Libra dominants and Libras with other air placements,

Do you ever feel as if you're more connected to the idea of being in a deep relationship, but when push comes to shove the real thing scares you? I'm Taurus dominant, my most important Taurus placement being my Venus. So don't get me wrong, when I commit I do it FULL ON. However, I'm a Gem Mars in the ninth, Libra moon and Libra ascendant. Air is also my first dominant element. So I can be a bit flighty, unless I absolutely want that person. And I detach; I've had men that I dated call me the guy in the relationship before lol, with the way I closed myself off to them.
I recently broke up with my Gemini dominant, Scorp Mars boyfriend because it was far too rushed for me and I wasn't prepared; I just kept feeling panicked. So I had to be honest with him before we got too deep -- he deserved to know that I felt trapped.
So anyway, just curious if any of you with Libra placements and/or who are air dominant/Libra dominant understand what I mean.

Absolutely sister, you are not alone.

As a fellow Libra with our obvious Air sign, we are easy-breezy but also flighty if a situation stresses us out if we're not ready to commit (Libras do like to have options after all!) I agree if I am truly into someone I will take the initiative to go after them and be loyal, but if I am backed in a corner for any reason, I will feel pressured and stressed. This happened to me with a Sagittarius back then. The connection was phenomenal and he gave me a spark like no other with his need of adventure and being spontaneous, however he was WAY too quick to commit and I had to end it because he was not giving our relationship at the time the proper time to evolve and grow. So yes, I do agree with you.