No trust, no love, no respect, no commitment ... not even a friendship anymore ..."
Without trust you have nothing. Love should be fun and wonderful ... not selfish, rude or complicated ... especially in the beginning. You should just be enjoying each others company ... then later comes the arguments and so on ...
Okay I feel a little better ... 😄 ... My hearts just worn out and tired ... why do I keep going back to him? Why can't I just ignore him when he calls?
******TEARS******
Describes my libra perfect except the "HI I'M AN ASSHOLE" part ... LOL. Mine really is a jerk. When I tell him I wanna see him he always has to have a reason ... almost as if I have to be worthy or something. That's not love and he is going to eventually see that one day ... way down the line ... after he has hurt many women ... it's sad really!!
People make love so complicated because they are scared. Yes there are cheaters and liers out here, but if you start a relashionship off too cautious then your asking for disaster.
See like I told my libra ... "We have nothing to build a relashionship on ... No trust, no love, no respect, no commitment ... not even a friendship anymore ..."
Without trust you have nothing. Love should be fun and wonderful ... not selfish, rude or complicated ... especially in the beginning. You should just be enjoying each others company ... then later comes the arguments and so on ...
Okay I feel a little better ... 😄 ... My hearts just worn out and tired ... why do I keep going back to him? Why can't I just ignore him when he calls?
******TEARS******
"HI I'M AN marker"
Ha ha I didn't say that ... I said A S S H O L E!!
Ha ha I didn't say that ... I said A S S H O L E!!
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Ok... ME: I am a Scorp, Venus in Sag Mars in Virgo HIM: He is a Vigo, Venus in Virgo Mars is in Scorp
His sun sign is in libra
Venus in virgo
Mars in virgo
Moon in libra
My sun sign is in libra
Venus in scorpio
Mars in capricorn
Moon in gemini
Now if anyone has delt with a a venus in virgo they are the hardest I swear ... nit-picky, they are insecure, need reassurance all the time, and cautious. They arn't showy with effections. Did I mention they analyze everything!!! Anyway ... me having scorpio in venus ... I'm more of the go getter!!
I don't know how to get it through his head that I am crazy about him. Obvously telling him isn't enough. How could I show him? He says I flirt way too much and draw attention to myself. I don't try to, but I know I do. I have read that he will feel insecure of my sense of talkitive/mingling/social status. He needs to know thats he's number one and that he's needed. How could I go about this? Anyone dealt with this before? Please help!!