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little_sparrow
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Nothing to really report. He left a message last night for me saying he has been thinking of me but been really busy. Give him a call.

I don't know how I feel about it. Part of me wants to call, part of me doesn't know if I should. (The worst part of Libra. I don't know what the right thing to do is. I don't know if it is best for me not to call or to call.)

Right now I am having a drink, dancing to ABBA "Dancing Queen" preparing to go to a private Marti Gras celebration at a club.

HP!

The days were meant for sleepings, the nights for living. Enjoy dating my male half. lol!
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* Can't you see how that very thing is driving the rest of us crazy— LOL!!!

Perhaps. BUT had he treated me better, there wouldn't be any hesitation. I pretty much assumed it was over, not hearing from him for a week and a half and moved on. NOW, I have to reassess.

a) if he like me he wouldn't have blown me off and would have called sooner vs but he is calling now to appologize. He obviously likes me enough to try again and obviously he isn't over it.

b) how much could he possibly like me to treat me that way? are we right together? was it just too much too soon (doubtful)? etc. etc.

So many decisions have to be made now. Had he treated me well to begin with, we would still be happily seeing each other. Now, I really have to think about my next move, what is the right thing for both of us.


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* Can't you see how that very thing is driving the rest of us crazy— LOL!!!

Perhaps. BUT had he treated me better, there wouldn't be any hesitation. I pretty much assumed it was over, not hearing from him for a week and a half and moved on. NOW, I have to reassess.

a) if he like me he wouldn't have blown me off and would have called sooner vs but he is calling now to appologize. He obviously likes me enough to try again and obviously he isn't over it.

b) how much could he possibly like me to treat me that way? are we right together? was it just too much too soon (doubtful)? etc. etc.

So many decisions have to be made now. Had he treated me well to begin with, we would still be happily seeing each other. Now, I really have to think about my next move, what is the right thing for both of us.


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"blow torching - a guy comes on really strong in the beginning, gets in over his head, thus freaking himself out."

Hmm... Never come across that before. Libra specific or male species specific?


"now that it is time for me to go home, noooooowwww you all come along to say hello!"

Well, some of us actually have to work... 😉

Mondays suck, and most especially since I am trying to hire a new assistant, preferably replacement... Ack! Bad day!
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Atom I dunno, the blow torching thing and the guy coming on strong and geeting in over his head and freaking out - sounds more like what we are doing or about to be what we are doing more so than what we want to be doing— Something smells a lil fishy. I hope I am wrong for HP's sake. We need one Libra success story on this damned board and I thought she was going to be the shero!!!
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Geeeze these Librans must miss out on a lot of action with all these hard luck stories LOL....Don't forget though, about the brat's story - she may have some positive news for us *fingers crossed*

I've come to realise though, that Im the best damned thing that's walked into my LIbran's life and there's no way he'll find anybody half as decent (and who lives so close to him lol) on his singles sites.....he knows it, and he can damn well come and get it and make some sort of commitment to a r/ship...i don't want serious at this stage but I want consistancy and I wanna go out and above all, I want to feel safe knowing Im the only one he wants to spend time with 🙂 I'm happy to do the friendship dance for a while and we can chat and text still but I refuse to have a physical r/ship with him unless he offers me more than just that...physical!! Im better than that 😛

I know he'll be wondering what Im thinking and where I got to in a while as I am NOT going to come to him again...its all up to him now - I am getting stronger and to finally get away from his grip, I know I need to go out with others...I will leave the door open for a while but not too long.

So really that is a good story LOL. I've put my foot down!!! Roar!!!
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HP, and what is over your head, are we talking position wise— 🙂

Girl, enjoy he is definitely in a better place than the other Libra and the others (me and chatz friends). It won't be smooth sailing all the time. What relationship is. Yeah he will probably soon do the pulling back thing. I know by now you see the signs. Don't take it personal. "It is the Libran way" doesn't mean anything negative per se. He doesn't seem damaged so you have a better chance than with this one.

I must admit they are not all the same. Each one I have been involved with are different in some way, some ways the same. This current one is the worst when it comes to my recent change of feelings...

YOU GO MY SHERO, KEEP HOPE ALIVE!!! Explain the signs, please do. Okay, I have had wayyy too much coffee this morning.
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