Libra gives a reason and vanishes!!

So, I'm a Virgo girl and I sort of have feelings for a Libra man I've been texting and talking over phone for the past 3 months. The thing is I haven't been in a relationship for the past 2 years or haven't even tried dating since my last breakup with an Aquarius man, so the whole dating things feels new to me all over again. When the libra guy started talking to me he tried his best to break the shell and make me feel free with him but I couldn't for a long time and even now in certain ways I am not able to open up or behave the way he want's things. We spoke a lot, he even promised me a date, we did not meet due to distance. Now he has disappeared, he says he is in some moving process due to which he is busy and right before he disappeared, he was texting all weird and as if he didn't care about me anymore. I am a virgo girl and I kind of lost patience and have completely shut him off but I miss him at times but I am not able to text or call him since he said he would text back once he was free, I didn't wanna behave clingy or let him know that I miss him. Do you guys think he will get back? It's been a long time I've felt the way I do right now.

Signs look like no.

It takes seconds to text and if he were interested he would find the time to do so. Sounds like you got the brush off.

If I like someone, I'd keep in touch.

Move on. If he reaches out? Ignore.

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Posted by jeane
Signs look like no.

It takes seconds to text and if he were interested he would find the time to do so. Sounds like you got the brush off.

I really don't agree. 90% of me not being able to text is when I am moving. In my case, I don't have phone service cause it's pretty much just as expensive as a mild smoking habit and just as pointless when you can use WiFi. So for all you know, that is what he is using.

Not to mention when on a new journey, we libra like to be mentally immersed in the transition, ride, and destination. We need our priorities straight otherwise we are so busy texting some chick that we forget down to earth details.

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Possibly. I just know for myself if I was interested in someone I would drop everything for them to keep in touch. Text, email, Facebook, instagram, carrier pigeon, even a handwiritten letter!

Maybe as we often hear, the guys are different to the women.

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Posted by jeane
Possibly. I just know for myself if I was interested in someone I would drop everything for them to keep in touch. Text, email, Facebook, instagram, carrier pigeon, even a handwiritten letter!

Maybe as we often hear, the guys are different to the women.

We are just smarter. Like I said, we get like that and unlike women we cant let it make us into bums who lounge around.

Besides, if he truly isn't interested. He won't be back. That would answer her question anyways.

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Yes, you seem smarter.

Virgo/Libra is tough because Libra needs reciprocation/balance (we show love but only if we get it), and Virgos hide their feelings for a while until they're sure about someone (so the initial process is often 1-sided).

The connection between the two signs is often there (great conversational connection between them), but that was definitely a problem with with Virgo girls I've talked to in the past. I could tell that they had feelings for me but they'd never outright admit it. Hell, sometimes they'd outright say they don't, but all their actions (and words from mutual friends) would tell me opposite (often right after that). Either way, it'd get exhausting to where I'd just move on, and she'd get hurt. If I don't hear it, it's hard for me to fully buy into it or reciprocate.