Is my ex scorpio boyfriend stringing me along?

I have been in a 5 year long distance relationship with a scorpio male that is much younger than me. I have provided him financial, emotional and physical support in the last 5 years. In January of this year i sensed that he was avoiding me and limiting our time together. But he was having quite a bit of financial difficulites and i was doing what I could to help. On the 20th of january, we had a phone conversaation and he sd he was going to help his ex gf from 10 years ago because she had a drug addition and recently came back in his life. He said he felt it was the morale thing to do. She is a Leo. He then said this is the hardest thing I have done but "its over between us". I was devastated, heart broken and to be honest really pissed. Mainly because I had sent him so much money recently and because I had sensed his pulling away which he denied. Later that week he had posted a picture of this girl in her pj's in his apartment with a time stamp on his facebook page and the time stamp date was on the day that he had told me he was really sick. I was even more devasted, didnt know that was possible. So much of my financial support of him involved things being in my name so i gave him a time limit to get things out of my name so I could move on and be no longer financial responsible. He missed the deadline I set so i did what I said I was going to do. He contacted me by phone askin me to please send him the info he needed to get things put in his name. But by then it was too late, I had already had the services cut off. After a few days he asked for my help, so i got the services turned back on with the understanding that they would need to be paid by him and taken out of my name as soon as possible. We talk occassionaly, ususally initated by me. But the conversations always have him questioning if i am seein anyone, sleeping with anyone and making sexual inuendos. The kicker came yesterday morning when he knows i get up from work he had sent me a yahoo message. When i responded he didnt so I got concerned that he or his son needed something. He finally responded and said they were fine, he just wanted to say hello. Then went on to ask if i miss him, then asked if i was serious about moving in with him, then he sd he and the girl he was seeing werent getting along well and he needed a real woman to take care of him. Of course i sd i can be there tonite. Then he said he had to go because she was waking up.

I am sorry this post is so long. Later in the day i called him to see how he was feeling because he had said he wasnt feeling well and he told me "you do know that wasnt me you were talking to this morning?" Apparently his leo gf decided to pretend to be him to catch him in a lie. I was mortified, ashamed, I felt as though they were sitting around laughing at how quickly i would take him back and how much i care about him and his son. He said "did u ever stop to think she is worried about you" He said she knows that I love you and she said "this woman really loves you" I told him she dosent have to worry about me, I get no say so in rather we are together or not, that that was his decision. Honnestly I think he was flattered that she was trying to catch him in a lie. We havent spoken since, and I am trying very hard to make sense of what just happened. He is a scorpio and I am a libr. I need some insight into this so its not so painful. Any help would be very much appreciated.

aaaahhh i hate to sound so typical towards astrology but from my experience, libras and scorpios, no matter the gender,just never works at all. Libras are naive(like all cardinal signs)b/c we trust anything someone says. Scorpios are manipulative, they will use you up, ive seen it. If they know that you want them and if they have their mind set on the relationship then its done for. they will playthese games to keep you their, and in your case it seems like he wanted the money and i hate to say it like that, thats the thing with Long distance relatinships, i've bee n in oneand personally i cant do it again


I saw how yo usaid the relationship would be up to him, thats where you messed up, b/c you are already letting him know that you are not able to end it out of love but to him he sees it as an inability to leave so he will always tell you sweet nothings and then, eventuall, bam he will ask for money b/c you gave to him nceyou might do it again. thats how he might see it


IF i was you, i wold sever all ties. I know it hurts now nd its going to epecially when you love someone but he is just fucking with your head and you will hurt worse, dont do that to yourself. Libras have a hard time cutting people off its hard and feels like fire when you have to, but we will when we wake up and look at you realistically and behind all the false pretenses, leave him alone or continue to feel hurt and anger b/c he wont change. Dont let his mind games convince you that he loves yo just so he can get in your pocket.



This is jusy one example of hy scorpios and libras dont mesh

not all scorpios are bad, my grandparents were scorpios so i learned from them but yea most of the time scorio-libra match is hell for that one reason, b/c libras fail to put our foot down. you have to be firm with scorpios and they will give u hell for it but its worth going the distance. Thats probably where i fucced up with my scorpio women in the past but u gotta take a stand and defend it with them cuz more than likely, they chose theirs


like she said, you need to put your foot down-sever those ties are risk your heart