Is it true that libra hate being single?

Posted by OnTheOtherHand
Hate is a really strong word, but I do prefer to be in a relationship over being single.

Posted by amethyst2002

Posted by a muse a libra

I have series of relationships with men who I know I will not marry or be with long term for the companionship and friendship, but I know in my heart that these men are not the ones I will settle down with.

This is why people think that Libras are douchebags. You're basically leading them to believe you're more into it than you really are. Not cool. You're essentially using them to keep you company til something better comes along.

Yeah. :/ THIS is where Libras get their bad rap. You guys gotta stop being such wusses in some aspects of life and fricken man up.

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Posted by size zero superhero

Can't understand people who are willing to 'settle' while fully aware that they're with the wrong person.

I have moments of wanting to be with someone because being alone can suck, but overall, I'm fine with it. You have a bit more freedom AND you're not in a farce of a relationship for the sake of your insecurities. *shrugs*

People who can't be secure in their individuality and have to rely on others for their happiness have some internal issues to work out. :/

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I strongly agree! YOu just spoke my mind. I dislike people who can't be alone and so they always need someone to validate them or to feel loved. They stay in a farce of a relationship and wastes the time of the other thanks to their petty insecurities. It is an internal issue to be worked out.

Posted by LibraLuv
You know what Aquarius09...When my ex and I split, it took my Aqua best friend, to help me with that. Well, anyway I can admit my shortcomings and I'm not afraid of mine. It helps me to grow as individual and I'll continue to grow until the day I die. 😉

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Posted by LibraLuv
You know what Aquarius09...When my ex and I split, it took my Aqua best friend, to help me with that. Well, anyway I can admit my shortcomings and I'm not afraid of mine. It helps me to grow as individual and I'll continue to grow until the day I die. 😉

I'm glad you had someone to help you with that. I had dxp to help me with mine 🙂 lol. All the aquarians, including myself told me "Told ya he was a 2 timing douchebag". No, seriously. I joined this website when it went down. I'm glad you are open-minded and can embrace your shortcomings.

As for the Aries and Aqua connection, I have always felt a strongggg connection with them. I sometimes think that Aries belong in the air category rather than fire, and libra belongs to water than air. I agree with a lot of the things Amey says on this website.

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Posted by LibraLuv
You know what Aquarius09...When my ex and I split, it took my Aqua best friend, to help me with that. Well, anyway I can admit my shortcomings and I'm not afraid of mine. It helps me to grow as individual and I'll continue to grow until the day I die. 😉

I'm glad you had someone to help you with that. I had dxp to help me with mine 🙂 lol. All the aquarians, including myself told me "Told ya he was a 2 timing douchebag". No, seriously. I joined this website when it went down. I'm glad you are open-minded and can embrace your shortcomings.

As for the Aries and Aqua connection, I have always felt a strongggg connection with them. I sometimes think that Aries belong in the air category rather than fire, and libra belongs to water than air. I agree with a lot of the things Amey says on this website.

No, no. Aquas are emotional, as well as Aries. Most of what amethyst says on here is not objective, but based on emotional manipulation. She wants to come here to say Libras are wrong and get them to admit it. It's really transparent to me. I think people bought in by her are fools.

I agree with LibraLuv that the only person truly helpful in the darkest times of my life was an Aquarius. But not any old Aquarius women. Just one of the rare breeds. One of the Aquarian failings would be a great misjudge of character and a misguided understanding of what strength means.

Remember: Aqua are the most emotional of the air signs, NOT Libra.

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Posted by spica
If you are cruel with ease, then you are definitely a Martian type, and thus best friends with Aries. Congratulations.
You aren't objective for an Aquarian, btw. But you can think you are.

Posted by spica
Aqua09, I am sensing you have resentment for your EX Libra and that is why you think Amey is being ":objective" when she curses Libras. You are not beyond the confines of human fallability. To think you are is showing a blindspot and being blinded by a sense of superiority.

Posted by Batuk
@Aquarius09
Bwahahahahahaha.LMFAO.
I don`t agree with spica on Aquarius being the most emotional air sign but who did you want to scare by this sentence ""In fact I could be cruel with ease."" Lmfao. Hilarious.

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@Aquarius09
Bwahahahahahaha.LMFAO.
I don`t agree with spica on Aquarius being the most emotional air sign but who did you want to scare by this sentence ""In fact I could be cruel with ease."" Lmfao. Hilarious.

YOu obviously get scared by comments like this because I was just stating something about MY aquarius filled chart. Don't get scared. I wasn't going to come beat you up..LOL

Then your Aquarius filled chart shows how unrealistic you`re.LOL.
Without any earth sign in their birth chart, Aquas are simply airheads.
Aquas maybe good with ideas but they don`t have ability to put their idea into reality. I`m just laughing on your unfortunate chart,K?

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Posted by spica
Aqua09, I am sensing you have resentment for your EX Libra and that is why you think Amey is being ":objective" when she curses Libras. You are not beyond the confines of human fallability. To think you are is showing a blindspot and being blinded by a sense of superiority.

Libras are about "balance" . They are not all logic but for the most part they are quite rational beings and tend to be unbiased by emotions when making decisions . However when you are ruled by venus you are likely to have certain romantic sensibilities . Ultimately Libra is air sign but with a little "water" from the romantic nature in them . Pus since they are the scales they don't like one aspect completely dominating them anyway . They are a well rounded air sign unlike Aquas who are emotional retarts and overly detached to the point that people are turned off by them . so what's wrong with Libras being a little emotional ? More power to them really .........

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If libras were a little emotional then I wouldn't be comparing them to Cancers and neither would you. Cancers are a lottt emotional and so are libras. YOu said they are like cancers in the sense they stay in unhappy relationships because they fear lonliness. I agree with you on that, but you have to admit staying in an unhappy relationship knowing fully well that it's wrong is hardly logical/rational. It is purely emotional. I don't know why libras are deluded to think they are rational. Lets make some connections, shall we?! Libras are emotional, not a little but quite a lot than they would like to believe, which is why there is a constant tug of war in their head. They are always trying to balance their scales, which is hardly any rationality. So the indecisiveness(libras are known for) + emotions = hardly rational.

Posted by Batuk
Ha! Are all aquas are that stupid like that?
Aquagirl24, Annabella and now there`s you. Aquarians are not realistic at all. You just reminded me that stupid politician Sarah Palin.
Maybe I`m not into astrology that much, but you know what,you need to FIRST look into real life, real people then into astrology. COMPARE and CONTRAST.

Look at aquarius celebrities alive today, Paris Hilton, Sarah Palin which are the people who are famous for their stupity.

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Posted by spica
Aqua09, I am sensing you have resentment for your EX Libra and that is why you think Amey is being ":objective" when she curses Libras. You are not beyond the confines of human fallability. To think you are is showing a blindspot and being blinded by a sense of superiority.

I like libras, especially as friends. But me finding them emotional isn't negative. It's just the libras that I've come across are emotional and don't have airy qualities. According to astrology, they are compatible with aquas, and I don't feel that's true. Why do you think that me finding amey to be objective is only since I have some hatred for my ex? I have seen some common behaviour amongst some of my libra friends(girls and guys) and that's why I said what I did.

Libras are about "balance" . They are not all logic but for the most part they are quite rational beings and tend to be unbiased by emotions when making decisions . However when you are ruled by venus you are likely to have certain romantic sensibilities . Ultimately Libra is air sign but with a little "water" from the romantic nature in them . Pus since they are the scales they don't like one aspect completely dominating them anyway . They are a well rounded air sign unlike Aquas who are emotional retarts and overly detached to the point that people are turned off by them . so what's wrong with Libras being a little emotional ? More power to them really .........

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Posted by Batuk
Ha! Are all aquas are that stupid like that?
Aquagirl24, Annabella and now there`s you. Aquarians are not realistic at all. You just reminded me that stupid politician Sarah Palin.
Maybe I`m not into astrology that much, but you know what,you need to FIRST look into real life, real people then into astrology. COMPARE and CONTRAST.

Look at aquarius celebrities alive today, Paris Hilton, Sarah Palin which are the people who are famous for their stupity.

Aquagirl 24 was part libra and so was dumbella 😛 I'll teach you something. Astrology isn't as simple as sun sign. There's more to it. You admit you aren't into astrology that much yet you still claim to run your mouth. That shows nothing but that you are a fool because only fools run their mouth w/o knowing something. As for using Sarah Palin and Paris as examples, your stupidity and bias couldn't be more blatant. How about you mention some gazillion aquarius geniuses out there?

P.S you mentioned somewhere that you have something in Aquarius, if that is correct, then I guess you aren't that realistic either. Stop dissing yourself

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Posted by Batuk
Ha! Are all aquas are that stupid like that?
Aquagirl24, Annabella and now there`s you. Aquarians are not realistic at all. You just reminded me that stupid politician Sarah Palin.
Maybe I`m not into astrology that much, but you know what,you need to FIRST look into real life, real people then into astrology. COMPARE and CONTRAST.

Look at aquarius celebrities alive today, Paris Hilton, Sarah Palin which are the people who are famous for their stupity.

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Aquas are very insistent on their POV and are inflexible in changing their minds, even if they are skewed. Thing with Aquarius, I have found, is that they CANNOT fo the life of them detach and compartmentalise emotion and thought. When they speak, they can only access the emotional brain, especially WHEN they are on a roll/ talking about subjects personal to them.
Not dissing Aquas, but this is how I see it.

And you are right, Aqua and Libra are not compatible romantically. Libra is the true romantic; Aqua is the antithesis - the one most likely to take romance as a human experiment.

LOL fair enough. I do agree with that, atleast for myself. I do see things as scientific experiments and especially "romance", which is fairytale mumbo jumbo that libra believes in. Yes, aquarians have a superiority complex but that's because they see things that they don't think others do or acknowledge.

You are entitled to share your personal experiences regarding aquas. However, it is highly subjective as it is dependent on whose perception we are seeing. A cancer or pisces will think an aqua is a robot. A gemini would find aqua to be fun partner that they can talk about. It's all about who the aqua is dealing with. My libra ex thought I was a feeling-less bitch and even more worse for not believing in "love" while I thought he was wishy-washy, first class citizen of the imaginary world of lepracauns. lol. So basically it's all dependent on who is talking. As for true romantic, that's not libra, but rather cancers. Libra only hijacks that title because they endorse the idea of love. They are in love with the idea. When it comes down to actions, they do nothing! They'll fantasize themselves as Casanova, expert of romance, but when it

Posted by oldskoolflavor
ahem ..
you come across as uber cold aquarius09,
like you are unable to empathize & shit

Of course I can emphathize and shit because I'm a humanitarian aqua, but if you think I'll empathize with self-proclaimed victims or people who borrow money and don't return it on time or always make up dumb excuses for running late, then yes I am uber cold. If y'all are referring to coldness/anger as an emotion, then why yes, I am emotional. lol. I'm not emotional in the sense that I could be in a relationship for 5 years, but the moment I'm mistreated I cut you out good! Cut throat approach. I don't stay around because of the history or comfort or any of the emotional reasons that people stay in relationship for. People call that "I'm so strong that I put up with people's garbage since I care so much". No, actually. One is pathetic for being treated like doormat because as caring as you are, you should care about yourself first and foremost. I'm just saying to decipher for you in what senses I am cold and in what sense I'm not. Of course no one can be completely robotic, but I'm not emotional as most people. I don't get cookies for sayign that. I'm stating it because I knw myself best and I can tell you I know my sign.

"in the end,
you're more of a soft cookie who's afraid of her feelings and being emotional"

Just because some people front liek they aren't emotional when they really are, doesn't mean everyone does that. I have no problem admitting my emotions and to an extent I am emotional. What I'm saying from the beginning which people are having a hard time comprehending is that I'm not as emotional as MOST PEOPLE.

Posted by spica

"Perfect. Exactly my sentiments. Aqua just doesn't see the world the same as Libras. I am seeing a Libra myself and no, it's neither leprechauns nor fantasising as Casanova. It's just Libra sees the world as partnerships. Aqua has no time for that bullshat I know. But Libras really appreciate that. That is why Aqua and Libra can never be compatible"

Now why didn't someone tell me this sooner: that libras think in partnerships 😢 I think when astrology says that they are compatible they are talking more on a mental plane because my libra friends and I have fascinating talks about philosophy and politics and arts etc. Other than that, astrology is wrong on these 2 signs being compatible.

"Because Libra's romances take place in the world of dreams, which are very real. It stems first from the mind, and that is why a Libra wont leave their partner if the mental image there is perfect.Your Libra left you because very simply he realised your ideals and his dont match and it is not something that is salvageable. It is like "irreconcilable differences" in a divorce paper."

My libra left me in the most cowardly way you can think of..lol. I don't think he was a textbook libra anyway. He cheated and then strung me along. I was too busy being in my own world(running my errands/being ambitious) to notice he did both. I found out a year and a half later. I figured for a needy person who wanted me on the phone for 6+ hours with him, he sure lessened his phone calls all of the sudden. Then I did my investigation and bingo. He did both. Unlike some girls, I genuinely didn't know I was being strung along.

Posted by Strider
I just believe Libra is a well rounded air sign . say what you want about their emotional side...but ultimaetly whatever emotion they have it will never interfere with any of their decisions . Infact i think Libra is the most impartial of all the air signs . Not too immature like gemini but not overly detached like aqua .............

It's probably the best Air sign . Except libra males ruin the reputation by being markers sometimes but Libra women are just perfect .

Posted by libra sun
I find aqua's to be very emotional, they just seem to have trouble expressing it. Absence of expession does not mean absence of emotions.

Posted by libra sun
I find aqua's to be very emotional, they just seem to have trouble expressing it. Absence of expession does not mean absence of emotions.

Posted by Batuk
The planet Venus symbolizes, in astrology, the urge for RELATIONSHIP. Let's look closely at that word. Relating one thing to another doesn't necessarily involve emotion. It's the art of comparison, differentiation, of making balanced and symmetrical patterns. Relationship is an integral part of dance, of geometry, of mathematics, or warfare.

Remember that Libra is an airy sign. And air is concerned with ideas and principles above all else. Love, yes, of course. Every Libra thinks a lot about love, just as he thinks a lot about anything that pertains to relationship. But the operative word here is THINK. Love, for Libra, makes the world go round. But his love is a theoretical one.

Libra is capable of spending hours discussing a relationship - what's wrong with it, what's right with it, how it can be adjusted, how 'we' can make it better. In the end he shows a surprisingly small capacity to actually act on these realizations: he may know them and understand them, but it's hard for him to show them emotionally. Remember that Libra's feeling nature is quite childlike, often very powerful, and usually repressed. And when he's being horribly reasonable and discussing it like a political debate with pros and cons and suggestions for bills and amendments, you feel like doing something simple and basic, like clubbing him, or tearing his clothes off. This sort of behaviour usually has the effect of producing a bland, tolerant look and statement like, 'When you're feeling more reasonable, we'll discuss it, dear.'

Posted by Strider
Don't take my comments the wrong way Aquarius09. I am not bashing aquarius in all this but because they are my opposite sign i know their strengths as well as weakness . Aquarius do have exceptional minds and they are usually great friends .

Posted by Strider
"Aquarius are really fearful of being hurt and they are really ruled by fear (saturn is their co-ruler) and most often you will see Aquarius outright mock individuals who are loving and believe in love".

I agree with you 110% on this!!

"That jaded pesimissitic view comes from their root core which is fear . Their logic and their constant love of logic is just to cover up their fear and to be in constant control of their surroundings (again fear) so they tout the intellect above everything in this world"

Partially agree in that it is a pessimistic view we hold for love, but the root of it is not fear. Partially it is fear, but mainly is because we scoff at the fantasy romance has to offer. We find fantasizing and running in the fields and sweet talking as weird. Our loving style is through the brain. For example, light up a scented candle and beautify a room and you've got a turned on libra, whereas it won't do much for an aqua. Talk about astrology, religion, metaphysics, and then you've got a turned on aquarius. 😉 It's not so much fear. It's more that aquas take a scientific approach on love.

"Aquas are very 'clever individuals' but are completely devoid of real wisdom . There is such a thing as love and it is not a figment of our imagination . love is who we really are and the ego is who we think we are (false identity). Now granted human love is very flawed because the ego taints the love to a degree .... but if you really allow yourself to love (requires courage)and use your discretion and intuition to give that love to the right individual you will be very happy . The highest love is spiritual love which we humans are incapable of at this current moment so i won't even bother talking about it".

I don't believe in this aspect of love you just described. See how we differ in our view of love. It didn't come from fear. It came from that I found it cheesy. To each their own. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm not mocking you but you have to understand that I don't see love that way. I don't have hunky dory perception of love as the world does nowadays. I don't know if that's the aquarian perception or just my views/pessimism/nurture etc. because life doesn't revolve around astrology.

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Posted by size zero superhero

Can't understand people who are willing to 'settle' while fully aware that they're with the wrong person.

This. People are such selfish dipshits.

This is why being single sucks? Not settling and being picky and cautious is all the more reason why it's hard. If you are the type of person who wants a initimate relationship with someone. I think it does all boil down to what Diddylibra is saying...at the end of the day...is where it is the hardest for a Libra.

I think that's where Libra insecurities come in. Yeah, being single can suck because you're alone, but Jesus, get some personal strength or something. :p It's just a weird concept to me. I don't mind being alone. I have moments of wanting to be with someone because being alone can suck, but overall, I'm fine with it. You have a bit more freedom AND you're not in a farce of a relationship for the sake of your insecurities. *shrugs*

I get where everyone is coming from, but seriously, it's a major weakness on an individual's part. People who can't be secure in their individuality and have to rely on others for their happiness have some internal issues to work out. :/

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Posted by Strider


It's probably the best Air sign . Except libra males ruin the reputation by being markers sometimes but Libra women are just perfect .

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Damn, I was hoping Fabio was a Libra. Scrap that photo opportunity.

Posted by Batuk
Ok, you said look at person`s actions if you want to determine whether she/he`s rational or emotional,right?

Libras are never emotional while they`re making a decision. And making decision is an action. They hardly go against their head.
It`s as simple as that.

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Posted by spica
Libras are emotional, but they always give others the benefit of the doubt, or at least a fair chance to prove their side of the story. Aquas tend to move a certain way only.. their way.

Aquas seem overly detached, but to me they are very emotional in the sense of the way they talk. Libras give a balanced POV. To weigh both sides of the story is putting emotions aside. That said, I have no qualms being compared to cancer. It's the Aquas who are offended when they are thought less than intellectual or unique.

I view the Air signs and the extent to which they are emotional to go in a descending order, from Gemini--the first and to Aquarius--the eldest.
More specifically, Gemini is possibly the most emotional Air sign whereas Libra is less so and Aquarius is typically most alienated and least comfortable when it comes down to expressing/processing emotion out of all three.

For instance Gemini is prone to tearful outbursts, fits of rage as well as displays of ecstatic joy, all on a fairly regular basis. Geminis broadcast raw feelings, whether this happens sooner or later.
Libras pick and choose what matters of the heart worth bringing to attention as well as how they will word the message before it is vocalized--and are most likely to speak up if an issue is eating away at them.
Yet unlike the former and latter, Aquarius is prone to bottle up especially unpleasant emotion and is most effective in doing so, although being the least open and most "held together" of the Air signs could eventually add up at a high price, so to speak.

Granted, this is strictly based on personal experience so I fully welcome differing points of view/opinions on the topic.

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Posted by oldskoolflavor
ahem ..
you come across as uber cold aquarius09,
like you are unable to empathize & shit

in the end,
you're more of a soft cookie who's afraid of her feelings and being emotional

maybe spica has a point when she says aquas are emotional