Libra and Scorpio confused in love with Two Cancer

The Libra has been dating a Cancer Born June 22nd for the last five years
>..JUST DATING we go to exclusive restaurants and he treats me very well ...BUT and I must say but he acts as if I am his GIRLFRIEND/WOMAN and then on another day he acts as if we are just the best of friends or for days upon days we don't even speak ...... this relationship
>is very weird because he acts as if their is something he is holding back
>which makes it hard for him to commit I do not understand him and at this
>point I would rather walk away from him rather than add another five years
>to this weird situation ....
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>The Scorpio has been dating a Cancer born July 13th for the last year
>......... Just Dating, barely speaking, who even knows what's going on, he
>acts so cold, but then he acts like he wants to be with me but something is
>standing in the way. We get along very well, we enjoy the same activities and are very attracted to each other. He knows that I care, I've been very sweet and caring.
>Still giving him the space he needs, but he still seems to be running away.
>It can't be just sex, since he's a good catch himself!!! So why is this still
>going on? How can a man that you have been dealing with for this amount of
>time, act cold, desire you but say no to intimacy (as if it was brand
>new)....giving you the explanations like "I want you, but something is not right,
>I don't know how I feel"!!! When did he develop feelings? I want to tell him
>I love him, but don't want to get hurt. Do I stick this out or move on?
>Please help us.
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>Please help because we don not understand these confuse individuals
>..should we wait or should we go out separate ways —
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>Thank you
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>Libra and Scorpio

Both of you should wait for sometime, let the time pass and then see if still both the Cancers behave the sameway, then I think you should ask them what exactly do they want ? Do they love you as much as you love them or not - ask them
.. I hope this helps..
No matter what you do, remember, a relationship can be saved when sometime is given to it.. 🙂

Yep, I agree: Put your cards on the table.

I have a VERY close relationship with a Cancer July, 13th as well. They love to be babied. When we met, I knew he liked me from day one. He didn't pull this no contact thing that I hear about so often from people who date Cancers. I've heard stories that they are hard to understand, etc. Never happened to me.

But I guess, I made it pretty clear what my intentions were. I liked him and it wasn't casual. He got that point from the begining.

Yes, I liked him from day one but I wasn't a push-over. I gave him plently of attention but when I had stuff to do, I didn't put it off just to be with him. He knew I had my own life as well and I think he liked my independance.

But look, in ANY relationship, if time is passing and you feel that you are in limbo, just put your cards on the table and be done with it. Tell him/her how you feel and ask what their intentions are.

This doesn't mean that you are falling all over yourself over them, it just means that you don't have time for guessing games. Structure it in such a way as that it will almost sound matter-of-fact, don't drool all over yourself.

A situation is only as complicated as you make it. If you don't act too emotional, the person you are speaking to isn't going to find the situation emotional either. They will read off of you and it won't scare them off. Don't worry.

Good luck!