Libra Male and Capricorn Female

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Hellkatt
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Cap female and libra male

So, my friends brother has been coming over to her house almost every weekend since December. He left his home town to get clean. I am at the kids house just about every weekend as well. My kids live in two different states and I don't go to bars anymore. He and I have chatted quit a bit over this time. We laugh. ALOT! 3 weeks ago we had a fwb situation. I am a big girl, he is a small, but tall guy. Not sure if that means anything, really, bit it's out there. He has asked me two more times since. I know he is talking to other females, and don't think I'm his type, but here we are. Until we got together it had been since 2016 for me even being with a man at all. Long story and not worth getting into. He spends his weekends with us. We don't talk over text or anything during the week. I have started to really care about him and his recovery. He actually has opened up to me about alot of things. We do cuddle on his request. That's usually when he talk about important things. When others are around we joke around. He is 45 and I'm 50. What is you guys opinions on this? Help a girl out. Is it worth waiting to see what may happen?
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@Pushin' Rope

I have dated both in active addiction never in recovery.

That is part of the reason I have been completely single for so many years.

I have been divorced from my kids father over 20 years and it's hard as hell to find someone without. Like myself. And, boy do they know how to seek us caregivers out.

I'm a rescuer and I'm pretty sure I know the answer to my questions. I think it's just convenient and my feelings will probably fade in the end.
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They do recover. My brother and best friend did. 9-years for one and 25 for the other. Both have completely rebuilt their lives better than before and doing well.

I do have a problem with him talking to other women, but I haven't told him how I feel yet due to it being early in this whole adventure, so it's really not for me to ask him to stop.

I'm not saying that I won't find someone else that I am interested in around the corner and just using him to get back into the field again. I'm just here trying to find out about other Libra men and how they think.