Libra Male being manipulated in toxic relationship

I've watched over him as I saw all the warning signs happening from the moment she got back and its played out like a text book.

I know some libras don't really end relationships because you don't like hurting people you love. so you sit it out no matter how bad things get.

I just wondered if there are any libras who have had bad relationships like this and have you come out the other side? what did you learn? what did it take for you to get to breaking point to walk away? how did you snap out of the obsession and mind games and see the person for what they really are?

for me personally I have developed a sixth sense and slowly over the years my warning bells spot a manipulator from a mile off - buts it taken me years of bad friendships, bad relationships and unlearning from my childhood to understand this and develop myself as a person to be kind and sweet and not be a target for these toxic people.



I suppose I am looking for hope that this illusion she has created will come crashing down by itself.

I know my motives aren't right to interfere as im being selfish i want him to leave - which is why I haven't said anything - even though he has reached out to me a couple of times when things have gotten really really bad with her. its not right for me to get involved! I know from his friends he isn't happy but he is still obsessed by her games. I cannot try and be the reason to for him to leave. he needs to want to leave of his own accord even though its very difficult to watch it play out from the sidelines.


but my question is to other libras - have you been through something like this? how did you get out of it? and what point does someone wake up to manipulation and lies?

It's the fear of being single/not having an option or go to afterward that keeps them in situations like this, not fear of "hurting" the other person.

Find him a new girlfriend. He'll leave the bitch in no time.

@blackphase: if you have this many problems with your bf then break it off (this is my venus aries speaking). Sometimes you fall in love with the wrong person. Im actually very surprised at how you are still with him 😐 he needs to find his own way/role in life. If you're not getting what you deserve while all you do is give then its not worth it IMHO

@citygirl: just be his friend, be there for him. Thats all i can tell you