Leo Guy VERY Frustrated with Libra Girl

New to these forums....I found them while doing a 'google' search on Leo/Libra matches.

This woman and I have been on again/off again for a year. Its driving me nuts. I'm trying to figure out if this rollercoaster with her is her nature....or if she is just a messed up person.

She comes on STRONG....then pulls back; doesn't want to see me. I oblige.

I have a the typical HUGE LEO ego....so I move on to other girls....but she is always in my head. Then .....she reappears wanting to be with me.

Libras......help this Leo out....is she just a mess or is this common—

Background:

She is 24, I'm 43 (fair to share that)
I'm trying to break out of the 'playboy' life style I've been leading for several years.

Oooh.. Daddy issues? o.O

What in the hells do you talk about? The newest bubblegum flavor to hit the market? The latest fill she had at the nail salon? I sincerely doubt it's quantum physics.

Hmm.. my Gemini ex is 42 and three years ago, hooked up with a not-quite-19-year-old. She got pregnant immediately (saw that coming, eh?) and now they have a little boy... and she's a (very) fat, lazy cow now.. not a slim, doe-eyed waif any longer. And somehow, her wildly bright "cool" multi-colored hair and many facial piercings.. doesn't seem so cool now, but rather sad.

She DEFINITELY has Daddy issues.. calls him Daddy.. in front of his MOTHER (with whom I'm still in contact).. and HE clearly has some deep insecurities.. his biggest was always his thinning hair.. he's given up and shaves bald now. (Well, no.. the hair was the second biggest.. his first biggest would be his shockingly small penis!)

The really disturbing part (for me).. that girl probably went to elementary school with MY girls.. she's FIVE MONTHS older than my oldest daughter, and only two years older than my youngest daughter. I wonder if it's ever occurred to him that his girlfriend is about the same age as those "little girls" of mine.. it's crossed his Mom's mind.. and mine. And I'm actually VERY glad we didn't last longer than we did.. if he'd started looking at MY daughter (even if she WAS 18 by then, and an "adult") in that way...

..Well, let's just say I know how to shoot and I know how to cry. They'd never convict me for "accidentally" shooting an "intruder" in the dick.


Basically, Leo dude.. you AREN'T ready to give up the "playboy" life style .. you're still living it (multiple girls).. you just want what you can't have, this hot-n-cold Libra chick is making you crazy (Libras have that gift!) And your twisted desires and insecurities clearly won't let you "settle down" with a woman NOT young enough to be your daughter. This girl was still in DIAPERS when you started being sexually active .. does that NOT creep you out, even a little? :/

But if I had a gold star, I'd stick it to KoL's forehead. Good job, man!

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Even Nefer is speechless 😄

Spoke too soon, eh, Conquistador? 😛

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by venusianbull
What in the hells do you talk about? The newest bubblegum flavor to hit the market? The latest fill she had at the nail salon? I sincerely doubt it's quantum physics.

Is their a standardisation of mental age according to sign/element though ?
One being the highest, Leo licking the window always ?

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LMAO Good point sir. Ohhhh, my. My sisters will roast me slowly over a pit, but that was hilarious.

True, true. 'Damn the engines, full speed ahead' and 'Is that an iceberg?' come to mind. 🙂

I am not alone. *snicker snort* The necklace was tres tacky in any event. 🙂

And her heart did indeed go on ( and on..and on..just like the song..hand me a fork Bling, it's for the best ). 😄

Oh, you know.. money.. presents.. the nice house/car... the ego-boost from having this man drooling after her and totally pussy-whipped.. Daddy issues and her own insecurities.. boredom.. just seeing how far she can make him go.. something to piss her parents off.. something to giggle about with her girlfriends

Cuz the guys HER age.. (you know, the ones she's fucking when she's gone "cold" on ol' Leo there!).. they don't have the mack daddy duckets .. they don't WANT to spend their cash on her, even if they HAD that kinda dough. They often live with Mommy and/or Daddy themselves, or have some crappy place they share with some other dude(s) to afford the rent at all. They drive crappy cars, unless Mom & Dad co-signed for the car loan.. until the repo man finds it, that is. Plus, 24 year old girls are a dime a dozen to 24 year old guys.. she ain't special, so of course they don't treat her as special.. she's just another Laydown Sally, something Leo keeps forgetting. She's nothing to her peer group.. she's only something to that Daddy-figure.. and her games are working so much better with him.

So after she's gotten her fill of "strong young backs".. she's back for a bit of that $ $ sugar and ego-boost, and just in time to make sure she keeps Leo hooked and doesn't lose him to another girl yet. Cuz he's been talking about getting her that boob job she wants, and you know five grand isn't that easy to come by!

24 year olds don't hook up with 43 year olds out of "love" or anything noble or beautiful.. it's sordid, it's ugly, she's using him as much as he's using her, and they both need psychiatric counseling to fix the root causes of their monumental personal issues.

Posted by Strider

Posted by Batuk
you lack the finesse, you are not that interesting and probably the only thing drawing her to you is your easy going nature. You've become a red carpet for her.

That`s what exactly Leos do!!!! They lack intelligence!

"That's exactly what Leos do !!" Also your second sentence makes absolutely no sense in relation to your first . Learn some sentence structure stupid bitch .

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Hey, Strider.. the first sentence wasn't hers, she was quoting KoL.. might explain the glaring incongruity! 🙂

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Nefer for your next birthday I'm gonna let you taste my 27 year old cock 😄

Uhh... thanks, I'll be.. uhh.. counting down the days? Bring the chloroform.

x/2 +7 = not an okay standard for me 😛

You're sick.. but you are funny 🙂

He doesn't like Pisces either. I think I might cry 😢

Dang... why all the hate for Leos? I wasnt aware I was so hated around here. And Im not stupid either! 😢

Why does everyone assume that because he's 43 he's going to die having sex for crying out loud!!!!—

Wow....thanks for the comments....I'm only on page 4 and have to leave, but I'll be back later to harness the anger.

LOL

My only question to this point is this: if I hadn't mentioned the age, would it have made a difference?

I lied: Ladies..... did someone forget to tell George Clooney that he wasn't allowed to date younger women? 🙂 How about Harrison Ford?

Its easy to claim that this is all about 'daddy issues' and 'mental problems'...but alas, its been going on since the dawn of time and will continue to go on. Not all younger women hate older men.

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Dang... why all the hate for Leos? I wasnt aware I was so hated around here. And Im not stupid either! 😢

Why does everyone assume that because he's 43 he's going to die having sex for crying out loud!!!!—

Thanks LeoLady... I had no idea I was this hated either...I'm deinitely not in everyday life...but WOW....

And believe it or not....this 'relationship' hasn't been about sex.....I know....shocking 😉

Posted by LibraLuv

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Dang... why all the hate for Leos? I wasnt aware I was so hated around here. And Im not stupid either! 😢

Why does everyone assume that because he's 43 he's going to die having sex for crying out loud!!!!—

If it's an consolation. I don't hate leo's. My dad was one and I have them as friends. I'm also feeling you on the
"He's 43 he's going to die having sex." That was definitely a non truth.

However, him dating a chick half his age. Why would he have any questions at all in regards to her behaviour of not being ready to settle? *shrugs* I have nothing further to add to this topic. I'll let the experts on Astrology take over this one.

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Haha... thanks girl... esp on the sex issue. I do have my issues with the age difference too. You are right about that, he should understand that at her age she is probably only acting liking a typical girl her age.. Libra or not.

Posted by THEKingofLibra
"LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved"

Seriously? I have to be the one to point this out? You worked long on those abs, years of religious workouts, proper dieting, routine. Your name alone screams vanity. You participated in a bikini contest even though women your age don't necessarily normally do it. Your profile pic looks like you are dressed for prom, and at a mere idea that this is against Leos you perked your head in and graced us with your objections.

Its obvious that you are still stuck in your 20's trying to maintain the physique, the life style , getting compliments from younger guys who would love to fuck you. You want attention and those training seasons and competitions are a great way to hear shallow compliments being tossed around by your fellow kind of beefheads. You associate yourself with the OP and you feel like this is a personal attack against YOU. Your core beliefs and your self image are being directly challenged. Now you gonna deny all these allegations and deflect, project, and when all else fails you'll just disappear for a while waiting for the topic to be forgotten and resurface under a yet another different name.

My name alone screams vanity, THEKingofLibra— Really—?? And you obviously know nothing of the type of competitions that I do, but you are right... I have worked years to be healthy and in shape because it's my preference and it's a life style that I chose to live. Im definitely not stuck in my 20's sweetheart, Im proud to be almost 40 and I embrace it. That much you are wrong about.

Furthermore, I did not feel it was a "personal" attack against ME... but it was an attack against my sun sign and if I feel that I want to comment on it I will. Just as you do on EVERY single LIBRA topic that arises, because you ARE THEKingofLibra. It is an astrology board... for crying out loud lighten up! Why do you always have to attack everyone with such anger and foul language?

And fwiw... I have NEVER changed my screen name in the two plus years that I belonged to this board.

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
I always feel as if I am very unique. Unlike a lot of Leos that I know.

So you stab a guy standing next to you and take his crown? Somehow you defended the Leo as a sign here, but you detested the OP. You saying "yeah Leos are great, this guy is a weirdo. Don't lump me in with him, I'm cool."

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Where in the hell did I call anyone a weirdo??

That's your translation not mine.

And my boyfriend is 43.

Yes KOL... this personal. Because I personally know all you here and you personally know me.

Now, are your scales balanced? Glad I could help.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
*passes fork*


She probably was a crack whore before being an OAP and after the wreckage.
🙂

Unfortunately I had to go to work and missed this prime bit of hilarity. Excellent Bling, as usual. ( OAP...LMAO ) More tea? Or is this an evening where something more substantial is required.

Sorry, Im fresh out of duct tape. Which I would surely need for your mouth. 🙂

And for the record my little rose buds..most of my sisters are Lionesses. They are magnificent women, every one of them. AS IS LEOLADY. She's a stand up lady. She handles her bidness and looks mighty damned good doing it....sic' em' Killah.

Hi VB!!! MY lovely bullette!!! Im not trying to fight. I was just trying to be playful. Its no fun around here anymore! Everybody is so mean these days. 😢

Shooo' woman, I know that. — I don't get why it has to be a danged sign war. As a matter of fact, I wasn't even looking at the fact that he was a Leo, just an older man hung up on a younger female. Which makes me wonder why? Always my big glowing question. WHY?

Unfortunately it happens a lot. I know a lot of people in real life that are couples like this (older man/younger woman) seems to be a trend. I dont necessarily agree with it, but it's hard to judge people when it works for them. Sometimes it does I suppose, however it doesnt appear to be working too well in this particular case.

My moms 34 and my step dad is...56 I believe.....yea he's 56.

I was just smelling the dichotomy of 'playboy life style '..edging away from it, wrapped up with a bow ( and a kiss I might add ... ) that whom he was hung up on was 24 years of age. If you tilt your head softly to the left, close your eyes softly and take it in..it's a gentle whiff. Similar to a farm in high August. Just there and gone again; that quickly.

That aside, I think whatever works for two is absolutely ducky. HOWEVER this is not working. Not for him, nor for her. She is free to do as she pleases, because he ALLOWS it. He has set no boundaries for this swooning maiden fluffing her curls on her hope chest, she knows precisely how far she can play Daddy-O and he won't say shit if he's a mouth full. And WHY is that exactly? Is she so over the top charming that he can see nothing else, is she so winsome that not even the sun at its zenith can match her? NOPE, it's because she's playing him. Ya hear that Lion, she's playing ya! And you're LETTING HER. ROAR FFS MAN! Grab those cojones with pride and put your damned foot down, or this child will continue to play ya!

Hehehehee, it's a poop thing. Very Taurean. 😄 MOO.

How DARE someone snap a pic of me in an introspective and artsy moment? Thanks heaps KOL, now it's on the internet for everyone to see.

Posted by Batuk

That`s what exactly Leos do!!!! They lack intelligence!

Wow what an ignorant, jerk opinion you have. Some of the smartest people I know are leos. I'm surprised this leo even likes the girl. Libras come off as very stupid and selfish. Leo's are hot and libras are just clingy. Pfft!

Well first things first:

This place has quite the collection of personalities....from outright insults to nothing constructive....

Second, it is always the same feedback when it comes to age gap relationships: the women in my age group start insulting and telling you're crazy and have issues. The make fun, stereotype, etc. Ugh....... nothing different here.

I'm all Leo and not getting played. I prefer younger women for several reasons.....if that is a "Leo" thing, than so be it.....however, you will note that some of the world's top leaders, actors, athletes, etc. prefer younger women. I also happen to believe it takes me a great deal longer to mature and know how to treat a woman. The best relationships I know are age gap relationships.

Also, why all the Leo hate? Weird. How would you truly know a person's character from a message board. I doubt anyone would say these things if they knew me in person.

I'm still working my way through all the slams....but I'll eventually catch up.

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Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Batuk

That`s what exactly Leos do!!!! They lack intelligence!

Wow what an ignorant, jerk opinion you have. Some of the smartest people I know are leos. I'm surprised this leo even likes the girl. Libras come off as very stupid and selfish. Leo's are hot and libras are just clingy. Pfft!

Well consider the source of the comment.

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I have never seen anything else posted from Batuk. I rarely frequent the libra bored as I literally have to peel them off of me. My guess is she's not very smart tho. Oh well, she'll learn..maybe.

And yeah I'm kinda thinking this might be another troll too. Those dang trolls, setting traps in which to catch drama and letting us stew in our arguments while they run off, never to return...or maybe they are, just as other aliases. Hmm.... >.>

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by DaringHart13
Well first things first:

This place has quite the collection of personalities....from outright insults to nothing constructive....

Second, it is always the same feedback when it comes to age gap relationships: the women in my age group start insulting and telling you're crazy and have issues. The make fun, stereotype, etc. Ugh....... nothing different here.

I'm all Leo and not getting played. I prefer younger women for several reasons.....if that is a "Leo" thing, than so be it.....however, you will note that some of the world's top leaders, actors, athletes, etc. prefer younger women. I also happen to believe it takes me a great deal longer to mature and know how to treat a woman. The best relationships I know are age gap relationships.

Also, why all the Leo hate? Weird. How would you truly know a person's character from a message board. I doubt anyone would say these things if they knew me in person.

I'm still working my way through all the slams....but I'll eventually catch up.

If I may offer a personal observation.. you read slow.

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If you work your way back through the thread you would see I left for hours..... 😉

But your opinion is welcome...although, again....is there anything useful here?

"I personally enjoy this one of you better. It really captures the essence "

Awwwww you noticed. *blushing*

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Kitsune don't talk about intelligence of others. First your spelling is atrocious for a college junior, and second you are a Christian. Thats two strikes that qualify you for a Darwin award.

Ooo I'm sorry I forget mentioning libras are clingy upsets you. Well sorry, but I can't change how they act around me. And yes leos are very intelligent, and sexy...unlike libras.

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Kitsune don't talk about intelligence of others. First your spelling is atrocious for a college junior, and second you are a Christian. Thats two strikes that qualify you for a Darwin award.

Ooo I'm sorry I forget mentioning libras are clingy upsets you. Well sorry, but I can't change how they act around me. And yes leos are very intelligent, and sexy...unlike libras.

I take it you've administered the 35 different intelligence tests to all the Leos and Libras in a controlled setting to backup that claim?

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Don't need a test to see most libras are very unintelligable. I've never once received good advice from a libra. Every leo friend I have has given me exceptional advice. I can come to them with a problem and they will tell me what exactly I need to do, and they don't sugar coat it. I take their advice and I'm satisfied with the results. Leos are also very mature for their age. Libras? Not so much. At least not the ones I know.

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Posted by happykitsune
Don't need a test to see most libras are very unintelligable. I've never once received good advice from a libra. Every leo friend I have has given me exceptional advice. I can come to them with a problem and they will tell me what exactly I need to do, and they don't sugar coat it. I take their advice and I'm satisfied with the results. Leos are also very mature for their age. Libras? Not so much. At least not the ones I know.

unintelligable? The fuck are you trying to say?

What good advise did you receive from Leos that you couldn't quantitatively receive from a Libra? What kind of nail polish would get you laid? I noticed you would defend whatever cock you happen to suck at the present. Before you sucked up to Scorpios, now you seeing a Leo. Its really sad that you call yourself a Sag, when clearly you are mostly a Capricorny little bitch 🙂

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I do have a lot of capricorn in my chart and proud of it. Love them sea rams. And I support scorpios too. I've always supported both. Both are amazing signs, male and female. I don't sway on what I think of them, nor do I sway on what I think of libras. I've always thought of libras as clingy, and you know this. I have a best friend who is a libra and I love her to death. I like libras, but they still insist on being up in my space. Not only that, I've noticed with the guys if you don't want to be with them and just want to be friends they will either get clingier or they'll flat out stop talking to you. Even my libra friend told me she purposely stopped talking to a guy once after she had made out with him because she didn't want to deal with it...dunno what that's all about. What's wrong with being friends? Heh..Some friends. With leos I could break up with them and we'd still be friends. In fact they prefer we remain friends. And they're loyal friends too. Libras loyal? Forget about it. Yeah you guys are great to bring to a party, but at the end of the night I won't even consider counting on you to be the responsible one. And yes I'll take care of you cus I care, but I'd rather you take care of yourself like an adult and quit relying on other people because you're to drunk to even stand or realize you've just fucked some guy you don't know.

Well I'm done venting. Hate me all you want, b

"Second, it is always the same feedback when it comes to age gap relationships: the women in my age group start insulting and telling you're crazy and have issues. The make fun, stereotype, etc. Ugh....... nothing different here."

Crazy or not, issues or not..d'ya think perhaps it's because we've seen just as much as you have and can smell the shit storm brewing? Always a complete possible. Think about it. UNLIKE a younger woman we don't find it necessary to cow tow or bow to a mans ego, stroke his neurons in complete thrall because we know better. You're just as human and just as full of bull pies as everyone else. A MAN in other words. No diamond dust or Chanel #5 erupts from your golden orifice, and those feet are most definitely made of clay.

"I'm all Leo and not getting played. I prefer younger women for several reasons.....if that is a "Leo" thing, than so be it.....however, you will note that some of the world's top leaders, actors, athletes, etc. prefer younger women. I also happen to believe it takes me a great deal longer to mature and know how to treat a woman. The best relationships I know are age gap relationships."

It's an arm candy thing, a societal thing. If you prefer fluff, have at it. And I'll be here to tell you that men either *get* how to treat a woman, or they do not. Whether they're 25, 55, or 75. And can you indeed track all these stellar relationships and also give divorce ratios? Because all that says to me is another wealthy douchebag lined up at the candy counter and saying "Gimme the shiny one." Like I said before, what works for two is perfectly alright, but at the end of the day d'ya really think some unlined miss is gonna flounce breathlessly to your side to change your shitty diaper and tenderly wipe your wrinkly balls? Or do you think she might be out back with Juan, the poolboy, while you're taking another hit off the ol' oxygen tank? Gee Bob, I'll go with option NUMMAH TWO. If you think age doesn't matter, guess again.

Sarabi most definitely Nala is NOT. Good morning LibraLuv! 🙂 😉

Wow... so I'm learning quickly that this is just a forum for slamming other people? Or is it just the mighty Leo's that run the world? LOL LOL

LibraLuv...... respectfully you're wrong.

Also, to quote the great Don Drap of Mad Men ..."you're born alone, you die alone....everything in between is just rules"

LOL....I don't care what your sign is....we all have the same eventuality. If your taste is women your age: great! If its younger: great! If you're gay: great! ............. you're wasting your time and projecting your own issues to insult people for what they choose to do with your life.

But then again....the Libra is indecisive, no? 😉

Everyone's situation is different.....however, when a very attractive woman continues to chase ME....its worth the question. I'm sorry it stabs at the more 'mature' ladies here.....I expected that type of feedback....afterall, you don't think I posted the age gap by accident do you? 😉 And "no"....I don't pursue her..... its the other way around. We date other people (including people my age) and she always gravitates back to me. Her family likes me as well... as I'm a gentlemen and a professional.

I don't need to answer name calling or silly Lion King references.... people either love a high character leader type....or they don't. Nothing new here. Never will be. Resorting to sarcasm and name calling is the typical response to an insecurity. I respect that..... carry on.

Any other feedback welcome.... I'm fascinated by all the emotion on this subject. But as you might guess....as a Leo.... I love myself a lot LOL LOL

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Posted by happykitsune

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Kitsune don't talk about intelligence of others. First your spelling is atrocious for a college junior, and second you are a Christian. Thats two strikes that qualify you for a Darwin award.

Ooo I'm sorry I forget mentioning libras are clingy upsets you. Well sorry, but I can't change how they act around me. And yes leos are very intelligent, and sexy...unlike libras.

ehmmmm ur point of view... leo men and also women are so damn ugly... the women still cover their ugliness with tons of make up so u dont actually see it, and a lot of plastic surgery too... but men can hardly get any better... all the leo males i saw, and dont say hollywood actors like antonio banderas, but real leo men... they are REALLY VERY VERY UGLY... unlike hollywood libran men that are ugly and the real men are handsome, at least thats what i think, i dont know must be the inner beauty of librans that makes u like them, more than a selfish and egocentric leo... maybe u are just more compatible with leos...

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I am more compatible with leos. They are the most compatible with me.

Most of the leos I know are good looking. And no not all of the females cake on their make up. My suitemate who is a leo barely wears any make up and she is beautiful

Posted by oldskoolflavor
*was, not is

happykitsune
looks like she was having a - like Xtina Ag, I'm a bad girl & I don't give a fuck - moment

Of course 😉 These board are just plain boring lately. Gotta have some fun.

Posted by Strider
LOL stfu you whiny bitch . You are just jealous that he gets more poontag than you . You are always whining about sex and showing us all how much of a loser you are . Getting repeatedly rejected from all the dxp ladies ? King of Libras?! more like "King of fags" .

Would agree. He is constantly on these boards. I will go off to do my daily rituals and on the first page there is always some post that has his name on it or I will see a post that I find interesting and find that he's been yammering away for the past 6 hrs... sooo obviously he has no time for sex. Quit talking about it KOL and go have some. Obviously you're not a Christian so you have no morals. Why not eat, drink, and be marry. Go have as much sex as you can cus tom you may be dead.

"Everyone's situation is different.....however, when a very attractive woman continues to chase ME....its worth the question. I'm sorry it stabs at the more 'mature' ladies here.....I expected that type of feedback....afterall, you don't think I posted the age gap by accident do you?"

Given your mental acuity I'd say 'no'. And it 'stabs' at me not at all. "Mature", never a detriment. If you think that is a slam, guess again. At least you recognized that much.
You are a dime a dozen' grasping for youth, needing a boost to prove your manhood when it should never be in question. I think I can honestly say one such as you would prove so overly high maintenance in general needing constant ego stroking that I'd barely have time to scour the sink. You've not one clue what a woman is. Not really.
Enjoy the crutch, you certainly need one there Tiny Tim..and God bless us..every one.

Yep. I do believe it's called a 'fluffer' in the biz. 😛

Posted by amethyst2002
He jacks off porn stars?

LOL Nope. I was thinking of her special role in this stew of delight. "OH let me...how can I but serve...allow me too...may I...lemme help you out...I'm sure I can..."

Mmmmm I'll trust that. That and I saw a silver dryer hose. 😉