TREADLIGHTLY
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is this typical of libra men?
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why do you think about a failure before you even started anything? you told him to take things slowly... if he respects that, fine..if not...well...you will know...you bulls know how to protect you heart, dont worry...
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No harm in "perusing...."
@ HERA lol blame it on my virgo moon i over think everything
@rocky how did you know i was a fixed bull!!!
@rocky how did you know i was a fixed bull!!!
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYexcuses, excuses ๐ i overthink a lot... but that is really extreme even for me.. nothing has happened yet ๐ dont throw away something just cause you think something bad can happen ๐
@ HERA lol blame it on my virgo moon i over think everything
@rocky how did you know i was a fixed bull!!!
oh @ hera if only you knew me lol. i thought that was a perfectly good excuse thank you!!! but you are right i will try to not think worse case.
@CRUELLA you sound like one of my friends lol. i guess in the past with other signs disappearing was never good. however i dated a aqua weird enough he was my longest relationship and he disappeared so much in the first few month its drove me nearly insane. however i will give him a true chance he does seem like he could be a good guy and we have a lot in common so far it seems
@CRUELLA you sound like one of my friends lol. i guess in the past with other signs disappearing was never good. however i dated a aqua weird enough he was my longest relationship and he disappeared so much in the first few month its drove me nearly insane. however i will give him a true chance he does seem like he could be a good guy and we have a lot in common so far it seems
cruella.... honestly i haven't mentioned any plans with him. he is going in full speed and has planned everything from my birthday to his birthday.
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYthats the spirit girl! go for it ๐ i dated taureans, and you people are just great ๐ i learned to be patient thanx to my ex taurus bf ๐
oh @ hera if only you knew me lol. i thought that was a perfectly good excuse thank you!!! but you are right i will try to not think worse case.
@CRUELLA you sound like one of my friends lol. i guess in the past with other signs disappearing was never good. however i dated a aqua weird enough he was my longest relationship and he disappeared so much in the first few month its drove me nearly insane. however i will give him a true chance he does seem like he could be a good guy and we have a lot in common so far it seems
@ HERA the key to a Taurus heart patience and fine food of course
I didnt even read all the comments but 3 years......Taurus domt move that slow seems like ur not into him. Why dont you loke him whats the problem with libras? Seems like self sabotaging u havent even gave him a a chance
been dating a libra for a year now and we gel very well - this is my first and I don't ever want it to end - we both have taken things slow because of our past horrors
we don't argue, the sex is off the charts, I love his stories, he loves my nurturing nature - my cooking and pampering - I love the fact that we both have our own lives but yet we are together and that we completely trust each other - that is very important to us
we don't argue, the sex is off the charts, I love his stories, he loves my nurturing nature - my cooking and pampering - I love the fact that we both have our own lives but yet we are together and that we completely trust each other - that is very important to us
Posted by 2Moonthanks - I guess some but our beginning was ok - he knew right away and just wanted to "go" but I held back a bit - scared - too many things seemed good and then turned sour - too many men talk the good talk but can't walk - I wanted to save my heart from yet another beating ... did he mean what he said ? is he all that ? ... turned out - yes he is - and I thank him for being the person he said he was since day one ... trust is very important to me because it's solid and doesn't waver ... he is "constant" is the only term that comes to my lips ...
libra and taurus is a good team imo.
very good for a long term relationship.
it's just...
the beginning... of the relationship is risky.
the part where you are not even together, when you are just flirting and getting to know each other.
this is the hardest part imo. Can you guys work together or not?
it's like a test.
(the beggining is just weird and a little bit complicated. Once you are in a relationship together, everything is easier and better imo! )
we talk pretty much daily since day one either text or phone and see each other when we can but we live 1.5 hours apart and we are both busy - I didn't know but I was drawn - regardless, helpless, mesmerized, smitten ... to this day we laugh and I say "you were right and I will never doubt you again" ...
when I first actually see him after it's been awhile, when our eyes meet I see that smile light up his face and it squeezes the joy juice out of my heart ... maybe he sees my smile and it's just reflective - but if it is then I know now that we both know ...
Posted by 2Mooni agree with this. the beginning of a relationship can be fraught with pitfalls but as long as you are both truly committed then those can be overcome.
libra and taurus is a good team imo.
very good for a long term relationship.
it's just...
the beginning... of the relationship is risky.
the part where you are not even together, when you are just flirting and getting to know each other.
this is the hardest part imo. Can you guys work together or not?
it's like a test.
(the beggining is just weird and a little bit complicated. Once you are in a relationship together, everything is easier and better imo! )
i think if anyone is going to let the side down it will be the libra. the first sign of trouble and we can be off in the other direction.
i think the biggest lesson for libra is to ride the thing out, mean what you say and really think about the effect you are having with your words.
the biggest lesson for taurus would be that caution will only get you so far, you have to risk getting your fingers burnt. the other thing for taurus would be not everyone is like you! libras chop and change, we dither, we oscillate, just be patient with us. let us go through our process.
ha - I can't get over the test part - I think everything he says is a test so I am so cautious lol ...
Posted by KoniuchaReally?? My saggicorn and I must be doing something wrong! รฐลธยคโPosted by 2MoonPretty sure the beginning of any relationship is weird and complicated, IMO
libra and taurus is a good team imo.
very good for a long term relationship.
it's just...
the beginning... of the relationship is risky.
the part where you are not even together, when you are just flirting and getting to know each other.
this is the hardest part imo. Can you guys work together or not?
it's like a test.
(the beggining is just weird and a little bit complicated. Once you are in a relationship together, everything is easier and better imo! )
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@OP, Libra and Taurus matches seem to be en vogue. ๐
Posted by tctayou guys test too! i was scrutinised from every angle. ๐
ha - I can't get over the test part - I think everything he says is a test so I am so cautious lol ...
Posted by Koniucha*hugs* I wash shusht being shilly. ๐Posted by LillyPetalI'm more just saying, it's any sign together. I'm sure you two aren't doing anything wrong ๐Posted by KoniuchaReally?? My saggicorn and I must be doing something wrong! รฐลธยคโPosted by 2MoonPretty sure the beginning of any relationship is weird and complicated, IMO
libra and taurus is a good team imo.
very good for a long term relationship.
it's just...
the beginning... of the relationship is risky.
the part where you are not even together, when you are just flirting and getting to know each other.
this is the hardest part imo. Can you guys work together or not?
it's like a test.
(the beggining is just weird and a little bit complicated. Once you are in a relationship together, everything is easier and better imo! )
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Posted by jeaneI'm not a tester per say - at least verbally - but I did give him the test of time - let him talk and talk and talk and I just listened - intently - patiently - silently - watching - and of course we have good memories so we can put a puzzle together in a heartbeat ...Posted by tctayou guys test too! i was scrutinised from every angle. ๐
ha - I can't get over the test part - I think everything he says is a test so I am so cautious lol ...click to expand
Lovely 77 no it wasn't like that at all. Part of the years I was in a relationship so it was more of him checking on me and just speaking politely waiting on that relationship to end. Now that it has I've recently began to talk to him and get to know him.
@tcta wow you have given me hope! Is he a sept or oct libra? What was the most challenging part?
@2moom he actually wants to make it official as soon as possible I've been the one saying get to know me a little better and see if you still like me. And I guess I should explain in hose 3 years we really didn't talk I was with someone else so he respected the relationship and just checked on me here and there now that he knows it's over he's moving full force
Very true jeane!! Because when I finally let someone in I give my all. I try everything under the sun to NOT GET BURNED but it's happened twice. Caution is the name of the game for us but if he's truly like he says he is he may be good for me
@lucky libra gesh I'm not that slow moving lol. We weren't getting to know each other over that time more of a hi hope all is well. Finally my relationship ended and after a few months of being single he came on full force. He said he's not missing the opportunity this time. He's ready to take trips travel and lock this bull down lol. It's very sweet I guess in the back of my mind I was wondering was it all too good to be true
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYhe is early October Libra - do some research on the web - I can say that we really haven't had challenges - he just said to his brother on Easter that wondered where he was and he said he was with me - and then said to him "and there is no arguing here" ... true that - one year of dating and not one argument - unprecedented for me I will say ...
@tcta wow you have given me hope! Is he a sept or oct libra? What was the most challenging part?
Libra normally likes the stability of Taurus and our natural beauty - be patient and open and pamper him if you are that type of Taurus - I am, and he loves that ...
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYI hope he's like he says he is too because that is what happened to me and I feel so blessed with him so I hope you are lucky with him too because it's wonderful - he told me from the very start all about himself and he how he is and that turned out to be the total truth and I find that totally so cool and trustworthy I can't find the words ...
Very true jeane!! Because when I finally let someone in I give my all. I try everything under the sun to NOT GET BURNED but it's happened twice. Caution is the name of the game for us but if he's truly like he says he is he may be good for me
Tcta I'm so happy for you guys!!! You made my little heart smile . I'm not really a pamperer however from the things he says he is. I'm more of a "doer" dinner ready when your off making sure certain things are done so that you don't have to be bothered with it. He's the let me run your bath water and massage your feet type of person
i can only speak from my personal experience but we had a rocky start. both of us were gunshy and it took a long time for us to settle into it. i think in the first 6 months we broke up every month (for about 2 days each time...)! so i can't echo tcta's experience. maybe it is different for a libra woman/taurus man combination.
Why so much breaking up in the beginning?
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYBull = Taurus = fixed sign
@ HERA lol blame it on my virgo moon i over think everything
@rocky how did you know i was a fixed bull!!!
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYhe was cautious and i was flighty! we were oil and water.
Why so much breaking up in the beginning?
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
Posted by TREADLIGHTLYit sounds like you will do just fine together - a shout out to all the happy couples and hopes for those without that there is a special someone out there just stay open ...
Tcta I'm so happy for you guys!!! You made my little heart smile . I'm not really a pamperer however from the things he says he is. I'm more of a "doer" dinner ready when your off making sure certain things are done so that you don't have to be bothered with it. He's the let me run your bath water and massage your feet type of person
and keep us posted on the progress ๐
Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...click to expand
Posted by tctayou're right. there were so many obstacles, there still are but no matter how many times we each called it quits, neither of us could let the other go. i don't know if it was fate or perhaps just hormones either way i never thought someone could bring so much happiness to my life.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
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Posted by jeaneaaaaahhhhh - fate, hormones, the stars ... now if only we could stop smiling long enough to tell him how I really feel ... lol ...Posted by tctayou're right. there were so many obstacles, there still are but no matter how many times we each called it quits, neither of us could let the other go. i don't know if it was fate or perhaps just hormones either way i never thought someone could bring so much happiness to my life.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
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Posted by tizianiwow you too ? or you have just been there or know - I know you know a lot about astrology ...Posted by tctaAgain, in total agreement.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
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if so - are you male Libra or Taurus and is your mate what ?
awwwwww that is so awesome ! I know wow - natural yes - and "constant" - that word keeps coming to my lips - I think part in that I was raised in dysfunction and I hated that it just wasn't normal and the same every day and then I had trouble for a long time iwth picking the right relationships and then I married a Pisces who was bipolar and although I gave it my all and nurtured for 10 years the crazy stuff just got to me - when I was working full time and going to school full time - now I have my "Constant Libra" and he is such a man and he is just always right there and doesn't change personality from day to day ... it just is and that is how I really thrive - in reality - eyes wide open!
Posted by tizianiPosted by tctaI'm a Libra Man, she's a Taurus woman. Everything feels natural and we always want to be around each other each day.Posted by tizianiwow you too ? or you have just been there or know - I know you know a lot about astrology ...Posted by tctaAgain, in total agreement.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
if so - are you male Libra or Taurus and is your mate what ?
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Tizani I can def notice he likes the whole everyday thing. Well right now anyway. Although he jokes of one day wanting to spend time with the boys and I said I promise you I'll be pushing you out the door lol
- we are a bit different as we relish our space apart - he is an avid hunter and fisherman and on top of work and family and doing for others it keeps him very busy socially - I like my peace/space - always have ... I live 1.5 hours away in the mountains on 7 acres alone ... he loves to come and unplug with me ... hopefully we can spend more time together in the future ...
Posted by tctaWow that sounds so peaceful!! It sounds like you two have the perfect balance
- we are a bit different as we relish our space apart - he is an avid hunter and fisherman and on top of work and family and doing for others it keeps him very busy socially - I like my peace/space - always have ... I live 1.5 hours away in the mountains on 7 acres alone ... he loves to come and unplug with me ... hopefully we can spend more time together in the future ...
It's definitely an unforgettable experience.
Posted by 2MoonPosted by tctaPosted by 2Moonthanks - I guess some but our beginning was ok - he knew right away and just wanted to "go" but I held back a bit - scared - too many things seemed good and then turned sour - too many men talk the good talk but can't walk - I wanted to save my heart from yet another beating ... did he mean what he said ? is he all that ? ... turned out - yes he is - and I thank him for being the person he said he was since day one ... trust is very important to me because it's solid and doesn't waver ... he is "constant" is the only term that comes to my lips ...
libra and taurus is a good team imo.
very good for a long term relationship.
it's just...
the beginning... of the relationship is risky.
the part where you are not even together, when you are just flirting and getting to know each other.
this is the hardest part imo. Can you guys work together or not?
it's like a test.
(the beggining is just weird and a little bit complicated. Once you are in a relationship together, everything is easier and better imo! )
we talk pretty much daily since day one either text or phone and see each other when we can but we live 1.5 hours apart and we are both busy - I didn't know but I was drawn - regardless, helpless, mesmerized, smitten ... to this day we laugh and I say "you were right and I will never doubt you again" ...
when I first actually see him after it's been awhile, when our eyes meet I see that smile light up his face and it squeezes the joy juice out of my heart ... maybe he sees my smile and it's just reflective - but if it is then I know now that we both know ...
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Libra man and Taurus woman
Lol 2moon I'm learning you libra men can't get enough of us Taurus women
Posted by tizianiTizani does she ever bore you or seem to grounded? I know libras are social does she come out of her shell when your entertaining others?Posted by tctaI'm a Libra Man, she's a Taurus woman. Everything feels natural and we always want to be around each other each day.Posted by tizianiwow you too ? or you have just been there or know - I know you know a lot about astrology ...Posted by tctaAgain, in total agreement.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
if so - are you male Libra or Taurus and is your mate what ?
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Posted by 2MoonI hear my voice is attractive all the time however I'm a low talker almost a whisper. I don't know if you've ever heard Janet Jackson speak but that's me very soft low and quiet. It's usually one of the first thing men compliment. And my last two bosses women of course said I sound like a phone see operator. Imagine how that made this bull feelPosted by tizianiwhat do you think about her voice? do you like it?Posted by tctaI'm a Libra Man, she's a Taurus woman. Everything feels natural and we always want to be around each other each day.Posted by tizianiwow you too ? or you have just been there or know - I know you know a lot about astrology ...Posted by tctaAgain, in total agreement.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
if so - are you male Libra or Taurus and is your mate what ?
does she have an attractive voice?click to expand
Posted by 2Moonthat's too bad but you know, you are who you are. the tests are there for a reason. you didn't fail, you just didn't fit. it's good to know for you too. you'd have found yourself forever trying to be someone you are not and that is a terrible way to live, worse still if it is for another person.Posted by jeanelikewise. but, I failed the test.Posted by tctayou guys test too! i was scrutinised from every angle. ๐
ha - I can't get over the test part - I think everything he says is a test so I am so cautious lol ...
I screwed up everything like a retard. stupid meclick to expand
this just mean you are one step closer to finding that person you are compatible with and you haven't wasted time on something that was not going to work, no matter how promising it looked from the outside.
Posted by tiziani@tiziani - how similar that sounds to me - that is the first thing I said when I met him - that I felt very calm around him - like no matter what - everything is good - he is not one to be in tune with his "feelings" so I'm not sure what I do for him but obviously it's a good thing lol - I too am more into one rather than group - it's all good. We work together / problem solve well together ... it's about the connection and the love ...Posted by TREADLIGHTLYShe calls me the grounded one, the calm one. I think in some areas she's more responsible than me despite what she says about me being calm. She's more into one on one rather than group talking.Posted by tizianiTizani does she ever bore you or seem to grounded? I know libras are social does she come out of her shell when your entertaining others?Posted by tctaI'm a Libra Man, she's a Taurus woman. Everything feels natural and we always want to be around each other each day.Posted by tizianiwow you too ? or you have just been there or know - I know you know a lot about astrology ...Posted by tctaAgain, in total agreement.Posted by jeaneI know right - and even though you say you both stuck it out - it seems so inevitable anyway - and those feelings that no matter what happens I will always want to speak to this person - what a unique attraction - like it is supposed to be no matter what ...Posted by tctathanks! yep, we're all good now. i'm so thankful we both stuck it out.
thanks @Treadlightly and good luck - I'm glad for Jeane too cause I know how great a good pairing can be ...
if so - are you male Libra or Taurus and is your mate what ?
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