'Lib' Fem + 'Can' Man -- compatibility chart read?

hey umm are you talking about a cancer man and libra woman —
cuz if you are I
think that we can help eachother ?

well i met a libra woman not to long ago and she seems to really like spending time with me
and i do as well !
its ovious that we both like each others company but I KNOW that now this isint just an instant attraction ...
i really do like her and ive told her this .... and she got really shy but she said that "that was her just beeng a gurl" lol
but anyways i doo talk to her regurlarly and we have great conversations but our most recent one
made ME think ...... she said that "i make her think" and I asked about what and she said "i dont know" heheha
i really wonder what it could be ... im sure if i was negative what she was thinking ... she would of known already but thats just my opinoin ..........


so any thoughts of our friendship that I was to take to the next level lol
btw
yes imma very open person
and im a Cancer -and i kno' that thouse signs dont really match but w.e.
i know how i feel about her

yeah !!! omgsh!!! this gurl is so beautifull! screw horoscopes lol
but what suprises me is that shes so open with me !
she told me yesterday that if she werent a lil buzzed shed kiss me .... because she gets stubbour when she drinks heheha
PPL tell me to take charge and take some risks becasue if she let me in this much, it wont hurt to go in further into our friendship
but to just give her her space sometimes .... so idunno (if u dont mind)
what does you partner think or at that , what do you think
is it that shes shy ? and nervous >?

hye sry but gtg to work
ill love talking to u ill ba back tommorow k but thx txh thx alot ttyt

heheha nah i just read it but i dont really belive it now ...
cuz i dated a scorpio for 3 years and it was great but some stupid site said that
we werent THAT good of a match
WTF!!
anyways i just want to know if i should be a certan way arround libras cuz
she told me that shes stuburn sometimes but she would want me to sorta take charge ?
i hope that kida made scence?

Im libra and i dated a cancer man for 5 months..of hell!! Much better as friends, good luck!

yeaH why was it soo bad —?? hummmm

Well, he was always making me jealous and manipulating me with his childlike behaviour..he was 28!! Ad then when i'd had enough he clung on for his life..it was terrible. But we're still friendly when we see each other now...i know he regrets his behaviour, but i know he'll never change.

Sorry!

ohhhhh I see !
well i guess that your right
we cancers are manipullating to a point but .... i like to think of myself as the ULTIMATE C ANCER !
because i know that ...if we:cancers arein a relationship wth soeone thats playfull and immature at times ..we actually turn even more immature ...but i know that i dont do that know ... and i learn to rid of my jelous ways and grudges that i had towards different people .... and yeah i know i was clinggy to my ex but ... i did ine thing that no cancers doo !!!!!!!!!!
I CHOSE TO LET HER GO after lots of fight over our 3 year long relationship ..... i finnally decited that what ever she does it ok with me cuz shes her own person and she can live her life and i learned to respect her space and privacy ... and if it was ment to be ..than it shall hapen again ..... yay! for me SUPER CANCER! .....but anyways
i think that with all my knoledge i can make it work wth this Libra gurl....yea....shes awesome
well if you dont mind ...would you tell me somethings that might help streng-then our relationship??
i know that i have to be more open minded with her and more sociable ... but anythibng else


thx

ps. sry my speling suxx its becasue i just woke up ... graveyard shift ...

Cancer's failure is when they try to walk in other persons shoes. They assume a lot of things about the other person and most times its only 60-70% right. Then they blindly follow some ethics they learned from sunday school or such terrible places where everyone lies to control the crowd. Normally its a whole series of principles and laws they gathers from many many places which is often contradictory in nature. They happen to believe all those are big laws of life and try to fit each and every situation into that structure of ethics which irritates a libra who already know its gonna mess up things. Best thing about them is their work ethics. I haven't met a power hungry cancer yet.

"They happen to believe all those are big laws of life and try to fit each and every situation into that structure of ethics which irritates a libra who already know its gonna mess up things. Best thing about them is their work ethics. I haven't met a power hungry cancer yet." - thelibran

OMGSH that was sooo god but can you please just refraze that really quick plz
into a way a 19 yr old can better understand it plz plz

thx

but good point about the whole :irritating thing ...cuz i kno' im a pretty funny gyu but i dunno wheather i should be al jokes and fun with this libra girl or to be a the more mature side of me that I have —?

help plz!..... LOL

thx

You are a nice guy as what you are. But dont expect to go with a libra and find her truly happy. If you want her to be happy and be herself, you find a scorp or pisces girl.

My old crush from school(libra) ended up romancing a cancer guy and married him and figured out its all complicated. Just to avoid hurting him, she is trying to keep a happy face. Though its her first and last love, she know something is not right.

lame.......... but somehow your right kinda ....... i did date a scop gurl for like 3 years and we had a pretty bad break-up
and ppl tell me to give it time .... and i could maybe make it work again .... blah .... what should i doo !!!!
cuz i know that i really like this libra chic ...is there no hope because of these damn horoscopes !?!!

Can u insist on living in sahara desert and expect good rainfall and tropical forests around?? Its jus the way nature has designed few things. You play along the safest path, u get what u truly need. often this need can be far away from what you think you want to be happy. You might try to chase what u think you want and often end up in misery....

gosh ... srsly your wisdom is truely amazing ....but man that suxx for me .....
but hey thanks for that ..but beeing a SUpeR Cancer i will see were things go from here
and i'll definatly give you guys an update
wish me luck !!!!!!!!!!!!

"What laws are you taking about dear? i think you made that up."

The laws of astrology/nature. The differences in the way people are both built and understand the world. Libra and Cancer do not match up in this regard. Love conquers all, that is true. If you want something bad enough you can make it work, the problem is Libra wants a relationship to be easy, a mutual understanding and connection that makes everything flow smoothly. This leaves a ton of energy to take on all of the other things Libras want to take on because the majority of their energy is not going into "making a relationsip works" as it "just works". Libras are interresting creatures in the way of romance and love. We are very romantic, but it is an intillectual kind of romance, not a deep emotional kind of romance. the emotional security comes from being on the same wavelength and in so, we can be ourselves and not have to think twice about how it will affect the other person, or how the other person will view what we are doing. This is very important to us, very. We don't want to be disected and to be "understood" in the way that a lot of emotional signs want to understand something. We are who we are, we mean what we say and say what we mean and we do what we want....and this all depends on having that easy understanding in a relationship. With other signs, very emotional signs, we are who the other person wants us to be, we say what we need to to try to make the other person feel secure and we do what we can without upsetting them. The former is the world of Libra/Libra, Libra/Gemini, Libra/Aquarius and in some cases Libra/Sag and Libra/Taurus........the former is everyone else.

A lot of us Libras wan't to have this understanding with someone else. Their person exudes something we see as good and pure but the connection just isn't there on the level that we know we need to be truely happy, to be truely naked with the other person. A lot of times we will continue to try at the sacrafice of our own happiness....like in the situaiton the Libran mentioned with the Libra girl and the Cancer guy. But in the end, it wasn't the best possible match, and we are the sign of interpersonal perfection....we won't realize happiness until that perfection exists..not because we can force it to, but because it does naturually.

We are fighters, not afraid of a struggle to reach our objective but when we come home that is our place to rejouvinate so we can press on...not to struggle more.

nice!
man you really know your stuff
but as me beeing a Cancer .......
i will and have chaged for people just to be happy (i know its sad but true ...we all do it )
but thanks for all the advice and guidence srsly

Well said Nic... 🙂

You can change a lot but only if you know you have to change. Libra girl wont let you know that. And you will get lost trying to understand her complex nature behind that calm and friendly face. You can chase her down and have all for yourself if you are so much obsessed. But if you really care about her happiness in the long run, better dont be selfish.

"nice!
man you really know your stuff"

He sure does!!!!!