Libra bf keeps on disappearing.....

He's a libra & i am a pisces. We have been in a relationship since about 6 months now, but he just keeps on going cold and disappears. Like totally stops communicating.I am going sick and tired of it all. it's hurting and i don't know whats the solution. i love him very much but i am not too sure about him. i am currently away from him and studying in vienna, he's in Nyc, so it becomes almost impossible for me to talk to him when he disappears. i am worried that if this keeps on going on, we will break up. It doesnt even make sense, like why is he doing this — when hes done with his break, its all amazing and going smoothly.

I'm shocked to hear about a Libra male doing this while already in the relationship. I??ve heard of them doing it, when someone it's trying to —get?? them in a relationship, never after the fact. Hmm.

Honestly I??d be worried too. It can only be one or two reason he's dipping in out like that. One reason could be to protect himself from being too attached (Note: this reason only applies if you are often away from one another) A Libra will protect themselves by disappearing and cutting all contact, leaving you to make all the moves. It may seem selfish, and if we are pushed to that point I??ll tell you that's exactly what it is. At that point we are no longer thinking of you, we are thinking of the best way not to get ourselves hurt.

Another reason could be, that he's losing interest in you. He's up and down about his feelings. One minute he's like —Man, she really likes me. I like her too, she's seems cool. I'm going to make this thing happen with her.?? (this is when things are good) The next minute he's like —But is she THE ONE for me though. Can I do better? Hmm, I need time to think.?? (This is when he becomes distant). (Note: A libra craves companionship. The —idea?? of a loving full-filling relationship is pure bliss to us. The actual act of it however, is a whole other concept, and we often get scared to death if we can't make up our mind. Hence the disappearing occurs.)

I have to agree with Pinklibra

When a libra man makes u his woman, it's pretty much lock and key at this point

Are u sure that u guys are a couple, I mean no disrespect, but libra men are pretty official once they have you and they want to keep u, u'll know if you have meet all his friends or some of them, you have met his family members, even co-workers, the reason I say that is because libras are very much into their family and friends and if u haven't met them yet, your not in the clear, your still in the test phase

The libra man is still in think mode, not good if you guys are apart, u got those scales thinkng all knds of things that are not good, case and point, the disappearing act, and when it comes to libras they always have an exit plan in place if things do not balance right, and right now it's not balance.

Your gonna have to talk to your libra and make sure you guys are on the same page, don't by any means push anything on the libra, not a good look for ya, if you have to make him think more than he has too, he will shut you out, if you can't balance your libra, even when he is bad, u will repeat this cycle until u leave him, and that is probably what he wants just so he doesn't have to.

Remember libras are very logical, if u do more than what he is doing, it's not balance, there is a trick to getting a libra, but I'm afraid that is something you are gonna have to figure out, only because it has to be natural, not a game, cause lets face it libras can play hard, and if ur not careful, they will have ur head spin, even worst when they put the charm on ya

Libra all do this ! ... I am shocked to read the same story from everybody dating with a Libra here.... They drive you crazy with their behaviors, disappearing and appearing when they think ... Is crazy ... I can image what you feel as I am in the same situation.
And is not true, they don't do this only when someone try to "get" them ina relationship, they do this always . I read story from a woman who was amrried with a Libra and they have a child of only 2-3 months and he disappeared from home...... Libra no have conscience ! They acting as their empty brain tell them to acting 😢 After that they appear and everything come back at normal, but in time , if you support this always, it will make you suffer and sad a lot . Is weird their comportament 😢