Is it true that libra hate being single? (Page 2)

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by spica

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Damn, I was hoping Fabio was a Libra. Scrap that photo opportunity.

What is a Fabio? The long haired Pisces guy?

lmao
Yes, that is A Fabio 🙂

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Ta Dah!

Posted by Strider
The highest love is spiritual love which we humans are incapable of at this current moment so i won't even bother talking about it . But even the flawed human love is quite beautiful in it's own way because love itself means give attention to outside yourself , so there will always be a great pleasure . The more one loves the more you numb away the selfish and calculating ego .

I agree with this quite totally. Humans are capable of it, but they are intermittently taken away by their selfish earthly desires. Spiritual love is the highest form of love, and Libra usually gives it to their partner and friends.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Strider
Don't take my comments the wrong way Aquarius09. I am not bashing aquarius in all this but because they are my opposite sign i know their strengths as well as weakness . Aquarius do have exceptional minds and they are usually great friends .

No worries. I understand. In fact I agree with many of your aforementioned points. We are ruled my saturn and we are fearful of getting hurt. That would explain why we run away from "romance".

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Looking at my Guru's and her Libra partner, I am thinking there's a rift between Aqua and Libra's understanding of the world. Libra sees the world through partnerships, so they come across "clingy" to Aqua, who see the world as srength/ weakness. So, inevitably, Aqua will see Libra as weak.

Also, the rift between me and my Aqua friends were caused by the principle of my willing to show a certain human-ness which I perceive as genuineness, while they perceive as "weakness". They, were seldom "genuine" to me. I.e.: I felt that they were holding back too much and lied because their "face" or "perception of strenght" was more important. That is why some of my Aqua friends never worked out with me.

So, yeah, I do see it now, why Aqua and Libra cannot work out. My Guru was a different Aqua, btw. She had the biggest heart and pretty much no Ego. Her Ego was only used to torture her Libra suiter, whom I thought was the dumbest ever. He never understood her intentions, so he went with his own illusion that she loved him thats why she treated him the way she did. In actual fact she only regarded him as a friend and never respcted/ understood his romantic gestures. But she's still my favorite 🙂

Posted by Strider
spica i think you are perfectly capable of being your own guru .

Haha I know (not being egotistic) but I gave her that title, it wasn't imposed on me. Because she is magic, to me 🙂. I AM my own guru, but I liked to acknowledge her for helping me through a very dark period of my life without taking advantage - but showing the humanitarian ideal of love. To me she was superhuman because I didn't think anyone else was capable of that. I give praise where it is due. She isn't perfect but I chose to see her as such.

I call her "Guru" because she is MY idea of perfection. In a certain sphere of relation/ thought. I mentioned I didn't like the way she handled her romantic relationships. And also some other aspects of her expression/ her insecuities (which I see quite clearly).

But of course, because I and her mesh so well and she is a true friend. You don't find a true friend nowadays - she had everything she needed and her ideals/ spirituality is borne of love and very far advanced. I don't even see it in Aquarians I meet nowadays.

I don't even talk to her anymore. But I like to keep the memory intact. I don't care what anyone says 😉

Posted by Strider
well a "guru" would never play games with other people emotions . But watever suit yourself .

No she would never call herself that. She calls me her daughter/ granddaughter though we're not blood related.

Ok, she doesnt play games with the Libra. He is the one who clings to her and stays with her. She regards him as a very close friend. She sees him as a friend; he sees her as both. But I can see why he sticks with her. She is a very awesome person. But I am not praising the Aquarius sign, nor am I talking about all Aquarians. Just her. And I dont want to talk about her anymore. hahahahahha

Posted by Strider
lol sorry about my curiosity . Jupiter in gemini =/

Leo -- Aqua zodiac strand is my fave one. I think they bring the highest ideals of love.

Posted by LibraLuv
"So, inevitably, Aqua will see Libra as weak.".... An absolute truth spoken right here.... This reminds me of some of the things my mom used to say to me. She would say..."There is NO WAY I would put up with....blah blah blah" (

I cut off my Aqua female friends who saw me as weak. I could sniff it, and I decided they were too stuck up their ass giving the impression they were "strong".. oh well, no losses done. They make interesting conversations only when there is mutual respect. When an Aqua sees a Libra as weak, they have brought forth the shadow side of superiority - I felt that made a very inferior Aquarian Alot of them have struggles with image/ appearance of humantiarianism vs selfishness. I see none of that in my Guru because she has resolved them.

if they had no superiority complex, they'd make the best friends.

I loved being single and I like my independence and not someone hovering or I end up devoting way too much time to them and their wants/needs. My Aries understands me now after the last couple years, he's been patient and the friendship is blossoming at my pace 🙂

Posted by Strider
No love for geminis ? Why is it just aqua/libra ?

I just don't understand Gemmys that much. But a nice Gem makes a good friend. Leos are great to have around anywhere 🙂

Always been single, hate it but it made me a cynic.

sucks being one,

Posted by a muse a libra
I prefer a relationship, but I think average people prefer companionship to nothing.

Libra's are in love with the idea of love, and go searching for it in unlikely places. I've been single for the past six years and have discovered that I am in search of an ideal partner.

Where other signs may find it easier to connect, perhaps because they are more emotional, Libra holds back looking for their perfect match.

I want my perfect match so badly when I realize the person I'm dating is not it, I back off very quickly. I have series of relationships with men who I know I will not marry or be with long term for the companionship and friendship, but I know in my heart that these men are not the ones I will settle down with.

I am very independent and do not NEED a relationship in the sense I think the original poster is asking, it's more that I long for a deep, lasting connection. An equal to walk through life with.

I can relate to this answer 🙂
I am always searching for the perfect match, a true soulmate 🙂
Anyways but I also admit that i am in love with the idea of love itself.

Posted by LoveMermaid

Posted by spica
I call her "Guru" because she is MY idea of perfection. In a certain sphere of relation/ thought. I mentioned I didn't like the way she handled her romantic relationships. And also some other aspects of her expression/ her insecuities (which I see quite clearly).

But of course, because I and her mesh so well and she is a true friend. You don't find a true friend nowadays - she had everything she needed and her ideals/ spirituality is borne of love and very far advanced. I don't even see it in Aquarians I meet nowadays.

I don't even talk to her anymore. But I like to keep the memory intact. I don't care what anyone says 😉

I love that your guru is an Aqua.

I feel that your emtional attachment to her makes you a little baised. For example, it seems you want to pair Aqua with Aries often moreseo than other signs 🙂

I think its important to remember if we're basing compatibility on zodiac signs, that the entire chart should be considered. Another thing is, I consider my placements and point of view when making determinations about other signs and their placements as well. For example, a Leo will consider an Aries differently than a Pisces will consider an Aries and I am mindful of this. Basic, I know.. not trying to insult anyone's intelligence just reminding everyone 🙂

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Yes I am very biased towards her. She's the best in my eyes.
My observation of Aries with Aqua is not based on my guru, but on other Aquas I come across as friends and acquaintances. My Gur is obviously beyond that, not that she's free of bias, but her sense of justice and ethics is beyond par.

That said, what I mean is that I feel Aqua basically respect the Aries constitution and ways of doing things more than Libra's way, but of course, there are exceptions.

Yes I prefer to have a partner 😉

yeahhh...
I prefer being in a relationship..all the time LOL 😛